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Perla, 55


About Me

I would like to reflect not who or what I think I am, but to what I have learned the hard way. I have learned to listen, not with just my head but with my heart. I have learned to see beyond my own dreams and aspirations, I can now see my partners dreams and aspirations are as important as my own, a simple enough concept that can be lost if not caressed. I have learned to see the smile of a man I love as something to be cherished. If ***, that smile will fade and it is lost; I have learned that not every touch or caress needs to lead down the path to the bedroom, that simply touching and caressing is the way that our hearts communicate. I have learned that passion should never be lost in the day to day grind of life but fired and stoked to keep interest alive. I have learned that romance is a physical form of communicating ones’ emotional feelings, that if romantic actions from your partner are dismissed or not appreciated, that shameful act is the same as dismissing their feelings. I have learned that romance fires the imagination of passion and that passion fires my world. What am I looking for? I’m looking for: a passionate, caring man I can talk to and converse with and with whom I can envision our dreams, to be blessed with the smiles, laughter and special moments so our hearts can communicate through our emotion, a man with desire and passion for life, and who still believes in romantic getaways.I would honestly love to meet that special man who makes my eyes sparkle when I see him or think of him, one that makes my heart skip a beat after a dry spell without him. That special man that would injest my being and make us one, no matter where we are or who we are with, when others see us, they know we are meant to be forever together. I can still wish upon a star he is out there, I will not settle for less.........I miss him!!! Any place, in public, that we can enjoy each other's company and discuss our interest and possibly see if there is any connections.


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  • Eileen


    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    what ever happened to old fashion dating?? with maybe a kiss goodnight?? im not the type of girl that is going to have sex on the first date! so dont even bother contacting me if thats all your looking for!!! So now that i got that out of the way, i am a fun, loving life , free spirit kind of girl... new to the area, loving the beach and long drives in my car.. I also have three dogs that i love to walk and take to the dog park or just take swimming.. life is to short to be miserable and judge people! so living and being happy is my MOTTO!!! Family(my children) are very important to me. so if it bothers you that my phone is on me on vibrate do not respond please..I try my best to take care of my self so would expect the same in return..I am a lady first .. but i do know how to kick my heels off and have fun.(dancing) i do not waiste anytime.. if there is no chemistry no sence of a second date...I LOVE A GUY WITH A PERSONALITY!!laughter is so healthy..well thats about all for now... send me a message if u think we are a good fit... keep it simple.. just in case we dont mesh.. no obligation to hang out for hours.. maybe coffee or lunch, or an ice cream, or just a drink...

  • Manda


    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am self aware, adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. Passion does not equal drama, I am looking to create a life of passion. Everyday is an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good. I have the personality of a cat and the soul of a dog. If you understand animals that will make sense.I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. You prefer talking about ideas and action more than people and things. I want to know who you are, not what you do. I want to know if you know who you are. If your profile is incomplete, I can only assume you don't. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!My pictures are current, I weigh ***lbs, and I am really 51........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. If you do not have a clear full face photo posted I will not respond. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet. Love is always thirstyand looking for a thirsty lover.Love and lover follow each otherlike day and night.- Rumi --Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Depends.........second date, that is another story!

  • Hayleigh


    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    In a nutshell: seeking compatability, intrigness and chemistry...either we 'click' after conversations to begin with or we really just don't.Not seeking: angry/confused/unhappy men that just broke up after a long relationship/marriage or seperated/married men.After a few ***, a phone conversation should always be next before meeting. I am always up for a local event, festival or just getting out on the beach!Friendship first.Independent...confident...financially comfortable...And the proud daughter of my Navy Blue Angel dad. Late afternoon anywhere outdoors with a cool breeze, good music and hopefully your great company....

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