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Jessamyn, 49

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About Me

I am easy going and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am outgoing and fit into any social situation. I tend to think "outside of the box" and try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and try not to be judgmental of others; you never know what they are going through. I love to have intelligent, interesting conversations but can also be as silly as the next guy. I am a devoted mom, I work full time and stay involved with my kids' school and community outreach (medical) events. I am very open to accepting someone else's children and know that "package deals" are the best! I am a Christian and I am looking for the same. I love animals and have passed that love on to my kids. A good sense of humor is a "must have". I would love to find that connection....the unspoken "I totally get you"...the one. If you are one of the guys on this site that find it necessary to have posted a picture you took of yourself shirtless in the bathroom with a reflection of you holding your camera/phone in the mirror, please do not contact me. The first date should be somewhere laid back and somewhat quiet where we can talk and get to know each other. The first date is when both of us can tell if there is a connection or not so much, so it is important to be somewhere we feel relaxed, under no pressure, and be able to hold a decent conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ayana

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am an indepentant self starter who enjoys life. I am a cosmetologist and a chiropractic assistant. I love drawing and painting, coaching sports, exercise and spending time with my daughters. I am looking for someone to share my free time with. Preferably one who doesn't drink a lot, who knows how to treat a woman. Im looking for a man who can make time to do things together. I am a fun lovig woman who like sports and especially drag racing. I love harleys, fast cars and big trucks. I love dancing the night away, or just staying home cuddling on the couch and watching a good movie. I love back massages as well as giving them to the right person. I want to get to know a man who is very honest, passionate loving and caring, and who is family oriented. quanity is easy but im looking for quality. I love attention as well as giving it. I like texting when I think of you and dont expect a text back. Im not needy. Men mistake a women who sends them a text through the day as a needy person. If I want to spend time with a guy its because im attracted to him. I need my space as well as he would. I would like to meet that special someone who could put a song in my heart. I like all sorts of music depending on the mood im in. I love being outdoors and feel the wind in my hair and on my skin. I like walks on the beach. I am a romantic at heart and love to give little gifts or card for that someone special. I love to laugh. I make fun of my life all the time. I love to make people laugh and feel good about themselves. If you are interested dont be afraid to write. If I write back them Im being friendly. If I like you a lot Ill ask for your number or give you mine to see where life takes us. I believe life is to short to hold on to the past. If you do hold on to the past you just might miss out on what could be in your future. LIVE LAUGH LOVE!!!! I would like to meet at a quiet place for coffee or dinner. I would like to have a nice time just getting to know the other person with conversation. I want everyone to know Im not looking for a ****! Im looking for a relationship.

  • Valda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

  • Necole

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Golf is is my favorite pass time. I play over a hundred rounds a year and love the exercise and the scenery. I enjoy the self improvement it allows you to develop from the mental side to the physical and allows you to meet alot of great people and see their character on the course as well. I enjoy a variey of activites from working out to watching reality tv to reading. I am comfortable on my own but would prefer to have someone to share my life with. I am not a high maintenance kind of person but like honesty and integrity in a person. As for my taste in music it varies. I grew up listening to country which I still do like but also many other types but not rap. A golf date is a great opening date as you have ***housr of which to get some exercise and talk to get to know each other. Worst case scenario you still got to golf.Now if it's too cold or inclimate another option would be a lunch get together.

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