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BeccaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Does this EVER get ANY easier? I am a Mom .... raising 2 daughters that take up a lot of my time.. I work, and travel from time to time for my job. In the past, dating was not very easy for me, however when I do have free time... I like to have plans to spend with that SPECIAL "ONE".I want to be VERY upfront and say that if you are on this site, to "prowl" and "score" I am NOT INTERESTED. IF you are NOT looking for an eventual SERIOUS LTR. Please do not waste either of our time. I HONESTLY want to spend the free time I have with someone who is looking towards the future. If you are still in LOVE with your ex... Married.... Newly Separated..... or just a Gigilo...I am not interested. I am in my 40's and KNOW what clicks for me and what does not. I prefer men that are over 5 foot 9, , call it "shallow";something" I won't compromise on. I do not like to be taller than the MAN I am with. Hey, honesty.....is FOREMOST!Some things that I have to be HONEST and put out there : I do not want to come across as negative.. but can we just be real and get to what we REALLY like and want, and don't?1: If you are not really interested in a committed future, however YOU have that in your profile, the only thing that says about you is that from the START you are DISHONEST..and that does not work for me.. A "relationship" can not begin when based on dishonesty.2: IF YOU SAY you are a NON SMOKER... I sure hope that you ARE... and BELIEVE me I will know and SMOKING is a DEAL BREAKER for me. I am a VERY honest person and that is a quality I take seriously. I will ALWAYS be honest....3: I am VERY attracted to a man with a great smile..it is the FIRST thing that I notice.... a SMILE says soo much about a person's inner soul.. IF you are not smiling in ANY of your photos, chances are you are not very happy and I like to surround myself with Happy People. So if I do not respond to your message if your pix looks like a nasty mug shot with a DEAD BLOODY animal or you are pointing a 12 gauge at me ... hmmm I will not be responding. I don't mean to sound harsh, but a SMILE is KEY! 4: I can RESPECT the profiles w/out photos because of your job etc.. HOWEVER... YOU MUST *** PHOTO or I WILL NOT RESPOND... If you think about it .... it is PRETTY CREEPY "messaging" a Person with NO FACE... and I WON't make an exception.... 5: Also , please spell check your profile and your messages..... or have someone do it for you....6: I am very interested in finding out a little bit about you .... BEFORE ANY numbers are exchanged..I DO NOT GIVE OUT MY NUMBER ... My daughters also "play on" or use my phone because I do not believe that a 10 year old "needs" a cell phone. I do not just hand out my number to have texts and photos sent to my phone.. call me OL' fashioned... HOWEVER, I feel that we have lost the intrique of the "courting or dating" stage.. I have an IM and there is a "chat" feature on this... and AT FIRST that is how I would like to communicate. ..they gave us the tools... let's USE them.... and take it from there... PLEASE DO NOT ask me to send you "THOSE PIX".... you don't even KNOW me..... ALL of these things WILL follow ... natural progression .. IF it is "right"...VERY VERY IMPORTANTI AM COMPLETELY SET ON THE "WANTS" that I have indicated... the WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN... WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.... I am not on this site to collect profiles and spend hours reading through messages from men that do NOT match my criteria AT ALL... I know what kind of man SPARKS my interest.... and what kind INTERESTS me to find out more about. NOT to come across as "Shallow" but, if I say 5' 9" and you are 4' 11" I probably won't respond... I appreciate the compliments .. I honestly do.... But PLEASE can we be HONEST... we ALL know as grown adults WHAT makes us "tick" and what doesn't... that is just an example.... it goes for ALL my other preferences as well. THAT is why they ASk..... :)Now Guys, as many of the other "ladies" on this site may appreciate or LIKE a photo of you HALF NAKED "PUMPING IRON" at the GYM in the mirror or taking pix of yourself in a bathroom with a urinal in the background ...or ALL of your pix are only of your half naked body.....there are many , INCLUDING ME that think that is a BIT CREEPY... leave something to our imagination...AS FOR ME....I am fun , and witty, and like to do just about anything...at least once. I enjoy time with friends and I always make an effort to make people smile.. I am Passionate, and Fun and Honest. I like to put on my heels and go out to dinner or put my hair in a baseball cap and go to a Hockey game or other sporting event. I am attracted to TALLER Men (over 5 foot 9) because I have a CLOSET of shoes that I love to wear when I am not playing Mom's Taxi or in my cleats on the softball field.. I like to look my best when going out with My "man".. That may sound "shallow" but it is a "chemistry thing with me... If I tower over you when I have my jeans and heels on, I just can't feel the "chemistry" everyone has their "thing".I get messaged a LOT "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE"? Well.... I'm single simply because I have raised my girls alone, and they are and have been my focus.. I am not one of these women that puts their children second just to go on dates.. I honestly in 5 years have only been on 6 dates from this site. I love to smile and laugh, cook and garden. I like to spend time with friends and go out every so often.. I coach girls softball, and try to be as active in the kids school activities as my work schedule allows. I will ALWAYS give 110%......... ALWAYS... I think that meeting in a PUBLIC place is #1 MOST IMPORTANT...:) Maybe for a Drink somewhere to see if there is that "spark" then if we choose move onto to app's or dinner, or movie.. Then if there is that "CHEMISTRY" let the adventure begin! ohhh and IF your profile says NON SMOKER! PLEASEEEEEE make sure YOU are a TRUE NON SMOKER... because as GREAT as you are.. I can NOT/ will NOT date a SMOKER.. So PLEASE DON't LIE! that is an *** ender..
