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I am a woman with a lot to offer the right man....He would be a confident, sensual, spiritual, loyal and an intellectually and emotionally stimulating man ...young at heart with initiative and a lover of laughter. ...someone i could giggle with- admire, respect and feel passion for. A man who truly loves God.An initial spark and physical chemistry is essential, however attraction is short lived without substance... Just please be tall enough to compliment a woman in heels - but not an absolute requirement.I'm a "one man"- woman, and much prefer to focus my attention on one special man rather than power dating and If I am in a relationship I do not cheat on my partner!!!!!!!!I am NoT PecFect and I want the same quality in my match.... someone who will love me all the more with my imperfections....... If you are perfect please don't *** I avoid games, will not try to change you or pry into your personal space unless invited and only desire what ever time we spend together to be honest and "uncomplicated".I am looking, foremost, for a man with integrity - if you don't have it - please don't write.As for being "high maintenance......? No worries as I maintain myself just fine thank you..;-))My personal time is all about quality rather than quantity. I am happy by nature, enjoy my own space at times.I'm at ease in jeans and a baseball cap as i am in that little black dress....- but more city than country.I have a curious and adventurous spirit for new things but have no aspirations to propel my body out of flying objects, backpack through regions not yet inhabited by man or similar life threatening activities. That being said I love snorkelling, swimming with stingrays and am longing to scuba. Give me a beach, white sand, sun, lake/ocean, my sweet heart and I am in my finest element!!As a hopeless romantic and sensual being, I enjoy holding hands, pampering, being pampered, scent-touch and taste, bubble baths, candlelight, roaring fireplaces and all things warm n' toasty. Am I old fashioned?? Once in a while someone special comes along - just a glance and your heart races, your knees go weak and YES there is Chemistry. I long to meet that special someone that leaves me weak in the knees and touches my heart - my soul mate.Is this too much to ask for?Perhaps...but some dreams do come true ...don't they?? Surprise me!Note: I don't have time to respond to all my *** I have tried and don't want to be rude but I don't have enough time. If I don't respond to your *** don't be offended - just means I don't think we match. Hint: I rarely initiate contact - but if I have added you to my favorites it is a good sign.Note 2: PLEASE DONT APPLY IF ANY OF THE FOLLOWING SUIT YOUR CHARACTER: You are;in a relationship, selfish, a Bad Boy, totally heavy metal, bi-polar, a sociopath, Chronic Liar, Player, Judgemental, better than everyone else, disrepectful and unkind to others. Thanks!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheryl

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Describe me? Very fun loving, easy going, classy woman that has a lot of playfulness, passion to share. I love to laugh and can laugh freely at myself! I know how to dress and will never look trashy or try to jump the fence to a younger age than I am. I am completely content with my age, no mid life crisis here, formal dress to jeans and T-shirt in a flash! I do expect the same in return. I am not a fan of long hair, lots of visible tattoo's, wife beater t-shirts. No offense, but it is just not me. Table manners are a must... grew up with having table manners and don't feel the need to give them up now.I have traveled all over the world most of my life and spent most of my adult life in Europe and loved it. Truly enjoyed experiencing new food and drink with the local yokels'. I really enjoy seeking out the "off the beaten path" places that a tourist may not find..who doesn't?... Grand Platz in the summer is the the best.Quickie overview....Music - Pretty much anything but can only take limited air time of C&W.Home - My home is very modern, have a few art deco pieces but the rest is modern and no clutter!Food - Love Italian, most seafood, and will try most anything at least once.Fun - Anything that is a way of getting to know each other, surprise me - preplanned surpise evenings are my favorite! Friends and Family - Extremely important to me, I will always be there for them no matter what!Movies - Not a horror flick fan, action OK, and when in the mood a chick flick is great.TV - Watch a lot of news, cooking channels, a little HBO Books - Haven't had time to really read a novel lately, pretty much news or info on the netSports - Will watch football and World cup if it is on, not a necessity of mine. To my surprise I am watching NASCAR, friends converted me!Camping - Hmmm not so much, prefer real bathroom with a shower!Motorcycles - If you have one and I feel comfy I may go and get used to it. Honestly, you could post 50 pics of your Harley and I will not be impressed. I do love to cook. To experience a dish at a restaurant and duplicate it at home is most satisfying! To have someone in the kitchen enjoying every added spice is a great time for me. So be prepared to help even if it is just quality control! What am I looking for? A man who is comfortable in his own life. Someone who has time to share and enjoy some quality time together. If it turns into something long term and fabulous that would be great, if not, I hope I have made a new friend. I AM NOT looking for a "Sugar Daddy" or replacement husband! And honestly, if you are looking for a friend with benefits type of relationship I am not your girl. Please, please move on. Yes, I am very separated for over 5 years, can't wait for the final paperwork. It's been a struggle both parties moving out of state but filing in another. Trust me, no baggage, no reconciliation, no tears from either side.Lastly, make me laugh! If you can make me smile or giggle..... well you have my attention! Thanks for looking and good luck in your POFing!Guys, guys, guys......if you are going to lie about your age, I will find out. Just saying it is not a good start with me. Short and sweet, if the desire is there we meet for first date.Not sure what to think of the "meet me" feature..... If you do want to meet me send an ***!

