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Shelli, 54

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About Me

I am a newly divorced woman who loves life and meeting new people. Still getting used to online dating but it's getting better. I am a happy person don't like arguing or fussing and definetly don't like drama but we all have some. Life throws us curve balls and we just have to duck sometime to make sure we don't get hit. I have 5 great kids all are married but one and she lives with me. Love spending time with family and friends and outdoors. Walking is a great pass time and I love watching football( yes I am a fan). My first date I would enjoy it being spontaneous and a little planned because there has to be some normalcy in this date. But we can elaborate as we go along maybe meet for coffee and conversation and then if things go well, we both decide on the rest of the details for the evening. I have learned since my divorce that life is as amazing as you allow it or make it. We are given the chances and all we have to do is make sure the choices we end up taking or the right ones from the start. Don't ever judge a book by its cover seems like sometimes you may miss the most important parts in the center or toward the end of it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Palma

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I enjoy being outside and in the mountains. Would like to meet some one with the same interest. I stay physically active, no drama, positive, like to be with people who are the same. I enjoy laughter, socializing, dancing, music, movies, enjoy life. I do some traveling, have a job now that is very rewarding by helping others and giving. Enjoy country, gospel and rock and roll. Always like to try new things, Not big on water sports, more of a land person. Still exploring it, love the beauty and the people. Blessed with two amazing daughters, grown and doing great on their own. Close to family and friends. Very happy, yet still missing a special relationship with a special man that shares the same interests, morals and values. Coffee, a glass of wine, walk, or a short hike.

  • Paloma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    If you like thin... I gotz thin... and judging what's on this site and the interpretations of others and what is "average" or "athletic build"... I am holy hell thin.I'm sorry if I appear rude, but I don't always respond to messages ***I've made an effort with my profile, so a simple one- or two-word grunt will not grab my attention. Also, it may be because I don't think we'd be a good "fit" together.My aspiration right now is to get this profile out on the dance floor. I'm VERY laid back - like to have fun, like to use my sense of humor.. and yeah, no one's exempt, I'll laugh at you too. But don't feel bad... I laugh at myself the most. It's scary what I can talk myself into doing. No drama, no baggage, nothing holding me back. So what's stopping me? Meeting the right one. I'm finding out I have more patience where most don't, and I have laugh lines that most try to hide. Love the sun and it shows, but that's how it goes. Let's face it... we're not 20 years old anymore (except for you 20-somethings I see viewing my profile... get outta the old lady section!), let alone 40. I have etched lines of experience on me that will tell you, "Hey! I've been there, done that, and lived through it!" So I'm not looking for miracles in you, either. At this point in my life, I'm only looking to smile, baby. So help me....... make me smile... and I'll make you smile... and I love a smile that goes all the way up to the eyes.Things about me:I am easily distracted. Ask me about my attention deficit disorder or pie or my cat. a dog. I have a bike. Do you like tv? I saw a rock. Hi!!!I push doors that say PULL.I originate from a small town. I'm not a big sports buff - sorry. And I don't partake, but I'll certainly be there shaking my pompoms for you. I was always the "sprinter" in track, so if you're looking for a jogging partner, I'll never make it. I hated the 440, altho coach was always pushing it on me. But that's okay. Your jogging time can be your YOU time as well as my ME time.I can swat a bee or hornet out of the air like it's nothing, but show me a spider and I'll run off screaming like a little girl.I'll run to the store, only to come home forgetting the main thing I went there for.I like head butts from my cat.... imagine the fun WE could have!!!I touch things that say "Please, don't touch".I can get pretty silly at times when the time is right (I work in the corporate world, so I know when to turn it on and off)... but if you're a prude and get easily embarrassed... you won't like me. I laugh harder when I try to explain why I'm laughing. I usually laugh at people falling... Oh, I'll TRY ask first if they're okay, but sometimes I just can't squelch it.I want to find somebody who can OPEN UP THESE DARN JARS, and maybe scold me for not getting my oil changed when I should have. Now where was I? Oh yeah...I walk into a room and forget why I was there. I still have plenty of zippedy in my doo dah.I still believe we can find our true love again, at any age.I count on my fingers; haven't had to use my toes. I have a nurturing nature.I look in the mirror and wonder when I got this old. I don't feel as old on the inside as I look on the outside. I find watching a man cook and clean to be incredibly sexy, and yes, you can take that as a hint. If you know your way around the garage, extra points!I get crabby when I get hungry, be forewarned now.I can make a long story short.... or a short story long ***by this profile, see what I mean?? :)I can be easily persuaded. I can be watching tv at 8:00 at night, and if I see a dish that looks good, I'll make it right then and there.I know this is plenty of fish, but that doesn't mean you have to show nothing but you holding fish for your user pics.I am pretty independent, but I'd love to find someone I can depend on.***I've always managed my own way in life ***but a warm heart, a warm body, and a warm soul will do me just fine. :) A hug will always help. A sense of humor is a must - and a warped sense of humor is better than no sense of humor at all. I appreciate honesty above all else. If you are above average weight or your photos are over ten years old, please state it in your profile. I'm older and have wrinkles... it comes with age. It's who we are and can't be hidden on a meet and greet. Don't waste my time and I won't yours. With this day and age with cameras on the phones, there's no excuse. I like the bed I'm sleepin' in Just like me, it's broken in It's not old, just older Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans This skin I'm in it's alright with me It's not old, just older ~ my man, Bon JoviI want to be the person to stand by you: *** (watch it!)FYI - I have the phone app, and while it may appear as if I'm on-line, I'm not always on-line. And sorry, I'm not interested in a long distance relationship. I want to spend time with... not spend time DRIVING. Meet for a happy hour - but keep it short and simple to avoid any last minute phone calls from our "wing men" telling us our house is on fire.

