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Laylah, 46
United States, South Carolina, Laurens

Offline, last seen Mon, 07 Jul 2025 10:33:09

About Me

Life happens ... I guess, and although none of us ever expected to be in this... here we all are, debating whether or not to jump back into the fire, hoping and praying not to get burned. Ahhh to only know the secrets of the heart or undying love, does it exist for all of us or only some? But, please, if you lie, cheat, sneak around, can't be trusted, are emotionally unavailable, addicted to porn, on some serious medication, have a wife or a girlfriend living under the same roof as you, or are a player .. CALL ME LOL just joking !!! if you are any of the above please keep going, I have really had my fill of all that, and yes duh I will figure it out, these are highlights eh and I only use the dumb blonde thing when I get pulled over for speeding...not that I speed :) I meant IF I ever got pulled over and blamed for speeding which I don't do...LOLmy age is wrong and it won't let me change itI believe that a sleeping child is awesome to just watch,I believe that someone you love can hurt you and not really mean to,I believe that your life can change in 1 minute by someone you do not even know,I believe that once trust is lost, you have to earn it back,I believe that love can make someone seem perfect for you,I believe that some relationships can't be repaired of the damage they endured,I believe that Jesus has saved me :)I believe that we all fall down but we only fail when we refuse to get back up,I believe that even though you think you got away with something, God saw it...I believe that your word and a handshake should mean more than a legal document,I believe that a lot of us give up 5 minutes before our miracle happens,I believe that you should be friends with your ex if you are raising kids,I believe that people who didn't believe in God changed their mind right after they died,I believe that all the important things in life cannot be bought with money,I believe that hindsight is ***and regret can break your heart,I believe that we don't have to change friends if we understand friends change.I believe that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but thatdoesn't give me the right to be cruel or rude especially to those who care about me.I believe that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you everyonce in a while and you must forgive them for that.I believe that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.Same goes for true love. I believe that PMS is a lousy reason women use to justify treating their men and kids bad, they never PMS on their friends....I believe that you can do something in an *** will give you heartachefor life.I believe that love isn't easy to find, if you do find it, use caution in how you treat it, you may regret losing it.I believe that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.I believe that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be thelast time you see them.I believe that you can keep going long after you think you can't.I believe that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.I believe that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs tobe done, regardless of the consequences.I believe that money is a lousy way of keeping score.I believe that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing & have the best timeI believe that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, willbe the ones to help you get back up.I believe that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them todoesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.I believe that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've hadand what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdaysyou've celebrated.I believe that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes youhave to learn to forgive yourself.I believe that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop foryour grief.I believe that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced who we are,but we are responsible for who we become.I believe that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love eachother. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.I believe that two people can look at the exact same thing and see somethingtotally different.I believe that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.I believe that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.I believe a true friend never gets in your way, unless you happen to be going down, I believe that nobody can make you feel inferior without your consentI believe that Jesus is the friend who walks in when everyone else has walked outand that life can be all you are willing to make it if you just tryI believe that if you have put some time into creating a profile you should copy it to your computer so when meetville accidently deletes you, it will not take a lifetime to re-write ooh first date? um that is a lot to commit to, LOL I guess maybe coffee for 20 min that way we can leave fast, but then again....if your profile pic is 20 years old and you gained 40 lbs , look 8 months pregnant and lost all your hair since the pic, I am NOT staying for the coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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