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About Me

I love life and people. I am a most positive person who loves laughing everydayand am enjoying a retired life after working with high schoolers for over 30 years.Nature is extremely important to me-I am a passionate person and love touching,cuddling and making love. I lost my husband seven years ago and waited til mystep-daughter, who I raised and feels like my very own child, left home last year,for me to start dating.I am ready to find someone special and that might mean kissing a few toads-LOL. Wisdom is important to me which comes not by the number ofdegrees one has but how they have learned from life experiences and understandingwhat is really important in life. Treating people with kindness and respect and beingpatient during hard times is important to me-I have a small but very affectionate family. I love God but am not a zealot nor do I believe injudging anyone else. I could lose a few pounds but am curvy...I enjoy going to the Y to work out a few timesa week and am told I am sexy and attractive. I feel young not in my 50's but do notbelieve in acting like a kid. Oh yes, and I often forget, but am reminded, I am very short(4'10).....has not ever seemed to affect tallgentlemen from asking me out. I have a big heart and personality...but know when to keep mymouth shut-remember that wisdom thing.I wrote this in about ten minutes before I lost the nerve to do it....I am a more complex person that thisportrays but am not into drama. To know me, is to love me........but I did lie when I selected 5 foot versus under- Meeting for a drink or coffee and talking to get to know someone. I am somewhat shy for about 5 minutes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharilyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like all kinds of music except rap..I enjoy getting out for a hike in one of central New Yorks finest parks. In the winter I like to ski.. I have two sons***and ***. I also have two dogs. I had a cat but she recently passed away...I truly dislike shallow people....maybe I am expecting too much but I would like to be in a monogamous relationship..I will not be just a "booty call". So I asked my son where I should go to meet nice guys. His response was Craigs list...hummmm..he definitely has my sense of humor :)...UGHHHH where are all the decent men now a days??..I haven't had luck meeting people from this site...I don't mind talking on the phone but PLEASE don't ask me to have phone sex with you...if we do meet PLEASE don't suggest that after dinner on a first date we go shopping at a sex shop..If you are looking for a skinny woman then you need to keep on looking..I recently lost 60 lbs but I have never been skinny nor will I ever be. If it is personality you want then I am the one for you :) ..what i am looking for in a guy...hummm i want a man that is employed or retired but can financially support himself..no felons or ex felons...no abusers..i prefer he has teeth lol....he MUST have a sense of humor. am i too picky? :) i KNOW there is someone out there for me..tho i was thinking maybe i would get more responses from men in their 90's lol....would love to find someone to spend my spare time with...right now it is only me and the dogs ...i love the dogs but its real hard time having a conversation with them lol..yet another holiday season alone....that makes about 3 yrs but whos counting..overtime at work as slowed down a bit so more free time for me ..just trying to find MY mr right...not too successful yet tho :(..where is everyone....enjoying my vacation so far..have a good day allhere is my favorite movie quote...." This kind of certainty comes but once in a lifetime"....hopefully meeting that someone special.any questions feel free to ask..have a good dayeven tho i haven't had much luck on this web site i still think someone is out there for me...MY glass is half full.feel free to contact me..i will respondhave a good weekend I would like to go out for coffee and/ or for a nice walk. I like going to the movies but it is hard to get to know someone while watching a movie

  • Cymone

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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