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BrittaniaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I'm a Christian woman. I don't take my faith lightly. It's the most important thing in my life. I hold traditional values and morals. YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME IF......If you smoke even just once in a while please pass me up. If you can't find the best in people, complain about people, your job, your ex, see children as a burden not a blessing, you are wasting your time. If you'd rather watch a Packer game at a bar than in a home, have more than 2 drinks when going out for dinner or think its ok for teens to drink, you are wasting your time. If you'd rather work on holidays than spend them with your family you are wasting your time. If you can't admit YOUR fault for your marriage falling apart you are wasting your time. I'm in sales and just graduated as a nurse. I'm not shy, I'm bold. Sometimes I come on a little strong. I expect to be treated like you treat your mother with respect!!! I believe in traditional values and morals. I have 3 wonderful, beautiful children with good morals and values, that have NEVER been in trouble. My daughter is 3rd year in college Pre-Med. My son is a senior in high school. And my youngest is a 6 year old daughter whom I adopted as a single parent from Ethiopia. Yes. I WANTED to start all over again and enjoy being a Mommy now more than ever!!!I treat men the way they want to be treated, not the way they are used to being treated. Men want to be respected. And men like their egos stroked. Men don't like having to guess what a woman means when she says, "I'm fine, Sure, what ever you want," or how about the, "you know!" What a waste of time!!! I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I'm also a tough cookie!! I'll ask you the questions no one else has asked. I'm a girlie girl. I wear dresses and heals the taller the better. But you dress the way you want and I'll dress the way I want. But I also love coming home, throwing on some comfortable clothes, start a fire,(real wood) and just do nothing at all. I love having fun and enjoying life!! Traveling out of the country is a must! Vacations are needed even long weekends. I'm looking for someone to cuddle up on the couch and watch movies with, go camping with and rock at Lifest!!! I'm looking for my ROCK, my best friend, my teammate, the one who will always have my back, someone my little one can call Daddy. I own and maintain my home myself. I have a credit score of ***so I don't need anyone to get me out of debt!!. I can pretty much do it all on my own. But I'm finally at the point that I DON'T WANT TO. I think going for a walk is a great way to get to know someone without putting a lot of pressure on them.
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ErynOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hey there! I have been on this site before and have met some great people. (I am still friends with most of them) I have been divorced for 8 years and have one daughter who is 15. Iwork alot of hours so I don't have much time to go out and meet new people, so here I am. I am just a normal, stable, hard working divorced mom. I love my daughter and my wonderful family very much, but I still have room in my heart for someone special. I try to always see the good in every situation & don't judge a book by its cover. I enjoy life & want to meet someone who is not to serious, loves to laugh, can laugh at themselves, but at the same time, stable and responsible. My daughter and I go to church on the Sundays that I am not working. (that is important to me) I do prefer the country & small town living. (It's hard to beat a ride on a country dirt rode) I am not Barbie & am not looking for Ken...so..I would love to hear from you. If you are interested just drop me a line! Thanks for taking the time to read my profile & have a great day! That is something we could decide on together.