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Lai, 51

United States, Maine, Bucksport

Offline, last seen Sun, 06 Sep 2026 10:27:24

About Me

I am an easy-going gal looking to meet some new friends & I love to laugh & be around others who can find humor in most situations. Laughter & humor are the quickest way to my heart! I tend to be a bit shy & reserved when first meeting someone but it wears off quickly! :) I love trying new things, taking road trips w/no specific destination, heading out of town at a moment's notice, or meeting friends out w/no other plan but to play it by ear.My ideal match would be a good communicator and listener, honest, affectionate, dependable, patient, respectful, and would of course have a great sense of humor. Of course he could expect to receive all these qualities in me. I would also appreciate the man in my life to have a strong relationship w/his family, enjoying spending time w/them, and interested in getting to know mine, as family is very important to me. A perfect date to me would be staying in, cooking dinner together, listening to music, watching a silly movie, or just talking for hours about random subjects. I love low key t- :) I tend to prefer hole-in-the-wall pub/sports bars & small neighborhood restaurants over stuffy club atmospheres, though I can have fun doing about anything if the company is good :) A great first date would be doing anything that allowed us to get to know each other while doing something fun together. Nothing that seems like a job interview or too intense. Chemistry is critical and having fun doing things together is, I think, a great way to see if we have it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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