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About Me

Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Inocencia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I guess you have to be a paid member to hide your profile now?? I am not sure who would pay to "not be on a dating site"??I am taking a break from the site and will not be responding to *** on your search!I cherish the simple things…good music, good conversation, laughter, friendship, trust… I am solution focused. I believe that effective communication; open-minded reflection, understanding and compromise can solve any problem, large or small…I prefer to consider my beliefs optimistic as opposed to naive. I am a creative/analytical intellectual…bit of a geek; with an edge…looking for same…you know who you are ;)In art and music I find peace and passion.Laughing till your cry is the second best feeling in the world!I have a long trail of failures that have lead to many successes. Waking up happy is both my long and short-term goal. Getting there should be half the fun.If you have to pretend to be something or someone that you are not in order to be with someone…then you are obviously trying to be with the wrong person. Why do yourself such a disfavor? Don't you want to be with someone who will love you for being exactly who you are?My biggest pet-peeve is someone who's words do not match their actions.I cannot erase the pain from your past, nor can I promise you a better future, I can however be present with you in the moment and appreciate it for exactly what it is. I am looking for someone who challenges and inspires me, someone who makes me feel like I am at home, no matter where I may be. It is not the location as much as it is the company! Good conversation and a few dozen laughs would be expected. I would insist on a public location. It would be nice to listen to some good music while getting to know one another :***\\\***Put this***On your***Profile if***Someone***\\\***You know***\\\***Who died***\***Of***\\***Cancer***\\\---Or Who Maybe Fighting It

  • Chryssa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very down to earth person that enjoys meeting new people and making new friends. I am honest, compassionate,affectionate,loyal and lots more. I enjoy outdoor fun, including fishing and just enjoying time with people I care about. I am not perfect by any means but do my best in everything I do. I enjoy Country music..big Toby Keith fan!! I love 80's rock and still listen to it loud..lol I enjoy watching football..Cowboys fan :) I was raised in a small town, so I enjoy the simple things in life..I love spending time with family, they are the most important to me. I enjoy spending time with friends and having fun just relaxing. I am looking to meet someone that is honest, not shallow, and cares about others..I enjoy talking and getting to know someone and like to have good conversation.. I can be sarcastic at times, but all in fun..I would like to get to know someone & date them, if we are compatible & enjoy others company, It could possibly be something long term. If you want to know more just ask me :) Somewhere comfortable for both people.

  • Issy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi!Thanks for stopping by. : )Please let me start by saying that if you are taking the time to look at my pictures, you need to have some of your own posted or available before you contact me. I am excited for the next chapter of my life......Thank God for second chances. : )It's a bit unfair that meetville wants you to describe your personality in one word.....I chose Animal Lover, but Hopeless Romantic, Foodie, and Adventurer also describe me well.I am a good person with a huge heart and I am not afraid to open it again. I am someone you would be proud to take home to meet your family. I am a huge dog lover, so if you don't like dogs it would be best for you to stop here.I had a much longer profile, but I think I would prefer to share more about me in person. A coffee or drink in a quiet place would be a great place to start!Again, I will not respond unless you have pictures posted/available to send. Best of luck on your search! Definitely casual......Meet for coffee or drinks and possibly a walk on the beach and some good conversation.

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