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Chantell, 53
United States, Maine, Jay

Offline, last seen Mon, 02 Feb 2026 02:12:45

About Me

It's always hard for me to think of ways to describe myself that don't sound goofy or cliché but I'll give it a shot and if you get past the basic description and think we have some common ideas and interests drop me a line and we'll chat. Most people consider me pretty easy to talk to and once I get to know you I'm mostly an open book that will tell you just about anything you want to know. I'm more extroverted than introverted so I think it's important to have great communication with each other but I also enjoy having quiet times together too. I'm a fun loving, adventurous person with a good sense of humor that enjoys getting the most out of life that I possibly can. I'll try anything at least once, as long as it's within reason. At the same time, I would also consider myself as a grounded, sensible, secure individual with strong moral values. My friends and family are an essential part of my life and I would do anything for them. They would tell you that I'm extremely dependable and loyal. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I'm hoping to find someone special that enjoys the same things in life that I do. I'm cautiously optimist that there are other people out there that believe having a loving and meaningful relationship with that one other special person can make a big difference in the adventures still left to come. I believe in the golden rule and think everyone should live by the honest simplicity it represents. How much easier can it be than to treat others the way you would like to be treated? I enjoy spending time outdoors in the spring, summer and fall doing just about anything. I tend to be a little more of a homebody in the colder months but depending on your idea of fun, I'm willing to bundle up and go play. I try to be healthy and active and eat right most of the time, but I'm not fanatical so I make allowances for enjoying pizza, ice cream and chips and salsa from time to time. I believe in balancing out the weekdays and a more disciplined lifestyle with the weekends and a more casual and relaxed attitude. Hopefully this gives you a little bit of an idea about who I am and what I like. If you'd like to know more just ask. For a first date I'd prefer something simple like meeting for coffee or a drink and spending a little time getting to know more about each other and how we connect. If things go well from there, I'd be interested in setting up a second date to do something we mutually enjoy. Hopefully we'll have enough ideas about what that might be after our first date to have several options to choose from.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Mildreth from Jay | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Mildreth

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a professional person who works too much and needs to find someone to share some fun. I enjoy walking in nature, hiking through the woods rather than stay on the trail, and spent my childhood camping in Baja, CA. I like to fish and cook what I catch (if someone else cleans it)....someday. I also love being a girl...not sure why...just do. I guess life was simpler then...boy meets girl,,,they fall in love....and live happy ever after. I am a hopeless romantic and incredibly independent at the same time. I like good food, good fun and GREAT company. I would love for someone to show me around.I am seeking adventure and looking to explore my new surroundings. I have current pics posted and seek the same from anyone that contacts me. It IS only fair that I have the same opportunity to see if I am attracted to YOU. Happy fishing!! Coffee dates are best first dates. Ha...I'm also game for a good round of Laser Tag. A real gentleman will let me win :-)

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  • Cordia from Jay | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Cordia

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I LOVE to travel! Vegas and Puerto Vallarta are my favourite places to jet off to. I'm too old for the games y'all seem to want to play on here. Common sense, respect and courtesy seem to be nonexistent. Surely there is one man on this site that has those three qualities no?I'm not looking for the man that has everything, I'm looking for the man that has time to spend with me more than anything.I'm a big girl with a big heart. I am back at the gym and can be found there most days waiting for it to open at 6am so I can get my workout in before I head to work. I'm not looking for a man I can live with, I'm looking for the man I can't live without. Booty calls are a dime a dozen, where are the men with substance, class and charm? Picnics and long drives with no destination in mind are among my favourite things to do...although Sunday football and watching my Canucks play are also high on my to do list. Have recently discovered i like basketball and baseball too. Join me?I might not be the most beautiful, or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be everyone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not because I'm too good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away!Ultimately I'd love a relationship, who wouldn't? I'd love to find my last, first kiss. I've been off and on this site for 7 yrs now, and I'm tired of the games. So if you've got it, BRING IT! If you're married or attached, I'm not interested, there is no such thing as 'it's complicated'. You're either single, and available, or you're not, choose one.If you want me in your life, put me there. I'm not fighting for a spot!When you treat me right, I will treat you so much better :)If you really want something, you'll find a way to make it happen, if not, you'll find an excuse...I don't care who was before me just as there is no one during me. Looking for the one that makes me a priority not an option. Blondes may have fun but Brunettes git 'er done! :)Have an awesome day!~H~ Coffee, lunch or dinner, whatever we decide to do - we'll take it from there.

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  • Rubina from Jay | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
    Rubina

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am honest, loyal, compassionate, faithful, have a since of humor I'm told. Family is very important to me. I don't lie or cheat and I am an open book. I was with the same man for 21yrs. I am looking for someone who has some of the same interest but yet have their own also. I'm told I'm not hard on the eyes but if you're looking for a barbie or eye candy than that's not me what you see is what you get, I don't try to be something I'm not. We all age some more graciously than others. I try to treat everyone the way I would want to be treated. I love the elderly, the joy on a child's face, a rainy day and my horses, sitting in front of a fireplace snuggled up. I like learning new things or doing new things. I'm not into the bar scene but love to listen to live music. Also if you're a player pass me by and as for drama we've all had it in our life's at one time or another and lives are never completely drama free but I try to keep it drama free. Also when it comes to dating again after 21 yrs I'm not sure in this day and age if a woman should ask a guy out or wait for them to ask you out? I dislike the meet me button even thou I have clicked on it myself, why can't people just drop a quick note if interested. I am looking for the one who can feel the electricity across a crowded room when we both look at each other.I am looking for that one to wake up to each morning and share a smile across the table. Someone to come home to each night. I'm not looking for a one night stand or to date a lot of men at one time. So good luck to everyone in their search to find that special someone.Love smells like flowers in the rainand know one can feel the painI can't be like everyone elseI never walked away from what I ever wanted for myselfand I loved anyway.If i wanted to flywould you hold me while I tryIf I wished to live among the starsWould you let me go that farSometimes I'm hard to understandbut you can come take my hand.and baby I would love you till the end. Hummmm; I think it should be a mutual date, coffee, lunch where you can talk and get to know one another and go from there.

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