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Chery, 46

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About Me

This part is always the hardest. I'm a single mom of two sons 18 and 16 who are my life! My oldest son is a freshman in college who lives away at school, and my youngest is a junior in high school. I share custody of my boys with my ex, so I have my boys (only my baby now) half of the time. I'm at the stage in my life where I have plenty of free time to call my own. I'm looking to share that free time with a man of substance and quality who possesses similar beliefs and values. I spend my free time with family and friends or just doing my own thing and value and cherish this time greatly. There is no substitute for family! I'm looking for someone that has a true sense of work ethic and knows how to make an honest living. Contrary to the belief of many, I'm not here to support anyone financially except my children. I'm not your mother. We've all been through rough times and that's what makes us who we are today, but, honestly, if you don't have your act together at this stage of the game please don't bother. I also desire a man that I can have an intellectual conversation with and is able to discuss anything from soup to nuts. Having a sense of humor is an absolute must! I love to laugh and need a man that does too. It would be a huge bonus if my partner was a hockey fan. I love hockey and both of my boys play. I love nothing more than watching them on the ice. Yes, I do get a bit crazy, especially when my boys are on the ice. I'm extremely passionate about it. I happen to be passionate about many things. I'm an extremist about most things in life. It's all or nothing. I feel the reality of this dating venue and dating someone through this type of forum leaves us all vulnerable. Everyone loves to talk about themselves and how wonderful they are, but in actuality, we all have our shortcomings. If you're the type of man that can't compromise, keep looking. If you're the type of man this is ALWAYS right, you're not for me. If you're a manipulator, bye. I'm just looking for someone "normal" (to me) that compliments me and vice versa.....the rest will happen naturally.**********Please note that if you send me an *** up space with things like this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I don't even read the ***, I hit delete. Also, if your *** with "omg you're beautiful, hot, sexy" whatever, delete! Show me some substance please??!!!********** I'm game for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaya

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    If I had a flower for every time I thought of you...I could walk through my garden forever. I have a thing for volcanoes. shipwrecks, and hockey goalies. I love going to baseball and hockey games. I'm still trying to understand football :) I will take the train to NYC just to get a cupcake. So far my favorites are the Metropolitan Museum of Art, and the Museum of Natural History. Even the airport smells like orchids. I am addicted to Food Network and the Cooking Channel. I enjoy trying new restaurants, and I love most kinds of seafood. My kids are grown so I have what seems like unlimited free time, especially because most of my friends still have young children. I want to find someone to spend time with as we get to know each other, doing things we both like to do, as well as trying new things together.

  • Andreana

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Bad kissers need not apply (sloppy, tongue swallowing, bad breath smelling - eww.) There is nothing better than kissing someone that you enjoy, or worse than kissing someone you don't!With that said, distance is an important factor in evaluating relationship potential. My kid-free time is limited and comes in short bursts, so a long distance relationship over 30 minutes is not practical.I am looking for Maverick to take my breath away, smooth and edgy, the perfect mix of the good and bad boy - enough good to keep me happy, but enough bad to keep me guessing and keep life from settling into ho-hum boredom. The kind of man that will send flowers for no reasons, who cried at the end of THE NOTEBOOK, who understands a woman's need for emotional intimacy, and ... who knows the right time to be in control and to lose control.I am a divorced mother of 3 great kids (YES, 3!! twins 18 and off to college and a 10 year old). They are my entree and I am looking for the appetizer and dessert. I am looking to passionately enjoy all that life has to offer. I refuse to "settle" again and have been learning to enjoy the ***full rather than ***empty. My favorite leisure activity is going to the movies. I love a double feature, tub of popcorn and large Coke (maybe throw in a box of milk duds for some excitement). I enjoy eating at new restaurants and listening to live music. I love the beach and hope to scuba dive sometime this year.I prefer the feeling of sand tickling my toes rather than snow in my boots.).I play racquetball a few times a week and enjoy playing online words with friends and scrabble. I am not much of a phone talker, but love to text message and IM.I am a woman that appreciates chivalry (yes, opened doors and pulled out chairs!), surprise and romantic gestures. I am almost convinced that men have lost the art of romancing a woman - I hope you can change my mind. Boring and shallow men need not apply. I am looking for adventure and fun and I don't want my world to stand still. I have little spare time to enjoy life's excursions and try to make the most of every moment. A successful match must be intellectually, emotionally and physically stimulating. I would be kidding to say that chemistry is unimportant, and I admit that it takes a very special person to stir up my emotions. True chemistry and emotional connection is rare, but when it is right - LOOK OUT! I do believe that good relationships require a lot of work - mediocre ones may be able to subsist on their own, but rarely are AMAZING. What kind of relationship are you looking for and how much effort are you willing to put into it??Relationships - There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. ****I do not exchange phone numbers until after I meet someone for safety reasons, please understand.

  • Tomasa

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Welcome to my new and improved profile. I am revamping because I sounded sarcastic and jaded... This is my effort to make myself sound more appealing to the men I may actually want to meet.First and foremost, I'm a mom. I have two teenagers who are my entire life. If you are also a parent, you get that. But that's not to say I don't have time for someone else in my life. Aren't we all here to meet someone to spend time with?Second, I work. It's a necessary evil. Even though I listed my profession as "banking" I do work some untraditional hours. Here are some of my LIKES/DISLIKES, trying not to sound like a b* I can actually carry on an intelligent conversation about current sports, and I like to watch)music, concerts, theater, even operadancing, the real kindanimals with fur (except rodents)DISLIKEScold, like below 70 degreessnow and rainlazycampingfishinganimals without fur (reptiles, fish, birds, yuck)motorcycles (sorry I just don't get that)untraditional piercingstoo much body artIf you are still reading, we might be getting somewhere! I'm going to upload a few more pics, none of them selfies :-) In my experience here, there have not been a lot of first dates! Meeting for a drink is a good way to see if there is some chemistry.

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