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So difficult to describe myself like this. I am many different things rolled into one body and mind. So many experiences have created who I am. You really just have to spend some time with me in different situations to get to know me. I like many things ranging from camping and fishing to cooking and gardening. From travelling and dining out to peaceful chilling on the back porch at home. I am an intense personality and tend to be extreme. It is easier to say what I don't like than what I like. First, I am Wiccan. So please no bible thumpers or anyone wanting to change my belief system to match theirs. Everyone has a right to their own beliefs so no judging please. No drug addicts, alcoholics or abusers please. Been there. Done that. Honesty is of utmost importance. I don't do drama or manipulation or head games and I don't tolerate that from others. I get enough of that nonsense from my grown kids and their partners! I have been a single mom for 27 years. I have 2 grown sons ages 27 and 21 who still challenge my patience! Lol. I have 3 beautiful grandchildren. I have devoted my entire life to my children. I have not made room for relationships or dating, mainly because it is difficult for others to accept my unconditional dedication to my children and my refusal to put anyone else before them. But now they are grown and I feel like I should be able to attend somewhat to my own needs and fulfillment. I love life and all the variety it has to offer.I am feeling ready to extend myself to enjoying things in life outside of my children. I have not dated in years or so much as shared a hug with anyone but my kids. I don't recall the last time I even went out to dinner, except u know a family celebration. I think it has been over 4 years. I have no expectations for relationship status or anything beyond today.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Nice, down to earth lady with a good sense of humor... I Try not to take myself too seriously. Enjoys music, movies, romantic walks and the beach. Camping, fishing and kayaking are also great fun! Love animals and travel, value good health and integrity. Take pride in my physical appearance and respect others who do as well. I Find myself happiest in a balanced relationship where I can nurture and also be loved. I enjoy cooking and baking (it's all part of being a nurturer, afterall). If you are superficial, shallow, lacking the desire for a long term, emotionally intimate relationship- you are probably not for me.My ideal relationship is one that is emotionally rich, soulfully giving and respectfully honest. Hoping to meet someone who is open to the possibility of growing old together but willing to move slowly and take the time to build a strong friendship...Please be a responsible, honest and family oriented person with the ability to laugh and the desire to be loved and well cared for....Thanks for reading my profile :) It depends on the comfort level and familiarity established before a first date. For me, it's the company and chemistry much more than the venue or location. If you're with the right person, a traffic jam can be a fortunate event, lol! I am open minded and flexible...I have little need for social props or empty ritual...just let yourself shine and nature will take care of the rest :)

  • Diann

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a genuine, warm-hearted and fun-loving woman who is looking for the same in a man. I am divorced now, and am ready to find a real relationship. Here are some things you might like to know about me....I consider myself a "young" mother and grandmother. I enjoy my family very much, although I don't get to see them much. I am here looking for my special gentleman. He is someone who has similar character traits as myself, is like-minded when it comes to the essential elements of a relationship and love, but who differs from me enough to compliment one another without becoming bored. with each other. Although I do enjoy a great debate, I dislike fighting. Sometimes I am stubborn, tenacious, complex and complicated. I can seem like a chaotic mess at times. I am also sincere, loyal, trustworthy, fun, sensual and passionate. Being a true Libra, I am strong minded when it comes to being a fair player in all walks of life. I also believe in 2nd chances, 3rd chances, or as many as is needed to get it right. It's a great thing about this life we live; if you don't get it right, God gives you the chance to do it again and again until you chose to get it right! I believe its a choice to be happy. I am a deep thinker, and I don't take much at face value. I seem to see things faster and clearer than most. I study people before I trust them with anything important to me, especially my heart, although I appear to fly by the seat of my pants (that's that complex and complicated part! LOL!). I do love animals, especially my doberman and little Chihuahua. I am a psychology student in my senior year of my bachelor's degree. As far as music goes, I like country now days, but I also like rock, especially older rock and roll, like Sammy Hagar, Hagar/Van Halen, Moxy, etc. I also like R & B music. Actually, I can listen to just about any music except opera. I also really like the idea of camping out, but honestly, unless there is some kind of a toilet and a mattress involved...probably not gonna happen! LOL! I love to bass fish, tho. It is almost a passion. I find it relaxing and enjoyable. I will catfish or Crappy fish as well, although it is not as much fun. If you want a Barbie doll shaped woman....I am not her...I have a few extra pounds (which I am working on losing!), and I am a real woman with curves that accompany a woman who has had children and who is my age. I am not at all uncomfortable with my body, and I believe that while my body is not perfect, it is perfectly me! He should also be secure enough to not be a jealous man. I have male friends that are NOT my sexual partners. I have no tolerance for games when it comes to my heart. I need a man who is willing to step up: so cheaters, liars and players need not apply. I want what every woman wants. A man to romance her, love her like crazy and allow her to love them in return with all her might.....without all the drama. I know it's a tall order, but one I am not willing to compromise on.I desire a man who wants to be happy with me for THE long term and is not scared of that. LOL! Commitment is not a bad word!By the way, I know some of my pics say ***, but that is because I had a new camera and did not know how to set the date! All of my pics are within the last year or two. I am somewhat old-fashioned when it comes to dating, so I would like to have doors opened for me, men who arrive on time, and who, yes, pay the tab. I tend to let the man take the lead, so he should have a couple of locations in mind to offer as potential meeting locations, preferably close to my home town. The first dates, for me, are about getting to know one another, and having fun in the process. Do not expect me to make out on a first date! Those things should happen in their own time and space. Besides, the best "fun" starts between one's ears. Romance and chemistry are a necessary ingredient to that step up.

  • Elsie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am kind, loving, careing down to earth woman.I only want from a partner what I give him.I love to walk,hike and go on road trips.I love to do wood crafts like Birdhouses,signs,shelves and Christmas yard decorations.I also hand paint them all.I love country music. Mostly the new stuff though.I have two sons 28 and 22.I was raised in a small town and loved it.I was very lucky to have great parents who loved me and raised me in a loving home.Anything else you want to know please ask. Maybe a nice lunch or dinner in a quiet place or maybe even a picnic in a park or mountains or a nice beach so we can talk and get to know each other better.Then maybe a nice enjoyable walk and talk a little more.

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