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Alexus, 54

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About Me

First I'd like to thank the men who have written me offering FWB relationships or hang outs. Sorry that is NOT what I'm looking for. Who am I? A free spirit (with a serious side), outgoing yet quiet at times and can be a bit shy at first. I can be witty, definitely fun, adventurous and spontaneous. I have a romantic side, I’m an intelligent, attractive, down to earth woman with very little baggage or drama in my life, a happy person that smiles and laughs a lot (I really believe laughter is the best medicine). I have a multitude of interest, including music, the theater, home improvement, communing with nature, anything water related, hiking, biking, walking, gardening, festivals, Golf (I play at it). or just relaxing on a patio for happy hour with friends and family. I love animals and they love me. I don’t take myself too seriously definitely don't sweat the small stuff and have a zest for life. I love to learn about new cultures and experience new adventures. I am a very optimistic (glass half full) person.Travel and ethnic foods are my passion and partake in both as often as possible. I'm very spontaneous and adventurous and seek out new adventures whenever the opportunity arises. I am comfortable in any social situation. I can go from jeans to evening attire in 60 minutes or less.I truly like men (not a man hater) and I have some great platonic male friends (I grew up with seven boys my age). Yes, I have been hurt and disappointed in relationships but they are in the past and I don't believe in bringing negativity with me into any new friendship or relationship and I AM looking for a relationship. Life experience is something you learn from and move on.Some of the qualities I am looking for in a man are: intelligence (intelligence is extremely sexy), someone to have fun with, little or no drama, we should be able to be ourselves. A man who has a reasonable amount of energy, who enjoys getting out and being active, has great morals and is not arrogant. He is comfortable in his own skin (as am I) and is emotionally and financially secure. A great sense of humor is a must. We can meet on a patio somewhere that we can talk and enjoy tasty beverage. A great first meeting can be the start of a wonderful relationship or maybe just a great friendship. Of course if you are spontaneous and adventurous, there is always the option of the first meeting at the airport passports in hand. ; )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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  • Teri

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I like most music except rap, heavy metal and opera. I love to dance, am very outgoing, and love to laugh and enjoy life. I love the water, swimming, hanging out at the pool, BBQ's and going for boat rides. I am very excited to get out and see this wonderful place. I am fairly active, but am not a workout buff. I like most foods except sushi. I love the holidays, especially St. Pattie's, Halloween and Christmas. Meet for a****ail, lunch or dinner. I am always open to new ideas too. Preferably somewhere not too noisy. Being new to this area, I am not familar with all the good spots, so I may rely on your good judment for a meeting place. No coffee dates please. If you are serious about meeting, feel free to message me. If you are just looking for someone to message or text too, I am not your gal.

