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Tamsen, 52
United States, Maine, Jay

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About Me

Ok...There's a big ole hater on here that continues to flag my pics and turn me in -- they are VERY Clean and Not nasty in any way...somebody needs to get a job, get off the site or get help -- whoever is turning me in has Waaaaay to much free time!--go get a life :)Anyway..........Profile ....Profile....Profile....Hmmmmmmm....Well first and foremost -Im Not your typical woman and definately Not your normal stay at home cook and clean type . I'm a great cook and keep a clean house but i don't obsess over it and it usually easier to grab something when in out *** messing up the kitchen just for me...Im pretty self contained and very self sufficient--I have job, a plan, ambitions and I dont wait hoping someone else to do it for me-- Im a little hard headed that way ..:0)That being said-- just about anyone that's ever met me will say that I'm definately spontaneous, have a halarious sense of humor and always have a smile on my face ...I Love the Beach and it's my favorite vacation spot anytime of the year***like all kinds of Music except rap and classical -- enjoy a good live band every once in awhile and Can dance til you're wore Slap Out.....prefer being outside to indoors... Like going to the lake/ water skiing/sea doos or just a good ole ride on the pontoon---play softball and bowl--love to fish and deer hunt---On a little lighter side---I 'm Very Family oriented- love my kids dearly and always a mom first......Christian Woman (Baptist***Romantic / Faithful ... Worked my whole life ***Pretty Spunky and waaaaaay too Honest--so don't ask if you really dont want the truth :) . Non-Smoker and I prefer a guy that doesn't smoke---Love College Football and try to watch every game***ROLL TIDE ROLL!!!. I was married only once for 25 years ---my kids are grown and doing their own thing now... Like most, I'm hoping to stumble on that one of a kind "good guy " that you just happen to meet and get that gushy nervous feeling when you realize that we're both attracted to one another...Then date some , go places, do fun things together and enjoy each others company--if it developes into long term that would be great but just start one step at a time with no big expectations..., I tend to date fellas a little younger than myself because of my high energy and outgoing personality but if you have a zest for life , like to get out of the house and do things ---Send me an *** !!! What I'm looking for: Physical Attraction is First***, Family Oriented, Christian Man, Height/ Weight proportional(not 30 pounds overw***Sense of Humor, Romantic, Faithful, Social Drinker---I'm not a big drinker--Non-smoker***You Gotta be happy , share hobbies, have fun , enjoy quick getaways and you Must love the BEACH!......I'm not willing to settle for the rest of my life and you shouldn't either...For me- my time is limited -- I work a good bit and chances of falling over somebody in Walmart , Lowe's or Best Buy is slim***Soooooo ***Here I am fishing away with everybody else on here....;) Use some good bait and Drop Me A Line -- I might just bite!.....You Better set the hook and HOLD ON for dear life ...LOL..;) Nice quiet dinner in a back corner of a restuarant so we can talk and get to know each other better..plenty of time so not to be in a hurry---first dates are great--the smiles-secret glance-occasional touch when we are really telling something funny! Then--off to throw gutter balls at the local bowling alley--by this time there should be NO Shame:)..If thats not for you- maybe listen to music at a nice blues club or dancing to a live band somewhere and act a little silly, catch a movie, or take a moonlit stroll down at the riverwalk/beach.....endless things for first dates as long as everybody is on the same page!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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