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Chantell, 53

United States, Maine, Jay

Offline, last seen Tue, 10 Nov 2026 18:20:25

About Me

It's always hard for me to think of ways to describe myself that don't sound goofy or cliché but I'll give it a shot and if you get past the basic description and think we have some common ideas and interests drop me a line and we'll chat. Most people consider me pretty easy to talk to and once I get to know you I'm mostly an open book that will tell you just about anything you want to know. I'm more extroverted than introverted so I think it's important to have great communication with each other but I also enjoy having quiet times together too. I'm a fun loving, adventurous person with a good sense of humor that enjoys getting the most out of life that I possibly can. I'll try anything at least once, as long as it's within reason. At the same time, I would also consider myself as a grounded, sensible, secure individual with strong moral values. My friends and family are an essential part of my life and I would do anything for them. They would tell you that I'm extremely dependable and loyal. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I'm hoping to find someone special that enjoys the same things in life that I do. I'm cautiously optimist that there are other people out there that believe having a loving and meaningful relationship with that one other special person can make a big difference in the adventures still left to come. I believe in the golden rule and think everyone should live by the honest simplicity it represents. How much easier can it be than to treat others the way you would like to be treated? I enjoy spending time outdoors in the spring, summer and fall doing just about anything. I tend to be a little more of a homebody in the colder months but depending on your idea of fun, I'm willing to bundle up and go play. I try to be healthy and active and eat right most of the time, but I'm not fanatical so I make allowances for enjoying pizza, ice cream and chips and salsa from time to time. I believe in balancing out the weekdays and a more disciplined lifestyle with the weekends and a more casual and relaxed attitude. Hopefully this gives you a little bit of an idea about who I am and what I like. If you'd like to know more just ask. For a first date I'd prefer something simple like meeting for coffee or a drink and spending a little time getting to know more about each other and how we connect. If things go well from there, I'd be interested in setting up a second date to do something we mutually enjoy. Hopefully we'll have enough ideas about what that might be after our first date to have several options to choose from.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Delight from Jay | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Delight

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm happy, have great friends, love life and everything it has to offer. I'm a down to earth girl and have a glamorous side. I love music and I used to sing for a living, so going to see a great band is a perfect evening. I love Sundays cruising to the beach, and I try surfing but it's better skimming the zippers on my boogie board. Less bruising. I am comfortable in any social situation with all kinds of people. I have a strong faith and know myself well enough to tell you you're right. I'd rather be happy.....") I am very outgoing and affectionate, Like attention and give the same in return. I know a great relationship is always a work in progress, and sharing laughter and passion makes the world a brighter place. I know I'm better when I love someone. P.s..please don't take it personally but I don't even look at the Meet Me thing. If you really want to meet me, message me! Courage is sexy. Have a beautiful day and keep your heart open! Glass of wine and see if we find something to laugh about together!

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  • Felicidad from Jay | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
    Felicidad

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    A litte about me....very laid back and easy to get along with. Love having fun with that special someone. I don't like playing games, so if you do please do not contact me. Most of us are on here to try and meet that special someone and not on here to lead people on until the next person to talk to comes along . I enjoy riding 4 wheelers motorcycles, horses, camping and sitting around the campfire and cuddling. Love country music and dancing. I have 2 daughters who are grown. I love being romantic and beleive in letting the person your with know everyday how special they are to you without smothering them. I am looking for someone whos is a gentleman, someone who doesnt mind showing how much he cares no matter where we are. Life is to short to spend it alone or with someone who is not your true love and best friend. I beleive you have to become friends before you can make a relationship work. Good look to everyone, I hope we all find that special someone and make alot of friends while on that journey. Depends on what we both like, but somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a littel to see if we would like to go on a date.

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  • Zenia from Jay | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Zenia

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like going to the gym, hanging with friends , having Frozen margarittas, and listening to live bands. My favorite music is rock n roll. I like someone fun who is not down all the time due to job or finances we all go thru that. I like to laugh and have a good time to unwind on the weekends. That was the coolest date I ever went on. Otherwise meeting for a drink and maybe dinner if the spark is there for both of us. I think going to a carnival or fair would also be a cool first date.

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