  • Jonie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    !! Yeah!!!!! My goal has come forth, I will be a permanent resident as of ***!!!!! Yeah Me!!!I'm a fun loving, attractive, witty, playful, kind(not to be mistaken for weakness), classy yet sassy loving woman with a wonderful sense of humor. I am very independent woman, yet, would love to share what life has to offer with a companion. A man who is fun loving, adventurous, spontaneous, having a great sense of humor and style. A man who isn't afraid of being friends first, and taking things naturally, which could lead to a Long term relationship. A relationship built on RESPECT, HONESTY, and TRUST which is so easily said, yet not easy to find. Someone I can be comfortable enough with to be myself, me, and who is comfortable enough to be himself. That is where TRUST comes into play. If you can not trust the person you are with, you can never be who you truly are. Please DO NOT HAVE any emotional baggage larger than a shaving kit. If you are unable to communicate, if you are not happy and content with your life...move along please..The only one who can bring happiness to your life, is yourself...a partner can only enhance one's happiness. I am not looking for is "a casual sex partner", I am interested in a Long term relationship and becoming wonderful companions/friends. If it happens today, or if it happens 20 years from now, doesn't matter. I know what I want, and I will not settle for anything less. I love to dance, my dogs, my family and friends. I love music, life and all it has to offer. Yankee's baseball, YEAHHHH!!!!!! Going to Yankee's stadium, gardening, the beach, NYC, the mountains, the rain, boating, I'll even fish, but I won't bait the hook. Cuddling on the couch with that special man with a good movie on a chilly or rainy afternoon or evening IS as romantic to me as a candle lite dinner in a romantic setting. I love to kiss, often and ALLOT, it's a must...do you love kissing also? I'm very affectionate, caring and giving. I'm very kind, and I believe no one should see kindness as a weakness. It's a wonderful quality to have...Thank you!!!! Most of all, I love who I am, being a woman, and I love my life. I am as comfortable in a pair of jeans as I am getting dressed up for a night on the town. "I love being a girl!" Life is very precious, I only want to be surrounded by positive people in my life... I'm real, please be also...now that being said... I'm a woman who doesn't need a man in her life to complete her, yet, a woman who would love to have a gentleman compliment what I have in my life as I would him/his. A couple things to tell you about myself: I do have one tattoo, I wish I never had gotten, I can tell you where and why if asked. I smoke. ***** UPDATE**** I QUIT!!! :)I may snore, but my dogs don't complain. I sometimes snort when I laugh, and I laugh often. (allot of times at myself) When I'm really cold, my nose runs. :) I love holding hands and PDA's. A few of my dislikes are, being lied too, whiners, negativity,(I refuse to be around negative people, life is to short...stop whining) lack of self respect and respect of others. Ask and I will tell you what ever you would like to know about myself. Thanks for stopping by, and reading. I wish you all great happiness, and great love in your lives. Have a great day and smile!!! Something casual, coffee, lunch, laughs....we'll play it by ear after that.***HERE'S AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR YOU***When I talk to you, I don't want to talk about sex, I don't want to hear how great and passionate a lover you are. It is a total turn off just starting off talking to someone and sex is brought up in the first conversation. I am no prude at all, but c'mon guys..... Why do some men feel the need to go there with a women he doesn't even know. A TOTAL TURN OFF!!! Next!!*****Another update....So that you do not feel deceived, I have been on a prescribed medication to help with nerve pain the past year and a half(you've seen the commercial on tv...(Lyrica))....some of the side effects is weight gain/swelling legs, feet, arms, blurred vison etc.... I have been blessed with MOST of the side effects including weight gain....I've gained 43lbs on this medication unfortunately. I am not happy about it, but it is what it is, and there is no alternative medication to take for this unfortunate pain. I'm average in body type, but not a skinny mini. If this is a problem for you, move on. Like I said, it is what it is.

  • Dylan

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Looking back, I would say that as a single professional woman, I have devoted too many hours towards career, and not enough time in looking for Mr. Right. I am entering a period in life in which I would like to change my priorities. I am in search of an easy-going, even-tempered, fun-loving guy to share enjoyable activities with. Perhaps, someone looking for a partner to rock in that chair beside them out on the porch, in the final chapters of our life.I enjoy music and love going to listen to local bands play. I enjoy cooking and love to entertain at home for family and friends. I enjoy playing cards and board games. I enjoy going to the movies or going to sporting events. I like boating and fishing. I can find enjoyment in most any activity. I believe anything is fun if you are with the right person. Optimism and humor are definitely important core qualilties that I seek. #1 A nice first date could be as simple as going to the local ice cream shop and having an ice cream together as we talk. #2 Walking around the mall and going into the music store to discuss music we both like ended by a soft drink in the food court.##In my mind, it should be something light, something not too long in length, something casual and certainly not expensive. It's just an opportunity to meet, to see if there are any sparks whatsoever between two people. If not, it's not the end of the world. Afterall, it may just be one more human being you have met in your life and nothing more than that. Hopefully, it's one more step closer to meeting your match no matter how it turns out.

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