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Chantelle, 49

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About Me

Okay, I am going to give this site another chance, to be honest my first time around I think I had too much going on and couldn't fairly give dating a true focus, but I still..believe there are still some good old fashioned honest men out here. I haven't changed my desires and values and I am still so clumsy ...lolol.....Please just be who you are; no games..no Dr. Jecklly,Mr....communicate....it sounds so cliche' but its so true...we are not mind readers...and I believe alot of drama could be avoided!!! So below is a little about me.....I am passionate, sensitive, and funny. If you meet me for the first time, I believe you would be impressed by my warm, genuine smile and my ability to make a person feel comfortable. However, I can also be a bit self-conscious, a little "clutzy," and I have a lot of nervous energy running through my 5-foot-1-inch body!I am a hard-working mom of a wonderful 19 year old boy who definitely keeps me on my toes. I have a respectful and trusting relationship with my son's father, who is also a strong part of his life. I am not a "heavy party person," but rather somewhat of a homebody who enjoys going out to a nice dinner...accompanied by the occasional pinot grigio :)...movie, play or just cuddling with my partner eating take out food and watching a movie. Love jazz, latin, and free-style; basically enjoy all music except "heavy rap and rock." I can get caught up with anything to reality shows (I admit it!) to the animal planet. Love Chinese, Italian food, chocolate chip cookies with coffee! Honesty, communication, and mutual respect is essential in a relationship and I am looking for a partner who shares these values. I appreciate a man who takes care of himself, is confident, and smells great...it doesn't matter if you have a few extra pounds; a little belly... its how you carry yourself. A true gentleman with old-fashioned values is what I am seeking, and if you are affectionate and love to kiss and hug...that's a check plus. :)I am looking for a partner who I can count on. We should make each other feel like we are on top of the world. I am very open minded; but I prefer a first date to be simple - a quiet restaurant or coffee and dessert....where we can speak comfortably with no pressure.....feeling if there is a connection or not....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ja

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Clearing up what I wrote about me being shy since I keep getting messages about it: Just because I am A LITTLE SHY AT FIRST does NOT mean that I do not know how to talk. lol I definitely know how to communicate very well. ... Moving right along. :) ... I've been told a lot that I look younger than my age. I've been hearing that for a long time. I'm not complaining at all. It's good genes. :) ... I love the beach, mountains, boating, animals, joking and laughing, hiking, movies, kids, water, candles, cuddling, music, and many, many other things. When I'm in a relationship I enjoy going out with my man. Staying in can be a lot of fun too. I'm not into drama or bs games. Life is too short!! I'm a one man woman. I'm honest, loyal, caring, kind hearted, open minded, fun, easy going, active, young at heart, out going, silly, but serious when I need to be, etc. I'm always up for trying new things. My pics are recent. My schedule is flexible. I can be a little shy at first, so I usually don't send the first message. I have an awesome son. He's with me part time. I'm not looking for a "Dad" for him. He already has one. :) Plus my son will be an adult soon. I'm healthy and happy. I have a very good life. I've never been in trouble. I'm D & D free. I'm also debt free. :) I'm not into one night stands. I don't drink because alcohol gives me migraines. I don't need to drink to have an awesome time! :) It's fine if you drink. A lot of the people I hang out with drink. It's no big deal. :) Communication and honesty are extremely important to me!! There's a whole lot more to me than this profile! Thank God. :) lol ... Thanks for reading my profile. :) I guess we will decide together. :)

  • Sharan

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am optimistic, energetic, fun, loyal, and honest. I enjoy going out on a Friday or Saturday night, but I also like to stay home and relax at times. Some of my favorite things to do are: going to the beach (near or far), traveling, NYC, taking fitness classes, dancing, and pretty much anything outdoors when the weather is nice. I am definitely not a winter person, so if you are looking for a ski partner, you may want to move onto the next profile. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, hosting small gatherings, and big holiday dinners. Family is very important to me. I am looking to meet a genuine person, one that is honest and has good values. Someone that could start out as being a friend and companion, and see where it goes. The man that I am looking for should be smart, energetic, and fun to be around. I like to laugh and be silly, but I also know when to be serious. Please be a person of your word and not into games.

  • Andreana

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Bad kissers need not apply (sloppy, tongue swallowing, bad breath smelling - eww.) There is nothing better than kissing someone that you enjoy, or worse than kissing someone you don't!With that said, distance is an important factor in evaluating relationship potential. My kid-free time is limited and comes in short bursts, so a long distance relationship over 30 minutes is not practical.I am looking for Maverick to take my breath away, smooth and edgy, the perfect mix of the good and bad boy - enough good to keep me happy, but enough bad to keep me guessing and keep life from settling into ho-hum boredom. The kind of man that will send flowers for no reasons, who cried at the end of THE NOTEBOOK, who understands a woman's need for emotional intimacy, and ... who knows the right time to be in control and to lose control.I am a divorced mother of 3 great kids (YES, 3!! twins 18 and off to college and a 10 year old). They are my entree and I am looking for the appetizer and dessert. I am looking to passionately enjoy all that life has to offer. I refuse to "settle" again and have been learning to enjoy the ***full rather than ***empty. My favorite leisure activity is going to the movies. I love a double feature, tub of popcorn and large Coke (maybe throw in a box of milk duds for some excitement). I enjoy eating at new restaurants and listening to live music. I love the beach and hope to scuba dive sometime this year.I prefer the feeling of sand tickling my toes rather than snow in my boots.).I play racquetball a few times a week and enjoy playing online words with friends and scrabble. I am not much of a phone talker, but love to text message and IM.I am a woman that appreciates chivalry (yes, opened doors and pulled out chairs!), surprise and romantic gestures. I am almost convinced that men have lost the art of romancing a woman - I hope you can change my mind. Boring and shallow men need not apply. I am looking for adventure and fun and I don't want my world to stand still. I have little spare time to enjoy life's excursions and try to make the most of every moment. A successful match must be intellectually, emotionally and physically stimulating. I would be kidding to say that chemistry is unimportant, and I admit that it takes a very special person to stir up my emotions. True chemistry and emotional connection is rare, but when it is right - LOOK OUT! I do believe that good relationships require a lot of work - mediocre ones may be able to subsist on their own, but rarely are AMAZING. What kind of relationship are you looking for and how much effort are you willing to put into it??Relationships - There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. ****I do not exchange phone numbers until after I meet someone for safety reasons, please understand.

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