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Perla, 55

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About Me

I would like to reflect not who or what I think I am, but to what I have learned the hard way. I have learned to listen, not with just my head but with my heart. I have learned to see beyond my own dreams and aspirations, I can now see my partners dreams and aspirations are as important as my own, a simple enough concept that can be lost if not caressed. I have learned to see the smile of a man I love as something to be cherished. If ***, that smile will fade and it is lost; I have learned that not every touch or caress needs to lead down the path to the bedroom, that simply touching and caressing is the way that our hearts communicate. I have learned that passion should never be lost in the day to day grind of life but fired and stoked to keep interest alive. I have learned that romance is a physical form of communicating ones’ emotional feelings, that if romantic actions from your partner are dismissed or not appreciated, that shameful act is the same as dismissing their feelings. I have learned that romance fires the imagination of passion and that passion fires my world. What am I looking for? I’m looking for: a passionate, caring man I can talk to and converse with and with whom I can envision our dreams, to be blessed with the smiles, laughter and special moments so our hearts can communicate through our emotion, a man with desire and passion for life, and who still believes in romantic getaways.I would honestly love to meet that special man who makes my eyes sparkle when I see him or think of him, one that makes my heart skip a beat after a dry spell without him. That special man that would injest my being and make us one, no matter where we are or who we are with, when others see us, they know we are meant to be forever together. I can still wish upon a star he is out there, I will not settle for less.........I miss him!!! Any place, in public, that we can enjoy each other's company and discuss our interest and possibly see if there is any connections.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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