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About Me

Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cleo

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Some of my hobbies are exercising, biking, tennis, being on the beach, boating, traveling. I am very spontaneous and love doing just about anything.! It was beautiful! Did a tour of the ruins which was amazing. (The trip to Cancun was in November)...definitely a great time!..More travel plans are booked...but would be much better with a significant other.!I am currently working on my credits beyond my Masters degree and have 17 credits towards my Supervisory Certificate. I am also pursuing my Ph.D in Counseling Psychology and will begin those credits come Fall ***. There are definitely plenty of fish on this site. Please do not waste my time or yours, I am looking for a serious relationship,partner,friend,and long-term commitment. Do not respond if you are looking for anything other. NO Head Games. I am willing to travel to find my special "Fish"! No couch potatoes please, life is too short! Positive attitudes only, must have tons of energy to keep up with me! Thank you for reading my profile :) I wish everyone luck in finding their fish in this deep sea! I believe there is someone for all of us. To clarify for those reading Prom....I chaperone the proms to allow my special education students to attend. I will try and change this caption to eliminate any further confusion. My father recently passed, March ***and I donated 12 inches of my hair for cancer patients. It is growing back though since I donated it a month after his passing. I was actually growing it for three years to donate prior to knowing my father was a cancer victim. It is a very difficult thing and he was young...66. To clarify NJ/PA...I was born and raised in NJ...work in NJ and am often in NJ most of the time...however...my home is in PA...I am willing to travel...are you willing to do the same for a great relationship?..so hope you love the ocean, boating, sun and fun. Looking for chemistry with someone special and a travel companion!! Hope you are the one!!Please do not be offended if I do not respond back to you... I do not want to waste your time or mine...If I just do not feel we are a match you will not hear from me. I am a polite and caring individual...however..there just has to be some initial "spark". I hope you will understand.UPDATED ***My ***photo is still posted to show my personality. It is also one of my favorite. I have been told I look better in person, but will leave that up to you. I also still look the same...next trip planned in February ***...! It will be an awesome experience. Exploring the islands and simply having a blast! Love the islands! What is not to love about them??!I can be classy, yet also down to earth in a pair of jeans.If you are looking to just "hook-up", please pass me by. I am old-fashioned and believe in getting to know a person and value intimacy. I don't believe that two or three dates constitute for a sexual encounter and would like you to get to know me as I learn about you. A relationship is developed over time. I understand we are mature adults, however, I have values and respect my body. Thank you for your understanding.UPDATE ***I have been away from this site for a year. ***. I live part***. Taking a break from course work for now, but plan to return.If interested, I would love to hear from you! My first date with someone can be something as simple as a walk in the park/stroll along the beach where we can get to learn about each other and see if there is a chemistry. I am not looking to play any games as we are not getting any younger. I am looking for a good-natured man with morals and values. I do not have an issue if you currently have children, but would like to possibly have children of my own as well or adopt. I am career oriented, hard worker, but know how to balance career and relationships. It is important that you have communication skills and there is a level of attraction.

  • Nga

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Single Mom of a teenage daughter and full time employee. I'm independantly owned and opertated! Looking for friendship, and maybe more with someone who love kids, and big dogs too. Public meeting place for a first date....coffee, drinks, or dinner.

  • Diann

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Open to different things, dates or LTR. I\'m taking it easy. I think that i have many good qualities, but i will leave those for you to find out. If you’re curious about finding it you, write me.

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