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Iola, 49

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About Me

I am smart and have a good sense of humor. I love the outdoors, especially in the southwest. I have been learning to play drums and like to hang out with friends. I love to watch live music. It tends towards the classic rock on the softer side. I am an avid movie goer/watcher with a wide range of interests. The last movie I saw was Les Miserables. It was fantastic. I want to see Silver Linings Playbook next.I workout lightly at least once per week. I also went back to school later in life so I am still trying to develop my career as a lawyer. But I really want to make more time for my personal life after working very hard for many years.I value honesty, friendship, loyalty, kindness, good sportsmanship, and hard work.I am an INTJ for the most part, if you know what that means. I like to be social, but I like quiet times and lots of one on one or small group social events.Please note: I check this site from my cell phone which seems to indicate I am online all the time. I cannot use the chat feature that way. Send me a message if you'd like to meet. I prefer to meet quickly, because it is too hard to tell if you are going to like someone from a profile. Let's have coffee, a drink, or lunch. No pressure. I view this site as a way of meeting people. I do not expect to be smitten on first meeting. I'd like to develop a friendship first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Grazyna

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Life in the physical dimension is a constant battle—not a battle between ourselves and others, but between ourselves and our own egos.At any given moment, we are either moving away from change or towards it. We are either adding to our negativity or removing it.Once we accept this reality, we can start to tap into real fulfillment, which is when we find the lumps of coal in our lives—the lack, the hatred, the selfishness—and transform them into diamonds—abundance, love, and sharing.K.B.Fun, energetic, sweet, sensual woman who enjoys movies, dinners, sports, travel, and music. I am well traveled and I understand several languages. Though, my favorite language is the one that is spoken with sweetness and the best place I like to travel is my home. I enjoy different cultures and international cuisine. Having said all that, I am looking for a sophisticated man to share simple yet fine things in life. I don't believe that judging "the book by its cover" is superficial: we are pretty much what we appear to be. I believe that one who carries himself in certain standards cannot help revealing his standards by the way he looks. Having said that humility is a determining factor. Your intellect, your look, your interests, your beliefs, your choice of words are going to win my heart. So please use "lol" and "LOL" carefully and be sure what you write is something to laugh out loud. I am not a diva or one who has a complex of having one. I keep my standards high, it is my comfort zone. I don't dwell on failures, I thrive on positiveness. I value high moral standards as well as knowledge. Not everyone is meant to be my mate and I am not meant to be everyone's mate. I am looking for someone special. I am perfectly happy to be alone than to be with someone who doesn't meet my criteria. There is plenty of fish out there, if what you read up to this point makes you think that you are not the one for me or I am not the one for you, please just move on. Thank you and good luck to all of you.***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\ First date should come after first meeting...First meeting is best when we just meet somewhere in a public place and walk a couple of blocks...If we pass the first meeting and decide to have a first date, then use your imagination to sweep me off my feet...

  • Taraji

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    This is strange to make a list about myself , but I will do my best. I have 2 daughters , 22 and ***. They are what is most important to me. I have no issue if you have children, unless you dont take care of them. I have 1 large dog who is part of the family. lol Its a great feeling to come home and have her greet me at the door. She is happy to see me no matter what! lolI am a single Mom , of course , and do work alot. I was married for a long time and I do believe in a committed relationship. My divorce did not taint my belief in that, nor am I bitter toward my ex. I chose the divorce after a long time of trying to make it work. I was separated for almost 3 years, and my divorce was final over a year ago.Let me just say that I am happy with my life. I dont need to be your whole life or you to be mine.I love a sense of humor and laugh at silly things . Being spontaneous is great too. It would be nice to have someone make the plans once in a while.I DO NOT DO DRUGS OR DRINK EXCESSIVELY!!! I will not have that in my life. I enjoy a social drink or a beer on a hot day.I love music, not really into rap, dining out or cooking at home. And yes I do love the beach!I love kissing ,laughing , music, chocolate, holding hands, thunderstorms ,barbecues, fireplaces- inside and out ,dogs, long drives to where ever ,good friends and family, reading , movies, outdoor music,tea not coffee,history, etc.Update - I have not been on here for a while , mainly because I felt it was not for me. But Im trying it out again . I recently became a grandmother! Alittle sooner than I would have expected, because I don"t feel like a grandmother and I am told I don"t look like one! lol But my granddaughter is a joy and so much fun!!!I am a smoker, but a considerate one. Its my only flaw lol !!I am a smoker, but a considerate one . Its my only flaw, lol!! We would decide that. Preferrably someplace we can talk.

  • Bluebell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm silly but sincere, adventurous but responsible, hardworking but playful, strong but sweet, honest, loyal and forever hopeful. I'm looking for a man that I can connect and enjoy being with. Great chemistry is always the key. I have one son who is grown, he has graduated college and now it's my turn. I'm currently attending college to work towards my RN degree. I'm an avid animal lover, they are considered my kids and are very spoiled. I enjoy an occasional happy hour, or going out dancing but I am not into spending my time "getting wasted", nor do I enjoy the hangovers. I'm a huge Ravens fan, football season is the best time of year. My favorite place to be is on the water, I am a water baby and I could swim before I could walk. Hopefully one day I will able to move to the beach, it's my ultimate goal.My turn offs: married men who are looking for someone to cheat with, smoking, drugs, alcoholics, negativity and baby mama drama. There is no room in my life for any of them, I finally have a peaceful existence and I intend to keep it. Direction in life: I'm always moving forward to better my life. A short meet and greet without pressure, this gives us an idea if there will be a future real date.

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