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Tommie, 53
United States, Maine, Buxton

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 May 2024 22:01:04

About Me

Enjoy reading books, listening to live music, movies, laughter and the outdoors. When I say I enjoy the outdoors that means listening to the leaves rustle in the wind, fish jump thru the water, and meeting other dog lovers along the walking path. I will be the one bringing refreshments to the fishermen but not doing the fishing. My idea of camping is the Holiday Inn :)Passionate, sensual, positive, giving and always see people as their potential. In my world I see life as possibility and my glass is half-full and about to be refilled. This is a gift. It has helped me in life whether as a fundraiser or in business development and marketing. My desire is for an interdependent relationship – one that celebrates each other’s gifts, dreams, goals, and accomplishments. This is in contrast to an independent relationship, which takes power away from the other person and to a dependent relationship that gives your own power away. Enthusiastic, positive attitude, passionate, creative, born networker, and diplomatic are some terms that best describe me. A good sense of humor is critical – it helps us get thru the challenges that life naturally presents us with. Those challenges help create who we are and a sense of humor helps us manage those challenges. Love live music and sunsets on the beach. The most touching scene is when the musician finishes up the perfect song just as the sunsets and people of all ages applaud the sunset. Originally I thought they were applauding the sunset than I began to think perhaps they are actually applauding the fact that they were able to see it... not so much as in camping, hunting :) I prefer to hear the fish jumping through the water, the leaves crunching under my feet, and interfacing with other people and their dogs.I'm comfortable interfacing with a broad range of people (CEO to janitor). My parents gave me some of their best qualities: diplomacy, treat others with respect and value, and seeing people's positive qualities. Enjoy learning about and celebrating the variety of cultures that we are privileged to know.Little known fact(s): owned and barrel raced my own horse, traveled to Europe & Israel, wrote a speech for the Mayor, interviewed on TV and Radio advertising/marketing - Setting that promotes talking and sharing each other's personalities- Wine tasting - Cooking class

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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