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Jay, 53

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About Me

I am pretty low maintenance and like to keep life simple. I believe music and dancing heal the soul. More often than not less really is more. I am a morning person as long as there is always a strong cup of coffee waiting for me. I believe truly living in the moment is the key to real happiness. My spiritual walk is personal so I don't talk about it but willing to share if asked. I am comfortable alone and know how to take care of myself but enjoy having someone special in my life. I am a reasonably insightful person. I have dreams, reach for my goals, try to always be kind, think outside the box, and enjoy ideas that help me see another view. I am excited about new adventures here. I have already discovered a couple of great disc golf courses. I enjoy concerts, biking, hiking, camping, swimming, and sometimes I just take a nap. I will try anything once. Skydiving may take a little coaxing or a slight push. I am familiar with the area because I visited my son and his family every year since ***. I have four children ages 28, 30, 32, and 34, one beautiful 12 year old granddaughter, and my precious grandson passed away at the age of 4 in ***. I'm looking for a few good men...wait, that's the Marines, got a little confused. Mutual respect for each others feelings, space, and values are important to me and nothing beats great chemistry! Honestly, my goal here is to meet someone and enjoy the journey of getting to know him. I would like to have a long term relationship; however, I have no intentions of forcing it to happen. I was married for 23 years (thus the 4 children) and have been divorced for 11 years. And finally, I have two rescue cats, Asia and Tika. I prefer a first meeting to be a simple cup of coffee or walk and then we can decide if we would like to have a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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