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Jessye, 55
United States, Maine, Buxton

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About Me

Have come to believe that when we were young and foolish... As we grew older, some grew together, some apart and some...sadly, not at all. Some of us were blessed with children and some were not. None of us went into a relationship thinking it would come to an end. Now we walk with great caution. We have all become wise with each passing year. Realizing that everything we have accomplished is not aways what makes us happy. Each person we meet gives as a larger perspective of whom we deserve and desire. I don't believe we make mistakes...our choices are learning curves. We've tried to convince ourselves in the past that we have to settle. Not so! Something is missing. The winkle in one's eye, the skip in one's step,taking a deep breath and knowing we are right where we belong. I teach young children and prepare them for pre-school and up. I am a NY State licensed and love what I do. My family and I are very close. My daddy just passed and he walked on water. He saw that we were all loved and taught us to go after everything we have ever desired. What we have here is borrowed. We can't take it with us when we leave so why be in debt up to your eyeballs. I have three fabulous sons 30, 28 and 14. I had lost my youngest sons father before he was born. We are not looking for a father for him...he has one...perhaps over time a friend and mentor. There are no visitation issues, no nasty court battles..just the peace of mind that he is in a better place. Most of you have raised your children. Please do not write if you do not think you could welcome my youngest into your life. I am not looking for someone to help me take care of him financially. We do well on our own that way. I have been most fortunate to have traveled during my married life in 9 states in 7 years. Louis, MO...4x4'd in the Mohave, ski'd at Big Bear and went to the Lauguna beach in Cali all in one day. It might have been my happy place... At each and every turn I met a new friend and have kept them in life. Friends and family are truely the assets we take with us here and beyond. Who is the man I am searching for? Is there a man out there that can talk the talk and walk the walk? Compassionate, kind, loving with a sense of adventure. Might you have a passion for life and live it to the fullest regardless of means? Might you have a positive attitude no matter what curves life has thrown you? Will you take my breath away and make me smile just at your very presence? Might you love boating, fishing or just floating on the St. I bait my own hook and clean my own fish! Kicking leaves as if you were a child again. Making snow angels and tossing a snowball while being playful. I would love to walk in the rain with you with no umbrella. Do you enjoy quiet one on one time with a special lady? Do you see beyond tomorrow? A weeks vacation or short weekend getaway. Just sitting by the beach listening the the waves crash. A relaxing night at home where we just pamper each other. Might you enjoy cooking a meal together in the kitchen? Believe myself to be a good cook. Hungarian, French and Irish Heritage. Lets see whom I choose....until then...may all of you find the woman of your dreams. I enjoy romance. ALL of it. Friends my age have given up and shut down...not me. Life is too short to be without love and all that comes with it. I have been lucky to have had lightening strike twice for me...hoping for a third. No, I have only been married once. If your looking for Barbie..I;, not her.. My figure is better than average but not athletic. My face is not that full...I sooo do not like pictues. I'll be waiting for you by the water. Though my profile says I do not drink...lucky if it is 3 raspberry margarita's a year. Not a snotty, stuck up ...just does nothing for me. To visit a bit and spend the day on the river or somewhere outside.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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