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Chery, 46
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

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About Me

This part is always the hardest. I'm a single mom of two sons 18 and 16 who are my life! My oldest son is a freshman in college who lives away at school, and my youngest is a junior in high school. I share custody of my boys with my ex, so I have my boys (only my baby now) half of the time. I'm at the stage in my life where I have plenty of free time to call my own. I'm looking to share that free time with a man of substance and quality who possesses similar beliefs and values. I spend my free time with family and friends or just doing my own thing and value and cherish this time greatly. There is no substitute for family! I'm looking for someone that has a true sense of work ethic and knows how to make an honest living. Contrary to the belief of many, I'm not here to support anyone financially except my children. I'm not your mother. We've all been through rough times and that's what makes us who we are today, but, honestly, if you don't have your act together at this stage of the game please don't bother. I also desire a man that I can have an intellectual conversation with and is able to discuss anything from soup to nuts. Having a sense of humor is an absolute must! I love to laugh and need a man that does too. It would be a huge bonus if my partner was a hockey fan. I love hockey and both of my boys play. I love nothing more than watching them on the ice. Yes, I do get a bit crazy, especially when my boys are on the ice. I'm extremely passionate about it. I happen to be passionate about many things. I'm an extremist about most things in life. It's all or nothing. I feel the reality of this dating venue and dating someone through this type of forum leaves us all vulnerable. Everyone loves to talk about themselves and how wonderful they are, but in actuality, we all have our shortcomings. If you're the type of man that can't compromise, keep looking. If you're the type of man this is ALWAYS right, you're not for me. If you're a manipulator, bye. I'm just looking for someone "normal" (to me) that compliments me and vice versa.....the rest will happen naturally.**********Please note that if you send me an *** up space with things like this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I don't even read the ***, I hit delete. Also, if your *** with "omg you're beautiful, hot, sexy" whatever, delete! Show me some substance please??!!!********** I'm game for just about anything!

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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