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Alita, 49
United States, South Carolina, Gray Court

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About Me

Height, weight and hair color don’t make a perfect relationship, but humor, passion, and connection definitely do.I am an honest, trustworthy, great personality kind of woman with a great sense of humor. I love to smile and laugh and mostly love to make others laugh. People tell me they love my dimples and wish they had them.I search for the good in everything and in everyone. There's always a silver lining to everything, if you're just willing to take the time to see it. For me, the glass is always half full *** half empty. I try to turn a bad situation around and make it as good as I can get it to be. I try to learn from my mistakes and to never make the same ones over again. I have no problem saying those 2 words "I'm sorry" when I may be in the wrong. I've actually said those 2 words even when it wasn't my fault.I love sunrises and sunsets and capturing those and other beautiful sky scenes on my camera. I love taking pictures of everything and everybody, to capture those treasured moments on film is the best. I love taking pics of my 3 sons and now I cannot wait to be able to start taking pics of my very first Grandchild that is due in Jan. and cannot wait to become a first time Grammy. I enjoy fishing, camping, bike riding, long drives even to no destination planned, target shooting, shooting pool, reading and writing poems. I enjoy going to auctions. I just enjoy life in general.I am low key and it takes a lot to make me made, but, if you set out to hurt my 3 sons, rest of my family and my friends, then watch out, because then the fuse is lit and you will get a piece of my mind. I am more of a lover than a fighter. I became an empty nester this past Aug. and I am doing just fine with it. Even at my age, I am still kind of shy and it does take a lot for me to even send out the first message and just because I send you one, does not mean that I am interested in a serious kind of relationship with you, it just means that I would like to compliment you on what I read in your profile and/or the pics you have uploaded and just in general, I like making new friends.So, with that said, you do not have to fear sending me a message back thinking that if you do, I am going to want to jump all over you and not ever leave you alone, that's not me. If I respect somebody enough to send out a message, which like I said isn't that easy for me to reach out first, I just think it makes sense for that person to show enough respect to acknowledge the message and send a little note back, even if it's a quick "thank you". Great friendships have been formed this way, and for me, can't have too many friends. I know that a lot of men and women on here will first look at a picture and if they don't like what they see at first judgement, they will reject that person by not giving a kind reply. Most pictures don't tell the true story, but the words coming from ones heart, will most surely tell you the whole story. I would rather have my beautiful heart than that beautiful #10 face/body that a lot of men on here search for. I make a great friend and am always there for all my friends and when in a serious relationship, I switch it over and besides just being a great friend to you, I also become a great lover who will let you know how much you are cared for and loved. You will know and feel this everyday. If I have piqued anybody's interest and you want to know more about me, don't hesitate to send me a message and I promise to answer each and every one. And who knows, maybe a great friendship will begin! :) That's a tough one. Part of me thinks it would be nice to go somewhere to be able to sit down and be able to really talk and get to know more about each other and another part of me thinks it would be nice and maybe take the scary pressure off by doing something fun like playing pool, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical House Watching Movies Chinese Middle Eastern American Football
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