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Rachele, 53
United States, Maine, Bucksport

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About Me

Just open the frig and take the challenge ~ what can I make from what I have? I just made a grilled peach cobbler for a bbq meetup gathering. The neighboring peach tree hangs over on my side and I am blessed with what comes my way. I was already grilling veggies and so I thought, why not ~; port sauce to infuse those tasty peaches, topped off with sweet crumbsWanting what we all want, companionship with that someone special, a mutual exchange and mixture of pleasures and growth. Would like to meet as friends and see if ltr is possible. fyi ~ I am a Taurus not a Capricorn, for me, your sign does not dictate our compatibility yet traits are good to know.I'm the girl in high school that sat outside the industrial arts building wondering why only guys were going in and out of it. I took wood working, electronics and arc welding. In electronics, my teacher made all the boys dive under the tables when I plugged in my project, ha ha. He also assigned me as tool monitor, oops, that might sound a little suggestive, oh well, a deep subject at that. In welding, I was a little miffed at the holes the sparks made in my pantyhose and that my 70's low cut wrap around dress with platform high heels was not appropriate wear for the tear, yet I managed a beautiful bead in this attire. Adding to my endeavors way back then, I became a certified diver at 17, since moving to Nor. Cal., ***, I lost the wetsuit but willing to dive back in with a partner some time in the future. I've completed 3 tiny triathlons, last one when I was 45, not in the repertoire anymore, knees don't do running, but I can do the swimming part if we come up with the right cyclist and runner. Love to walk, easy hikes and kayak.Treat me to what's in your garage *** a fancy meal. Let's get down making something. Creating a project or art, could be a great way to experience and share our minds. I'm sure we can cook it up on the grill and gourmet is always a recipe or restaurant away.Summer is coming time to break out the bbq, bicycle, boots & daypack, dancing shoes, camera, swimsuit or not, live music venues, farmer's market in the morning for the grill at night, tending the garden, kayak, mutual massages, have helmet and m/c jacket, love getting into hot water ~ respectfully.Communication is KEY. We can read each others minds when the time is right. Let's share what has and hasn't worked in our past relationships, not so much to see how easily we 'fit' but to allow some understanding of who we are. Let's talk about our intent in dating and what it looks like to develop a friendship that could lead to opening more doors. I am a co-creator ~ not a dictator in relating ~ we would be a good match if you are also a co-creator = we are both concerned about our needs being expressed and work on them being met or understood.I can say this about myself; I embody the spirit of frolic, sexually sophisticated, hedonistic inclined, laughter with a quick wit, gregarious, responsive, diplomatic, open~minded, charmingly foolish, artist/creative type, physically active, goofy yet elegant, wild yet responsible, quiet and reflective, enjoy hard work and play well in the dirt. I haven't found any geometric shapes to fit into yet. I am pragmatic with a light sprinkle of spirituality from a foundation of sensuality.I am hwp, curves apply, attractive, the girl next door look. Let's see if we feel a connection, nothing too terribly serious, just something more than 'hi there, want to meet in a dark corner?', ~ perhaps that could come along sometime later in the 'relationship'. A walk, a shared beverage ..... we can figure it out. I am developing my wine palette, so if you like to go wine tasting, perhaps 'role playing' the part of wine mentor would ferment your grapes ~ ;-) ~ it's o.k. to flirt a little.My dating/exploring new friendships philosophy: I am a little more pragmatic than most. We are all here, in search of something, what is your something? I'm not the type that falls in love at first sight. I do not desire to absorb or be adsorbed, right away, I like to marinate, take you in and let you take me in, a little bit at a time, sit in our juices. Just be easy with each other and spend a little time in each others presence. In street terms, just because we don't jump each other's bones within the first ***dates does not mean we do not have 'chemistry', not in my book. I am hoping to find the one that can see beyond 'the urge'. I know what's going on out there and it is a meat market for certain, I make 'no bones' about it ~ like how I tied in the 'bones' part? I am not looking for 'us' to try each other on, walk around for a bit and then be tossed off to the side for the next profile.I recommend to everyone on any dating site to also check out 'meetup' groups. This is a great place to meet other people while sharing an activity. Imagine meeting someone in a relaxed environment, without the dating interview process and assessment. People coming together without a laundry list or expectations as to whether or not you are going to 'fit' their dating style.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Tennis
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