  • Loreta

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been divorced for 12 years and I am ready to find my best friend, lover and hopefully my soulmate. I am a very caring and giving person with a big heart. I am very honest and trustworthy and want the same in return. I want to find someone who feels our relationship and family are top priority. I want to find someone who is the first person I think about when I wake up and the last person I think about before going to sleep. I want to find that one special person I can't live without. I am looking for the other half that makes me whole. I will always have your back and hope you have mine. I feel the foundation of any friendship or relationship is built on trust and honesty. I am definitely a person who can be trusted when I'm with someone and when I'm away from that someone. I want and deserve the same in return.I do not want to walk in front of you nor in back of you. I want us to walk together hand in hand side by side. I want to be respected and deserve respect as we all should. I believe in treating everyone the way I want to be treated and that certainly includes respect. I was taught by my parents and I passed it along to my son "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all." I do not need a man in my life I want a man in my life. I do not care if you are wealthy or just make an average living. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. Money does not buy LOVE and HAPPINESS. I would choose LOVE and HAPPINESS any day. I am on here for all the right reasons which is to find a meaningful lasting relationship. One that will last forever. I know this is a dating site and we're on here to meet someone special but I am a one man woman. I only want to date one person. How can you really get to know someone if you date multiple ones? I want to be the girl who makes your bad days better. The girl that makes you say "My Life Has Changed Since I Met Her". I want a man who doesn't have to say a word for me to feel his love and I want to make him feel my love without me having to say a word. I enjoy going out and doing different things and I am just as happy staying in spending time with someone I care about. I love to make people laugh and smile. I am happy getting dressed up and just as happy casual with a ponytail. Life is too short to be too particular and want "THE ONE" who has it all. I don't think anyone has it all. Everyone has flaws and that's what makes each of us special in our own ways. I want someone who makes me laugh and smile. Someone I can trust and who will always be honest. I will give the same in return. I don't want someone who is only concerned about looks. I truly believe physical attraction is important but to me real beauty comes from within. To me a relationship is give and take and should be a two-way street where we both know it's okay to disagree sometimes and have respect for each other. It's okay if two people don't have everything in common. We may find what we thought we weren't interested in we really are after finding the right person to share it with. I feel it's true that what we have been searching for has been in front of us the whole time and until we honestly open our eyes and realize it we may never have it. I want someone who I cannot wait to get home to after a long day at work. I have alot of love and a big heart to give to the right person. I want us to live life to the fulllest because we are never promised tomorrow. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Kiss slowly, play hard, forgive quickly, take chances, give everything and have no regrets. Life's too short to be anything ...but happy. Life is way too short to not follow your heart. I'm looking for my first last kiss with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in True Love at first sight and destiny. The best way to love is to love like you've never been hurt. I have said in my profile that life is too short it's not that life is too short it's that death is too long. Distance means so little when someone means so much. I am on here to find love and happiness again and the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I will not judge anyone on their past relationships nor does it matter to me if someone has everything or not alot of anything. I do not have any crazy ex-husband in my life, I have the most amazing son I could ever ask for. The most important thing I can give to someone is unconditional undying true love and 100% faithfulness. There doesn't seem to be alot of that in relationships anymore. True love is not loving a perfect person but loving an imperfect person perfectlI am on here to find that one special man to be with forever. I don't want to spend anymore holidays and birthdays without that special man in my life. No one has to be alone we choose to be alone and I choose not to. You may find someone who you think is the one you've been searching for but the feeling turns out not to be mutual. What can happen though is that you find a new friend and that new friend teaches you things you never knew about yourself and makes you view life in a different way. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.I know what I want and the kind of man I am looking for to spend forever with and I am not going to settle. I believe in the saying "I'd rather be home alone than be home with someone wishing I was alone. We all make mistakes, it's what we do to correct them that makes us the person we are. Follow your heart and you will see the good in everyone.Everyday we wait is another day we won't get back.Love not only with your eyes that see the different faces and bodies but more importantly with your heart that shows you more than what your eyes are looking at.If you want to know more about me Google the poem "The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. A nice quiet romantic atmosphere where we can have a drink and talk. I would like to hear all about you and what you like and dislike.

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