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Emmie, 52
United States, Maine, Buxton

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About Me

I have finally noticed that most people on here want to know what I am looking for. What I want is something money can not buy or take from me! Something like hard times will never break the bond. That no distance could muffle the sounds of his voice. That family starts with the two hearts that come together as one. I have been so stupid thinking I knew what i wanted before, now I know. For me its not about something you see in the movies or hear in the music. I actually want someone to struggle with. For me its the willing to sacrifice your own needs for that person. I want that feeling, that when I'm rushing home, just because I know you are there, or that you are the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I close my eyes at night Its the feeling of your better half sneaking up on you and wrap their arms around you. Its the look they give you and then all of the sudden you can read their mind! The little phrases or notes saying.Honey have I told you lately what you mean to me? So the question becomes "How do you know when you find him" I'm not sure, but if I had to guess it would go like this. Have you ever heard someone talking or a laughter from a distance and said to yourself..oh my that is the sexiest voice I have ever heard, and you just cant get it out of your head!. I'm not really sure how its going to be. All I can tell you is that I'm excited!! Because I know he is out there. Everyday I wake up now feeling the nervousness and hesitation that today, might be the day that I run into you and that day for me will be "PRICELESS" I am a mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt and family always comes first so when I do find him he will be in that list.. I was at the same job for 21 yrs. and was thankful to have it.... I decided to go back to school!! And I never thought that I would love college as much as I did. I went back to become an EMT and was enjoying school so much that I was taking everything that I could.. I became an EMT and decided to go on for my EMS Safety Degree, and done that.. and still wanted more so I took more classes that I was know as the back to school girl. Just getting to learn things that I really did not care about in high school and making new friends of all ages was great.. But after 2 degrees and being at a 2 yr college for 4 yrs I was done. :( After college I joined the volunteer rescue squad and loved it. It is one of the best feelings you can have is holding someones hand on the way to the hospital and telling them they are going to be ok, although you really was not sure. I guess that is where the soft heart in me comes in.. I am such a kind loving person and have so much love to give to someone that wants to give me the moon and know that I would go to the ends of the earth for them.. I know he is out there and hope he knows I am waiting on him.. The first date should be something that both people agree on and have a interest in... how long the date should last depends on how things turn out... the date should be fun and something to where you are enjoying yourself...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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