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Derryl, 51
United States, Massachusetts, Wilmington

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IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR SEPERATED ,PLEASE DO. OF CONTACT ME! IJust went thru one o those! True learning experience! But I m still wonderfully entact! ;-). Well, here we go again, lol..I believe in my heart I was born about 50 to ***years to late or perhaps maybe I was a living soul way back then, who knows..ALSO, I would like to tell you all that Im burned out from the big and small games on here, The reason is because of those that want to play *** some have all the words in their profiles, yet after all that they say, mostly and on the most part, ""their" actions ARE WAY DIFFERENT then the words.!!FALSE advertising is such a turn off, don't you think??? Well,I do! if you don't have TRUST with each other, you have nothing..I am loyal, looking for same!'Im here to find THE ONE ..If you say you will do something, then I ask that you please follow through, and I will do the same for you. or I will just assume you are not interested..I will answer your ***, then, if I do give you my phone number, I will naturally expect a phone call within say about a week, just to say hello and chat for awhile, Does anyone out there remember that we are human and we are meant to talk out loud to each-other, God Willing, if possible that is!! if we are able to do so..this is how we can start a friendship, then perhaps a possible romance..it's the voice that starts this DANCE ;) So, LETS INTRIGUE EACHOTHER, the old fashioned way =) !!I am a true LADY.. I don't give my number to everyone or just anyone..I only give it to a man that I may be attracted to from the get go and when I see some potential in it for both of us..I'm am also old school ,I expect a MAN TO CALL ME, and to please treat me like a lady that I am, and not the other way around ..I don't like to do the chasing! That's how I roll..If you do want pen pals, you got the wrong lady here. Time ia a wastin!! TICK TOCK gentleman, TICK TOCK!!!! I will be off of here more then I'm on here..so If I don't answer your message right away, please know that I will, if Im not interested, then I probably won't. We are all human and have feelings, Im not here to hurt anyone's feelings..so please , don't hurt mine... if you are a player, alcoholic (functioning or otherwise) have a major drug habit, or some other dependent problem or weirdness, then please move on..Im not perfect or think I am by ANY means,, but I do believe in moderation is all things, Im healthy, I would like to stay that way as long as possible, and I like to stay fit.. I hope we can all get what we want from here without messin with anyone's head!.Tho I love to play =) I play nice in the sandbox.. =DHappy Fishing!!(my apologies for the length of my profile, but my words have substance, as do I..thus, I'm looking for the same! )"A woman is one of the most beautiful phenomena in the world; not to be compared with anything else. The woman is the masterpiece of God." ~ Osho****************************************************************************************************************************************************************I have no tattoos or piercing anywhere that's weird..Only one in each ear..I am old fashioned type..Well, first and foremost as I said above, I'm a LADY in all scenarios. Im about Family, love, nurturing and with a good heart, and Gods /spirituality.. This is my core, and how I was raised..I was also raised in NYC.. Im a huge animal lover...especially for dogs! If I see dog abuse or dog neglect in any way, I will turn you in..and Im not kidding!!!I so enjoy warm evenings, TO ME they are magical and stronger than any moonshine thats made on this earth...when on the water, its even a million times better ...there is no better meditation in the world then that..the only thing that is better is to take in these moments and absorb all of life has to offer is with someone that is special and genuine right beside me, and that he recognizes it and gets all that I'm trying to say and feel, as I will expect you to want the same. .I want to compliment eachother on eachother's arms..I enjoy most foods and can go from burgers and beers to gourmet and wine in a jiffy...this also goes for the outfits that it would take to dress accordingly as well...LOL..Um, Im sorry, but I dislike sushi very much..and that also goes for anchovies & caviar too..lol..however, I do love many other delicacies & appreciate them as much as you would..after all, I'm french and italian and have had the opportunity to travel to both these countries...delicious, romantic, and would love to go back someday..=)I also find some volunteer work now and then and I find it very rewarding, as we should all pay it forward..I have lived with grace and will continue to do so..I listen and weigh both sides of issues. I am a true LIBRA! .Im fair,honest,and loyal and believe that whatever you put out there you will get back good or bad tenfold.. this is karma! I try not to judge, but just to listen ,because you never know until you have walked in someone else's shoes what you are judging..I consider myself to be very passionate, caring, sincere & a kind-hearted spiritual woman..I would expect the same in return ! The best relationship you will have in this life is with yourself first, if you are whole and love yourself first, THEN, you can share an give that love in the best way possible, and fully!I see ALL people as GOOD inside, until you give me a reason to think other wise, I have a huge heart and yes, and its still entact..lol..and its all good as I live for the now and the future, and NOT in the past...those are memories and have molded my personality to a point, but the past is the past,..and it should be viewed as such.. =)I want to meet someone who is intelligent,possesses a bright inner beauty, possibly a creative side..INTRIGUING! Someone who appreciates meaningful