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Barbara, 50

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About Me

I'm somebodies princess:) I am special, I know this because my parents told me so:) I am unique, I promise you, and there is no one like me. I can find humor in most any situation, and always smiling. I am a conundrum; I work hard, yet can be lazy. I love a clean environment/house (most of the time it’s a disorganized mess), sometimes a slob. I dress more for comfort than style/fad, yet can still turn some heads when the heels are put on. I’m usually quiet, but can talk up a spell and get loud at times. I’m not one of those refined ladies that never pass gas nor have indigestion and never burp. My body functions correctly and trapped air will be released. I find a fart can be funny in certain, well most situations. Sleeping is one of my hobbies, and I have been known to snore when overly exhausted or congested. You can ride/run/ workout and have your personal time and I will cuddle up and do absolutely nothing when my time is free. I have been mate free for 6 years and discovered I like being by myself, if you need reassuring ***it will not be me reassuring you. If I love you, you will know it and hopefully be secure in yourself to know it. Someone asked me if I would cheat. First off if I were a cheater I would lie and say no, cheating is lying. I can’t even imagine having the opportunity arise to cheat; it’s freaking hard enough to find 1 real man that I want to be with. I am not a liar or thief. If I tell you something I mean it. I love riding on the back of a bike, I won't be a snob and say Harley but there’s truly nothing like the sound or vibration like one. Eating,,,,,,yes I do, meat, potatoes and I'll pass on salad and have dessert..If you are a health fanatic you would have nightmares being exposed to my lifestyle. I love to read and watch movies at home or in the theatre. I am more a homebody, but I also need adventure in my life. Outings can be planned or spontaneous, I go with the flow. I am slow to anger, love unconditionally, sometimes to a fault. My kids are grown, they have their life, I have mine but they will always be in my life and I still help out if they need it and always will as long as I am able. There are grandchildren that get my attention a great amount of time. I am low maintenance, but my home is getting old and high maintenance. I cook good, no I cook great when I do cook. I do not iron nor buy clothes that need ironing. Lastly, Sex and making love. If I wanted a one night stand it would be with a young beautiful male that I would have no intention of have a LTR with. Don’t expect me to have sex with you the first date, I think actually knowing one another and thinking Long term and not just lust is worth the wait, I still have hormones it doesn't take long to know if there is something special. I won’t respect YOU if we do have sex the first date so eventually the relationship will end. I like my doors opened, chair pulled out, dates paid for and flowers, I like surprises. I am not a feminist. If I’m treated well, I’m promise you will be treated better. You get what you give and if its meanness, I will be meaner although it takes a lot to make me angry. I have a history, past, failures, poor decisions and done things I am ashamed of but I have also shined and done many things I am proud of. It has formed the person that is me now and I choose to live in the present not the past or future. Problems occur daily which may be drama to some, me I either solve it or adapt to the situation if there is no solution.To know me is to love me. Are you out there, the one that will love me?Trying to quit smoking, So I'm being positive and changed my status of smoker to no:) Meet you :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Agnes

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Ok so this being single thing is getting to be a bit challenging for me...I was part of a couple for so long, I'm struggling with taking that initial leap back into the singles scene, and frankly, even before I got married it wasn't my scene, so maybe that's why its even harder for me now. I've done all the hard work of getting my head together, letting things go, getting back on track and finding myself (Im being a little sarcastic here, only because this is what people have told me I need to do to "get back on the saddle")....but at the end of the day, I'm a good person, and I have good morals and a stable life, so isn't that what really matters? People say anything to try to give you that little push to rebound yourself back in the game, but I really don't want to be in the game. I just want to find one person that I can trust with my life and love with my heart---it's that simple.I think as we get older, we know what we're not looking for as much as what we are. I am definitely not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. I am an only child so independence and responsibility has always come naturally to me...I'm looking for someone that gets that and is responsible as well. With that said, it does not mean I am not emotionally supportive...I just want someone to walk beside.To me, attraction is very important, but isnt always good looks. It's someone who's heart shines thru in their smile or has an attribute that they view as a flaw but I think is adorable. Personality by far is the biggest attraction....a sense of humor is a must...a sarcastic sense of humor a bonus. Another big one is stability and safety which to me means someone I can trust with my life...someone I have respect for and that respects me. Someone I can see myself growing old with. I'm blonde, so I do dumb things sometimes, mostly without even knowing which ends up making it even funnier--I'll admit it. Oh, and I'm not crazy...that seems to be a bonus on sites like these :) I have great kids but they're older now and are busy working and doing their own thing, so I find I have a lot more time on my hands.So.......guess there's only one thing missing. Hmmm, what could that be???? Someplace public and well lit...public so there's no pressure....well lit so I can see where I'm going if the sudden need to run like hell arises :)

  • Madalynn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy skiing, jet skis, exercising, hiking, anything outside. I work out several times a week and am looking for someone who takes care of himself, both inside and out. I enjoy traveling and would like to see some new cities or countries. I am an easy going person and a good friend. My friends describe me as someone who gets along with everyone. I have 3 teenage kids and enjoy watching their sporting events and spending time with them. I am not into drama and am definately not a drama queen. I am honest and hard working and enjoy just about anything. A first date for me would be something where we could get to know each other - maybe dinner or drinks at a quiet bar, or a picnic in a park.

  • Rexana

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    HI! I am tall and and "squishy" meaning I'm not slender but not too thick. (Appropriate for my height. Go Bucks!! (I may have lost some of you there...sorry about your "questionable taste") :) I like being out doors, long walks, swimming, fishing, sledding, camping etc. I like volunteering, and helping with school and church activities. I enjoy spending quality time my that special person, chatting over coffee or a good cup of tea. Cuddling while watching TV, a movie or just in front of the fireplace. (Or a camp fire!) I enjoy a variety of music including contemporary christian, classical, country, classic rock and some heavier rock. I would like to meet someone who has similar and yet different likenesses. After a bit of chatting we could together decide what would be the ideal first date.Whether it be lunch at a cafe or dinner of the romantic kind OR a sports like bar to watch the game!! PS I like flowers!

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