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Shanda, 54

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About Me

Hi. I don't really have a secret. They just force you to write something catchy. The truth is that I am very recentlyseparated and am looking for a quirky, intelligent interesting man that will enjoy the company of a quirky intelligent interesting woman.It all sounds so cliche but I like to take moonlit walks, love candlelight and romantic places, enjoy almost all typesof music......sorry not an opera nor county music fan.......lolI have a son that I adore and four pets with very unique personalities......I am a youthful looking woman.....take pretty good care of myself and I am looking for a man who does the same.It is both daunting and challenging to begin a new chapter in life but I am looking forward to each new experience.I used to have a very very unusual job.....locally.... Which perhaps I will share with you. ;-)Please do not message me unless you have realistic pictures of yourself. Somewhere laid back where we can talk and see if there is a mutual connection. Coffee or a drink?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ainsley

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

  • Melda

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Im looking for that one person that I miss the minute they leave.;

  • Hildegard

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am looking for a man to live my life with, and to laugh with, and to be in love with. We can decide together

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