conversation and a high connection to me and us together and that respects the beauty and importance in life..also,someone who likes to travel and to take it all in with me and I with him TOGETHER, SIDE BY SIDE..Someone with a sense of humor, and... a great, big big heart too!! My taste in music really varies..I love jazz and the sax..Im also partial to the flute..I like classic rock..and I even like some pop and country too... but I dont usually like RAP, to me, thats NOT music!!! I really love motown and R&B.. All I know life is not life, without "music" for the soul!! Depending on the mood, I have the ability to enjoy and watch all kinds of song on this big ball blue!!!My parents really loved each-other till death did them apart..they danced in the living room and you could always see they had that connection and that chemistry apark ...there were rough spots as to me, the first time we meet in person does not a first date make..it's a meeting to see if we really want to go on a first date..coffee or drinks...and/or walk and chat..then we can go from there..chemistry is the key, so I guess we will see what happens =)thank you for reading and have a great day & night!! =)***WARNING*** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects- You DO NOT have permission to use ANY of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a VIOLATION of my privacy and will be SUBJECT TO LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    LOL YOU SHOULD READ THIS FIRST!! The funniest thing i have seen on these profiles are what i call the HOOK picture! Seriously? I really don't care what you look like 10, 5, 2 years ago and clearly if you have any brain a person can tell!! And if you say fit and athletic please show up looking like that im not looking for a keg! Hey if your offended by this sorry, honesty is the best policy. You are protected by spirit. Stay true to your ideals and listen to your heart for your dreams are within reach. Proceed with humility and use your power for the greatest good.Leather lace, style grace, spunk sass, and a little kick a$$. THAT is what country girls are made of!If you favorite me you better follow it up with a e-mail or im just going to ***, so I say take your best shot or forever say "I wish I had" Best of luck to you all. I have tried to be nice but now have decided if im not interested im just not going to reply. If you live in a hotel pass me by (yes that really happened) Real men should be stable with a real address!!! If you don't want the truth, don't ask me. I'm not a candy maker. Don't expect me to sugar coat anything for you...I have a wonderful grown son 24, and a beautiful grand son 2 and a half yrs counting. I have had a wonderful life and very blessed to this point. Like a diamond, I am multi-faceted.;at times, a Renaissance woman given my wide array of interests;; always a bright, dynamic, intense, deeply passionate & highly energetic individual. A people person who is genuinely warm, open, insightful & expressive who needs to connect to my partner intellectually, emotionally, physically & spiritually. My strength & self-confidence are tempered by my sensitivity, compassion & tenderness. I can also be competitive & demanding yet diplomatic & open to compromise. I take life seriously yet can laugh at myself & the world around me. I'm a hopeless romantic, love affection, enjoy giving as much as receiving & am fiercely loyal to those I love. I know my own mind, am true to my convictions, evolved enough to know my own strengths & vulnerabilities & open enough to continue exploring new opportunities for growth. Progressive in thought yet traditional in values. I am happiest when you feel taken care of. As passionate as I am about people, I am about life & great conversation-kisses that take my breath away-plus you truly enjoy food b/c it is more about the experience of tasting life than it is one of mere sustenance.. This is not a dress rehearsal I would hope that you put your best foot forward! When one becomes skeptical of a kindness eventually there will be no kindness and what one fears will be their reality. So be kind and good luck.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a fun loving free spirit who enjoys the mountains, beaches, and lots of places in between! I Love to be on a motorcycle and yes I can ride my own and yours. I can promise you that I do not look my age, thank the Lord for good genes!! I own my house but am not looking to take you in if you are homeless, I have worked very hard to be independent. I am a very warm, caring soul and my heart has not been hardened. My 2 children are grown. I am into old movies, southern rock, and a wide variety of other music. Dancing is my outlet. (a true Juilliard wannabe!!). I have been out of a relationship for about 3 years now but I am ready to find that one man & I do believe he is out there....we will see!!UPDATE ALERT: please let me REITERATE this.....I am not interested in taking you in if you are homeless. If you don't have a job what the heck are you even doing on here? And you guys looking way out of your age range are crazy, what does a 27 yr old woman have in common with a 50 year old man.....eewwwhh....young enough to be your daughter.....you guys don't even have a clue what you're missing!!!And lastly, I notice on a lot of profiles that some of you guys want a 25 yr old with a flawless body no less, man, haha. Get real and some of you could use 6 days a week at the gym yourself!! And if you are a conceited snob, please do not bother me. I am not interested in wasting my time on you!! I prefer a quick drive by look-see the very first time, in case you don't look like your picture & I need to make an abrupt get-away, ha-ha! Just kidding, yeah, uh-huh....seriously, I believe in a cup of coffee or iced tea somewhere where we can sit down and check each other out, uhm, I mean talk and see if there's an interest.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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