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Jayna, 49

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About Me

Honestly after removing myself from the site for awhile, I have had the opportunity to re-think this whole experience. Hopefully I will be able to narrow the playing field. If I like you I will more than likely tell you! Don't freak out! It doesn't mean Im in love. I'm actually really sincere and can be misunderstood but I'm going to be sincere anyway ..women are to be loved not understood ! .I have no earthly reason to lie or trap a man ....if you don't like me tell me I'm not into trying to figure you out ....if you want a chase ....work for the dog catcher dept in your local town or city. I'm picky so don't take it personal ....no women wants to feel unappreciated for any reason .....call her....text her ....friend her ....we all have insecurities or be alone and don't complain ...through experiences we grow or stay stagnet expecting change .....if you like someone tell them you may never get the chance again! At my age none of us have time to play games or drag things out to the enevitable. With that said I'm a women who believes in putting the cards on the table. I also believe that we all fall into a few categories. I'm not afraid of having a relationship with someone that wants a relationship. To me this means meeting initially and seeing if there is a possiblity for a second date. If so then from there we move into dating. Dating to me means doing things, going places, hanging out together. I'm spontaneous with a lot of energy. Im looking to spend quality time with a man cooking, hanging out together not just hook up for one reason. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me. I'm independent and adventurous! Up until recently have I even had time to really date. After that I'm pretty much open for about anything. 2 years will go by fast trust me! Animal lover ! I'm an outdoor girl. I like being outdoors and enjoy nature and all of the great things that go with that. I'm also pretty easy going unless you lie, cheat, steal or just an a$$hole. I enjoy cooking and am really pretty good, so my friends and family tell me. So if you like to BBQ, drink great wine, like a premium drink and you call your liquor...you could be what I'm looking for. I have no real drama, My former spouse and I get along great and have worked really hard to make the whole divorce situation easy for them. I'm a huge advocate for parents getting along for no other reason than to make thier childrens lives as painless as possible. I don't have time to listen to a ranting excuses why one spouse sucks or the inappropriate behavior that goes on. I'm ok with the fact that not everyone is going to hit it off. Be upfront and be honest with yourself and your date. Just don't use silly excuses. Meet at a public place. Talk about life and each others interest. If you like me call me for a second date. Don't be afraid to discuss where you are in life. I'm not looking to get remarried. Reality is that I am looking for someone that is not afraid to begin a relationship. I get it, I really do....that a gentleman has to experience that awh haw moment when they look at a gal and say to themselves....yeah she's ok and she's a girl for me. I know it doesn't happen over night. Well maybe once in a Blue Moon.I'm looking for a professional, well rounded , sucessful gentleman. Have a good one!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Minnie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am looking for a Caucasian male, minimum 5'7", either---slim---average---athletic or a little over weight (not excessive)Must not: do drugs, drink excessively, lie or cheatThank you for your messages but if I don't feel there is a connection I won't reply. Becomes frustrating and I feel bad. Some guys message that haven't read my profile, message everyone, or send a message when it is obvious we are not compatible.I’m hanging on to the hope that there is a decent man that can be fun, honest, calm and exciting. Someone I find attractive (sexy is good too...lol). Gotta have the 'it factor'. A one-woman-man. A sense of humour is a must. Laughter is so important especially when it happens naturally in conversation. I can be reserved or goofy depending on the situation and who I'm with.I miss the sparks of kissing, holding hands, snuggling, laughter and all the 'perks' of being a couple.I am an occasional drinker, non smoker, I've never done drugs, never cheated on my boyfriends or husband. I enjoy many activities but don't get to do them because of being single. I have a big heart (a blessing and a curse), love to help, volunteer, have respect for all.My ex is on girlfriend #12 and I will not match his score or want someone like him.I'm not one for lots of chatting on the computer. Meeting is the best way to see if there is a connection. Why tell a complete stranger all about yourself in messages only to meet and have zero connection. When I talk to someone that is when a connection is made (or not) Not from reading a profile or seeing a photo. Those are just small steps in the process.Life is to short too waste, so please don't message me if you aren't able to be honest and are on the site for the wrong reasons.Also if you lie about your age...that is called dishonest and generally we (the women on here) can tell. Your looks give it away...you can't just make up a number!!!! Somewhere reasonable for us to be comfortable and talk, no pressure.

  • Genette

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I will be rewriting this soon to show the real me. To be honest, I hate being on this site, but it's the best way to meet people. I just want the right type of guy for me. Honest, Hard Working, Loving, Affectionate,playful and full of integrity. Please don't waste my time if you don't have your act together.Finances, credit, responsibility, a good father, no drunks, if you have a bar tab or liquor bottle in your hand every night, I'll pass. No dependents of it wanted. I just endured 6 mo of it and it's not for me. Example: 2 to 3 large Vodka bottles a week = no thanks. 2 beers after work or a glass of wine = you are healthy. I'm a one on one type person, not a player. That's what I'm looking for. I'm a simple, down to earth gal with a touch of class. I enjoy laughing, singing, goofing around and more. Let's plan something we both enjoy. I have the most fun with men closer to my age. We have more in common.

  • Adam

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    HI THERE I AM A 46 YEARS YOUNG I WOULD LIKE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT'S NOT A COUCH POTATO BUT I DON'T MIND WATCHING A GOOD MOVIE ONCE IN A WHILE WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL. I WOULD LIKE TO GET OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN IN MY LIFE. SO IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO TALK PLEASE SEND ME A MESSAGE . THANK YOU AND HAVE A GREAT DAY.. AND ONE MORE THING IF YOUR OUT FOR A GOOD TIME DON'T BOTHER MESSAGING ME. KEEP ON MOVING. I WOULD LIKE TO FIND A MAN THAT KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN RIGHT. TALK TO YOU SOON. SOMEWHERE WE CAN HAVE A NICE CONVERSATION LIKE A NICE WALK IN THE PARK WHICH I LOVE TO DO OR HAVE COFFEE OR DRINK SOMEWHERE NICE SO WE CAN GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER ONE ON ONE.

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