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Lia, 54

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About Me

I had a difficult time choosing between long term and dating. I am now ready to find someone who like me is kind , thoughtful, loving, caring, compassionate, enjoys life , loves to laugh and sees the best in others and happy in their own skin. But, not ready to get married right away. Since my divorce, I have realized how much life there is to enjoy. Don 't sweat the small stuff and it's all small stuff! Really do feel these next few years will be the absolute best and looking for someone who also loves life to share that with. I'm a very loving, passionate person who has lots of love to give. I had amazing parents and know how to give and receive love and would like the same in my significant other! Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other and see if there is that connection there. Would love to take a walk or hike or meet at a Starbucks or resturaunt where we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bella

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Bella. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Westwood, Massachusetts, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Cymone

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

  • Raven

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    NO LONGER LOOKING.......... WISH ME BLESSINGS AS I CONCENTRATE ON THE "1"Please Note:I am looking for a relationship with a SINGLE BLACK MAN. I mean no disrespect to men of other races. It is simply my preference. are there any Men that understand how intimate the art of getting to know someone is. How it's even more intimate than the actual act of sex?A relationship based on sex has a very short shelf life. The ability to have a physical relationship can be taken away from any of us in an *** would be left if there is no sincere and emotional love? What I have to offer:Loyalty, kindness, consistency, submissiveness, humor, intelligence, empathy, sympathy, faithfulness, strength and love.Ask Yourself: what are You looking for in a woman? Do I possess any of the qualities and characteristics that I have listed above?What I desire in a Man:Loyalty, kindness, consistency, Dominance, humor, intelligence, empathy, sympathy, faithfulness, strength and love.Ask Yourself: do You possess a majority of those qualities and characteristics?If You can honestly say that what I have to offer and what You have to offer are similar to what I've listed above, then please feel free to contact me.Some one asked me recently what I WANT in a man. I sat and thought about it and this was my reply:i'd like a man that wants to be the man in the relationship. someone that will protect me at all costs.make me feel safe and secure. that will tell me every day, that he loves me ....not always in words necessarily but with his actions too. i want a man that will be proud to have me by his side even on those days where i have crazy white girl hair and am looking every second of my 52 years.i want a man that will be faithful to me even if there comes a day when i can't be physical with him anymore.... as well, i want a man that will let me be his rock when he's sad, or worried or unsure. i want a man that will let me love him with my whole heart and never doubt that i'm his and his alone. i want a man that will let me be his love, his best friend, his strength and his adviser at times. i want a man that will appreciate me spoiling him. i want a man that sees his future in my eyes every time he looks at me and then he falls in love with me all over again. i think that says it all........A SIDE NOTE: I am NOT tethered to where I live. I want to have a relationship and if I fall in love with someone and he with me, then I will go where he is or have him move here. I love my children and grandchildren but I want to have an "in-love" relationship and if that means moving, I will go. NO LONGER LOOKING..... WISH ME BLESSINGS AS I CONCENTRATE ON THE "1"1st meet = first MEETcoffee/soda/drinks/a meal. It's important that it is somewhere quiet enough that we can talk and get to know each other and decide if we want to have a 1st date or not.2nd meet = first DATEcould be dinner, movie, playing pool or darts-- anything fun and not so structured that we can't just enjoy each other's company and determine if we'd like to see each other again. 3rd meet = second DATEa day trip would be great. Talking while driving and then enjoying local beautiful scenery or exploring a larger city near by. How about going fishing? (love to fish!) Does that sound good to you?

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