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Tomi, 55

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About Me

Fun loving, financially responsible, warped sense of humor and able to change a flat tire. I don't mind being put on a pedestal but can we limit it to just a few hours a day? I grew up in the city but have lived in the country for 24 years; I'm OK with either lifestyle. I love warm weather and really dislike the cold. I'm low maintenance and at home in blue jeans. I have shown horses successfully at the national level but have put it aside for the past 16 years. I have a dry sense of humor and am interested in trying new things. I love cooking, reading , sewing and playing with power tools. I'm comfortable with my own company and don't believe a couple needs to be tied at the hip. I had a year of college and then naively quit to get married. I re-enrolled in the local community college and completed my AA degree in ***. When I figure out what I want to do when I grow up, I'll go for my BA! On a first date I'd like an activity that lets me experience you being you, if it's summer maybe a stroll through the Farmer's Market - no dinner on the town or movie where the food or the story take center stage. Maybe check out a local event, just something that acts as a backdrop to us finding out if we have common ground.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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