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Joleen, 42

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About Me

I love to make the people in my life happy. I have a ton of acquaintences but a small handful of true friends. The friends in my life have been there for over 15 years. I am loyal.. even when my loyalty is not deserved. I will do. nything for the people I care about but expect them to do the same. I have been stabbed in the back by people who swore they never would and gave them all second chances. A couple of times forgiveness worked in my favor...a couple of times, not so much. I still want to believe the best in people. I'm clumsy, I talk in my sleep, I twirl my hair when I am sleepy or if something is on my mind.I am emotional. I cry at the drop of a hat. I laugh even faster. I don't see this as a bad thing and have no intention of ever changing. I am smart, sarcastic, quick witted. I can be sharp tongued but I will never intentionally hurt anyone's feelings. I always try to see all the sides to an issue...sometimes I like to play devil's advocate just to try to get others to see a side different than their own. I need to feel important in my partners life. I need to be heard even if you don't agree with me... just listening to me will get you very far with me.I am a little old fashioned.... I can take care of myself but I love being taken care of. I want to wake up and go to bed every night with my best friend. i dont know if its possible to find that but i am not ready to stop looking. If you are MARRIED or in any sort of a relationship, DO NOT waste your time or mine. If you are simply looking for a fast hookup or naked pics, again....do not bother. It won't happen. It would be a waste of time. You tell me.......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sabine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I AM The sh*t!! I work hard play hard ... I am funny have an outgoing personality I'm a bartender and easy to talk too, I'm a good listener ,I like to party ,have fun dance, drink ,smoke ,swear lol I'm a very Attractive girl I , I am real cool ,laid back and down to earth .i like to laugh and have fun . I have a cool sexy laid-back personality side but i love to rip it up too ;)~ I love meeting new people (It is after all my profession ;) I'm also looking to meet that one guy that's going to settle me down yep ! Lol ;)! TRUE STORY First dates should be fun ,maybe dinner and drinks Could be very fancy or not either way I'm good ,maybe meet up at a sports bar and watch a game or just go for drinks at a bar and later some dancing maybe with Enough drinks we can get into a dance battle on the dance floor who knows lol I'm pretty laid-back and I tend to set people at ease when I talk to them I'm very honest and truthful so hopefully the guy is the same way , It helps on a first date to get to know each other , I like when a guy asks questions it makes me think he wants to get to know me better, maybe a kiss at the end of the night .

  • Clematis

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

  • Nena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there!! I wanted to see if there was a fish I could catch for me on here:) I like to go out and experience different things in life but I also like staying home and relaxing sometimes too. I like to travel and see new places and visit different areas. I am busy with work and going places with my friends but it would be nice to find a special someone to be a part of my life but I'm happy either way:) I like a jealous crazy ex wife and I love drama and playing games!! hehe jk! I am getting a kick out of all these profiles that feel the need to say that they are not looking for that in their lives!! I am not either but I guess I felt it went without saying!! So put me down for not wanting drama and playing games!! Oh and I don't like bee stings and being treated bad -just so you know! lol! Coffee is usually a good first encounter

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