  • Kenzie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am living life to the fullest. I love the beach, lake, Cabo, cruises and I love to travel. I want someone who is honest and wants to enjoy life to the fullest. I live a drama free life and love it! No games, just love each other freely. I love trying new adventures. I am secure financially and appreciate the same in someone else. I am at the point in my life where I want to enjoy life with someone, have fun, play hard and have someone to enjoy new adventures! I work hard and play harder. I love being outside whether it is a hike, bike riding, lounging in the sun or yard work. I can go from bikini, to shorts and tshirt to little black dress in about 5 minutes and be comfortable. Put me in a room of 2 or ***...I can be comfortable. I suppose that I am a little bit of a southern girl..I love to cook, to entertain and make a house a home. I have two grown successful children. I have worked in the legal field for 25 years and love it. I am now in the mortgage industry and loving the change. I am a giver, a nurturer and will give 150% in a relationship. I don't ask for a lot, but respect is one thing that is awesome to receive. I am independent and successful, but yet love having someone to care about me and to have the initiative to go the extra mile in a relationship. I can say that I am genuine, loyal, attentive, passionate, loving, caring, give better than receive, active, supportive, family girl, and a hard working lover of life. I need you to be the first person I think of when I wake up and the last before I go to sleep.I don't need a clone of me, one that likes everything I like, *** that has his interest and we can share our interest with each other. We should compliment each other. I would hope to bring out the best in you and you bring out the best in me...together! I want to have fun together, laugh together, be ourselves and accept each other as we are, not as we want each other to be. My son is 32 and my Mom is 73, so I cannot date within 10 years of each of those ranges....LOL The first date would probably be dinner in a nice small restaurant. However, I do prefer picnics over restaurants and even dinners at home.

  • Jocelynn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I listed all this in my interests but here it is again forgive my repeating. I enjoy working on my home redecorating or repair. I reclaim repair and re purpose old things like furniture and such. I enjoy being outside , walks in a park ,working in the yard. I love the water, in it ,on it or by it is the best place to be!. I am always ready for a road trip. I love going to new places, I enjoy historical places, state parks, Rt 66 ! I like flea markets and museums. And camping. I have a pop up camper sorry don't sleep on the ground any more! I have raised my family of 5 children and am raising my grandson , he turned 16 in Dec. He is a wonderful young man. So I am the one who has always taken care of everyone. I am very responsible , self motivated, and very active.But I can enjoy a night snuggling on the couch watching a good movie!Oh and drive in movies are a favorite thing to do in the summer. I am a jeans and sweater kinda gal. But enjoy getting all dressed up when the occasion calls for it.Spending time with friends is important to me . I am blessed to have some very close dear friends I consider family. I have always worked retail and enjoy working with people. Believe it or not the hectic holiday season is my favorite time! To be able to put a smile on the face of someone who's having a bad day is a good feeling. I am almost always smiling. Life truly is to short not to be enjoyed. I have been a widow for over seven years and I miss having someone to share life with.I am an affectionate person.We always hug hello and goodbye! I treat people as I want to be treated. I am trusting to a fault. And wont tell a lie to save me,or you for that matter. I am old fashion in some ways As the song says" I don't hook up" . I don't judge those who do but it's just not for me. I find confidence and manners very attractive. My glass is full of possibilities!Update I have just quit Smoking! I put occasionally just in case :) Depending on the weather, because if its nice outside a walk threw a park or by the water , stopping for coffee,soda or a drink would be nice. Or a museum or flea market, all the things there would give us plenty of conversation starter. Where ever, it needs to be some place we could talk, to get to know each other.

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