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Valda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Loris

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About Me

I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    About me... busy sports mom. Spend my days creating art or gardening, or exploring with my camera. Single for two years now and ready to add the icing to the cake that is my wonderful life. Imperative that my partner by positive, happy, romantic, funny, spontaneous, empathetic, mutually respectful, spiritual in his own way, and is looking forward to spending the second half of our lives sharing all of the special moments that happen every day, from going for a walk after dinner to traveling the world. I love adventure. Unless it includes alligators-- hate alligators :) .Just so you know, and here is where I might lose some of you that might still be reading...I don't like gum chewers. I am pretty sure I won't ride on your Harley- but you go right ahead. Pictures taken of yourself on your computer or cell phone scare me and make me think you don't have any friends. Also, if this site "winks", please don't. I would appreciate a quick message so much more. Adding a note here to my original profile: seriously, if your profile has a picture of you shirtless taken in your bathroom, don't *** don't want to see it. Thank youOK, back to the happy stuff... I am hoping you love nature, hiking, boating, scrabble and other board games, entertaining friends, all of which can be very romantic! Best wishes to all of you. Be picky. Love is worth waiting for.

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Music, golf, traveling, friends

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  • Jayde from Loris | Woman | 46 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a happy fun lady who is looking to have fun and enjoy living. I am wanting someone who wants to get out and do things and who can stay home and enjoy being at home for the day as well. I love going to the beach, riding bikes, hiking, swimming and almost anything outside. I would appreciate someone who likes being outside as well. I am open to doing new things and trying things I haven't yet experienced also. I love going out to eat. My favorite food is seafood. I love sushi and oysters as well as shrimp, lobster, crab legs and gator tail.I am very honest, maybe too honest. I would appreciate the same in any man I meet. There is no need to be someone else when we meet and then change in a week or two. Being yourself is far more important to me. I am very down to earth and am hopeful that I can meet someone laid back and easy going. Sometimes I can be too serious and try not to take everything so serious except when I absolutely need to haha.I am a hard worker who likes to leave work behind when I am not there. I am independent and appreciate someone who also works hard but can enjoy himself when he leaves his work. I have 2 older sons ages 17 and 21. I have raised them myself and did an awesome job as one is about to graduate from college and the other high school. I am not looking to raise anymore children. Just wanted to put that out there. Life for me is about me now and moving forward beyond the children phase.Life is short and I am excited in finding that person who excites me just by hearing his voice. I want to be the one he thinks of and can't wait to see at the end of his day. I want to be like the kid in the candy store that gets to buy her favorite candy no matter what it is and gets to open the prettiest fanciest package under the tree at Christmas. I am looking for love, happiness and excitement. I hope it is out there somewhere. A first date should be somewhere where we can talk and get to know some basic information about each other and mainly get past any nerves that either of us may have on a first date. We could go to dinner or have drinks or meet in a park or the mall. Depending on our connection could determine all of this. I think talking on the phone a few times before meeting is important for me to see if we connect. The weekends are the best time for me to go on dates at first.

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