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Jay, 53

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About Me

I am pretty low maintenance and like to keep life simple. I believe music and dancing heal the soul. More often than not less really is more. I am a morning person as long as there is always a strong cup of coffee waiting for me. I believe truly living in the moment is the key to real happiness. My spiritual walk is personal so I don't talk about it but willing to share if asked. I am comfortable alone and know how to take care of myself but enjoy having someone special in my life. I am a reasonably insightful person. I have dreams, reach for my goals, try to always be kind, think outside the box, and enjoy ideas that help me see another view. I am excited about new adventures here. I have already discovered a couple of great disc golf courses. I enjoy concerts, biking, hiking, camping, swimming, and sometimes I just take a nap. I will try anything once. Skydiving may take a little coaxing or a slight push. I am familiar with the area because I visited my son and his family every year since ***. I have four children ages 28, 30, 32, and 34, one beautiful 12 year old granddaughter, and my precious grandson passed away at the age of 4 in ***. I'm looking for a few good men...wait, that's the Marines, got a little confused. Mutual respect for each others feelings, space, and values are important to me and nothing beats great chemistry! Honestly, my goal here is to meet someone and enjoy the journey of getting to know him. I would like to have a long term relationship; however, I have no intentions of forcing it to happen. I was married for 23 years (thus the 4 children) and have been divorced for 11 years. And finally, I have two rescue cats, Asia and Tika. I prefer a first meeting to be a simple cup of coffee or walk and then we can decide if we would like to have a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nola

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I've been divorced for four years and am simply looking for a guy with whom I can enjoy some companionship and have a good time to include flirting and laughter; weekend jaunts to places near and far; sitting around watching TV; going to a movie, gallery or show; taking rides to no where; sharing intimate moments of physical pleasure; working out (although I prefer to do this alone); going to rock concerts; and some other idle and/or productive pursuits that my new friend might introduce to me. The end goal would be a long-term committed relationship.You also should know that I have a 16 year old teenage son. But, he doesn't want much to do with me at this point in his life, so I have plenty of free time for the right guy.Like I said, how difficult can this be? First dates should be simple. Grab a drink or coffee. Get a bite to eat at a casual spot. The intent is to get to know the person to determine if there will be date number two!

  • Patrina

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a christian woman who is easy going, kind and loyal. I love country and western music, like going to movies, getting together with friends. I am a family person who loves her kids. I am looking for a partner who will be there for me as I will be there for him. I like to have fun and would like someone with a good sense of humor. I am ready for a relationship to last the rest of my life. I just want a normal family life without drama if that's possible. I also like football (go Sooners) and Thunder basketball. If you are looking for the same thing send me a message and let's get to know each other I would like to spend time getting to know someone and have a little fun.

  • Dalia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I'm a positive person, who looks forward to new adventures. I enjoy traveling, the beach, the mountains, all of nature. I'm honest and hard working. I would like to meet someone who I can be friends with first and hopefully grow into an intimate long term relationship. I love to laugh and maybe you will be the one to laugh with me. Well first of all is the first date the meeting date? Or is the first date the one after the meeting date? Can I play pretend, A perfect first date is being together, and talking for hours and hours and it only feels like one hour.It really doesn't matter what you do as long as you connect, and get to know each other.

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