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Annika, 54
United States, Massachusetts, Whitman

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About Me

My warmth and friendliness are the first qualities people notice about me. I am a gentle and encouraging listener, and I love to explore ideas and envision possibilities. I tend to nurture others, and I strive to treat others as I would like to be treated. For myself, I prefer getting to know someone on a deeper level rather than day to day chit chat. And sharing comfortable silence with someone is a true balm to my soul. (Can you spell introvert?) The next thing people notice about me is my quick wit and love of laughter. My humour can be corny, edgy, dirty, and intelligent – all delivered with a twinkle in my eye. I cannot appreciate hurtful humour. My online radio station is tuned to blues, or classical music like Mozart, but there is nothing like 70’s rock. **** It is such a thrill to hear those songs, not those pop songs so much, but more the “B sides” that meant so much to me at the time. My dream is to have a man think and feel about me as the 70’s rock balladeers felt about their women – corny right?! “Do ya Do ya want my love…?” I am definitely a homebody. Don’t get me wrong, I love to go out – see a movie, visit friends, go to the St.’s market, visit towns with antique stores, museums and Tim coffees. BUT – I love to return home and let out that contented sigh that means I’m home – that place of welcome, calm, comfort and peace. I love the alchemy of cooking – bringing various ingredients together under different conditions resulting in magic! I‘m in my element when I’m slicing, dicing and blending. Is there any better smell than onions, garlic and peppers softening in the pan? I like making the old fashioned simple foods – savoury, hearty and satisfying. I’ve had marriage proposals for my soups. I have insatiable curiosity about the world. I am a library and second hand book store junky. (BTW wouldn’t that be a great first date? – going to a used book sale together. You would learn just about everything you need to know about a person and reveal yourself as well.) Right now I am enjoying the sweetness of moving into this new stage in my life. I have work that I enjoy, that I excel in. I enjoy and value the opportunity to parent. I derive great pleasure from the simple things in life. I enjoy being a positive and grateful person, and I enjoy others who are like that as well. I have spent my life working hard and striving to become whole. I am comfortable with who I am. And who I am is a “lover”. I am the most me I can be when I am loving. I have many different kinds of love in my life which I enjoy. The love that I ache for is a romantic love. This love is a necessity for me. I want to meet someone who is content with himself, yet looking for that depth of relationship where he can express his inner desires and dreams, and give love to his maximum potential. I am up for that! I am looking for a man who respects and cherishes the people in his life, and a man who can recognize the strengths and vulnerabilities within himself as well as in me. My head wants to build slowly on a solid foundation of friendship and compatibility. My heart wants to be “all in” with a single kiss. My body wants….well let’s keep this from getting R rated. I will go out of my way to reflect back to you that you are powerful, valuable, and cherished. I am a million different flowers tied together in one bouquet. (I stole that from another profile because I LOVE it!!) Care to pull my ribbon? (That last part is all me!) First Date: I’m probably going to be a bit nervous to start, so something like a leisurely walk will help to avoid that “being interrogated” feeling. If the interest to go forward is there, I would love to do something that allows us to talk and laugh. What’s your idea?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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  • Christianne from Whitman | Woman | 54 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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