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Elfreda, 22

United States, Massachusetts, Stoughton

Offline, last seen Tue, 22 Sep 2026 09:49:17

About Me

I’m still new at this. I will start by saying I am not your typical girl. I am me. I do not want to hook up I am looking for a relationship. I would like to find a friend then start a relationship if we both believe it will work out. I am not interested in dating around because of my son. He does need a father figure in his life since he has not really had one and I do not want to confuse him. When I am in a relationship I take it slow. I have only been in one relationship. I dated him straight out of high school when I graduated in ***and we ended things this past April. I would like to find a serious and long term relationship. I am the most honest and loyal girl you have ever met. I have been through a lot in my life and finally working through it. I would like to find someone who can be patient. Someone who can support me and help me through it and not run the other direction. I see a counselor twice a week because I have post dramatic stress disorder. I have it because I was abused as a child and was abused in my past relationship. What I have from it is anxiety. I get really nervous leaving the house and sometimes I will panic and decide to go home. There was actually a point where I didn’t leave the house for 8 months. Luckily I made it past that and am able to. I haven’ I am improving quickly though and getting better everyday. I’m working on it and it is hard because a lot of people don’t understand and/or can’t accept it. I really would like to find someone who can and who can help me get through it. I’ve been through a lot which is the best way I can explain it. I can’ My son is my world and very important to me. He just turned 3 this past summer. I love to make him happy and will do anything for him. I'm not the type of mom who just watches him play. I will play with him at the park, color with him, draw with chalk, even climb in the tubes at Chuck E Cheese. That's my kind of fun. I don't party. GOD is also very important to me. Without him I wouldn't have made it here today. I have big goals for my future. I want to put him in better schools and a better environment than here. I am working on my degree for financial management now and hope to finish it soon. I also want to help abused children , the homeless and rescue animals. I am a very sympathetic person. I always try to see the positives in life. .For my answers about kids I do not want any of my own. I had trouble in the hospital with my son and I don't want to go through that again. I would like to adopt one day though maybe and I am obviously ok if you have any kids. I would be more than happy to answer any questions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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