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Chantell, 53
United States, Maine, Jay

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About Me

It's always hard for me to think of ways to describe myself that don't sound goofy or cliché but I'll give it a shot and if you get past the basic description and think we have some common ideas and interests drop me a line and we'll chat. Most people consider me pretty easy to talk to and once I get to know you I'm mostly an open book that will tell you just about anything you want to know. I'm more extroverted than introverted so I think it's important to have great communication with each other but I also enjoy having quiet times together too. I'm a fun loving, adventurous person with a good sense of humor that enjoys getting the most out of life that I possibly can. I'll try anything at least once, as long as it's within reason. At the same time, I would also consider myself as a grounded, sensible, secure individual with strong moral values. My friends and family are an essential part of my life and I would do anything for them. They would tell you that I'm extremely dependable and loyal. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I'm hoping to find someone special that enjoys the same things in life that I do. I'm cautiously optimist that there are other people out there that believe having a loving and meaningful relationship with that one other special person can make a big difference in the adventures still left to come. I believe in the golden rule and think everyone should live by the honest simplicity it represents. How much easier can it be than to treat others the way you would like to be treated? I enjoy spending time outdoors in the spring, summer and fall doing just about anything. I tend to be a little more of a homebody in the colder months but depending on your idea of fun, I'm willing to bundle up and go play. I try to be healthy and active and eat right most of the time, but I'm not fanatical so I make allowances for enjoying pizza, ice cream and chips and salsa from time to time. I believe in balancing out the weekdays and a more disciplined lifestyle with the weekends and a more casual and relaxed attitude. Hopefully this gives you a little bit of an idea about who I am and what I like. If you'd like to know more just ask. For a first date I'd prefer something simple like meeting for coffee or a drink and spending a little time getting to know more about each other and how we connect. If things go well from there, I'd be interested in setting up a second date to do something we mutually enjoy. Hopefully we'll have enough ideas about what that might be after our first date to have several options to choose from.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    A litte about me....very laid back and easy to get along with. Love having fun with that special someone. I don't like playing games, so if you do please do not contact me. Most of us are on here to try and meet that special someone and not on here to lead people on until the next person to talk to comes along . I enjoy riding 4 wheelers motorcycles, horses, camping and sitting around the campfire and cuddling. Love country music and dancing. I have 2 daughters who are grown. I love being romantic and beleive in letting the person your with know everyday how special they are to you without smothering them. I am looking for someone whos is a gentleman, someone who doesnt mind showing how much he cares no matter where we are. Life is to short to spend it alone or with someone who is not your true love and best friend. I beleive you have to become friends before you can make a relationship work. Good look to everyone, I hope we all find that special someone and make alot of friends while on that journey. Depends on what we both like, but somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a littel to see if we would like to go on a date.

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  • Mildreth from Jay | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a professional person who works too much and needs to find someone to share some fun. I enjoy walking in nature, hiking through the woods rather than stay on the trail, and spent my childhood camping in Baja, CA. I like to fish and cook what I catch (if someone else cleans it)....someday. I also love being a girl...not sure why...just do. I guess life was simpler then...boy meets girl,,,they fall in love....and live happy ever after. I am a hopeless romantic and incredibly independent at the same time. I like good food, good fun and GREAT company. I would love for someone to show me around.I am seeking adventure and looking to explore my new surroundings. I have current pics posted and seek the same from anyone that contacts me. It IS only fair that I have the same opportunity to see if I am attracted to YOU. Happy fishing!! Coffee dates are best first dates. Ha...I'm also game for a good round of Laser Tag. A real gentleman will let me win :-)

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  • Tamsen from Jay | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Ok...There's a big ole hater on here that continues to flag my pics and turn me in -- they are VERY Clean and Not nasty in any way...somebody needs to get a job, get off the site or get help -- whoever is turning me in has Waaaaay to much free time!--go get a life :)Anyway..........Profile ....Profile....Profile....Hmmmmmmm....Well first and foremost -Im Not your typical woman and definately Not your normal stay at home cook and clean type . I'm a great cook and keep a clean house but i don't obsess over it and it usually easier to grab something when in out *** messing up the kitchen just for me...Im pretty self contained and very self sufficient--I have job, a plan, ambitions and I dont wait hoping someone else to do it for me-- Im a little hard headed that way ..:0)That being said-- just about anyone that's ever met me will say that I'm definately spontaneous, have a halarious sense of humor and always have a smile on my face ...I Love the Beach and it's my favorite vacation spot anytime of the year***like all kinds of Music except rap and classical -- enjoy a good live band every once in awhile and Can dance til you're wore Slap Out.....prefer being outside to indoors... Like going to the lake/ water skiing/sea doos or just a good ole ride on the pontoon---play softball and bowl--love to fish and deer hunt---On a little lighter side---I 'm Very Family oriented- love my kids dearly and always a mom first......Christian Woman (Baptist***Romantic / Faithful ... Worked my whole life ***Pretty Spunky and waaaaaay too Honest--so don't ask if you really dont want the truth :) . Non-Smoker and I prefer a guy that doesn't smoke---Love College Football and try to watch every game***ROLL TIDE ROLL!!!. I was married only once for 25 years ---my kids are grown and doing their own thing now... Like most, I'm hoping to stumble on that one of a kind "good guy " that you just happen to meet and get that gushy nervous feeling when you realize that we're both attracted to one another...Then date some , go places, do fun things together and enjoy each others company--if it developes into long term that would be great but just start one step at a time with no big expectations..., I tend to date fellas a little younger than myself because of my high energy and outgoing personality but if you have a zest for life , like to get out of the house and do things ---Send me an *** !!! What I'm looking for: Physical Attraction is First***, Family Oriented, Christian Man, Height/ Weight proportional(not 30 pounds overw***Sense of Humor, Romantic, Faithful, Social Drinker---I'm not a big drinker--Non-smoker***You Gotta be happy , share hobbies, have fun , enjoy quick getaways and you Must love the BEACH!......I'm not willing to settle for the rest of my life and you shouldn't either...For me- my time is limited -- I work a good bit and chances of falling over somebody in Walmart , Lowe's or Best Buy is slim***Soooooo ***Here I am fishing away with everybody else on here....;) Use some good bait and Drop Me A Line -- I might just bite!.....You Better set the hook and HOLD ON for dear life ...LOL..;) Nice quiet dinner in a back corner of a restuarant so we can talk and get to know each other better..plenty of time so not to be in a hurry---first dates are great--the smiles-secret glance-occasional touch when we are really telling something funny! Then--off to throw gutter balls at the local bowling alley--by this time there should be NO Shame:)..If thats not for you- maybe listen to music at a nice blues club or dancing to a live band somewhere and act a little silly, catch a movie, or take a moonlit stroll down at the riverwalk/beach.....endless things for first dates as long as everybody is on the same page!

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