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Hilary, 47
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Under construction, keeping on eye on the fish finder and trying to figure what will be running this week!!! Will be updated as required as this pond gets pretty choppy and rough at times, but its always an adventure on here for sure!!! I have been here before, done this before; Got some keepers, made some great, lasting friendships. Wrote a vague paragraph, wrote a descriptive novel.... nothing seems to be the norm on here... Single people turn out to be married, married people are acting single. "Wants a relationship" turns into "Dating/No Committment" almost overnight. Too many txts in one day, you smother and stalk.... not enough, and you're not giving them any attention and they find someone else. Makes you wonder why you keep coming back, right? And still here we all are..... waiting for the bait runner to catch and hold.... hoping for the "keeper"..I do have preferences as to what type of man and situation I am looking for, though it does not matter to most men on here, lol!** MUST HAVE A PICTURE OR I WILL NOT RESPOND*** I DO NOT DATE BLACK GENTLEMEN***MUST BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION*** I prefer men over 5'10'', muscled, and in good shape.... I keep myself in good shape and I expect the same from my partner. Physical attraction is priority one for me. I am a very tactile person, and I consider it a main part of the relationship. Please do not take it personally if I am not interested in you, we each have our own likes/ dislikes and should not have to be held accountable for them.I am not on here to send *** after *** and time consuming. We talk online, we talk on phone, and we meet and we either click or we don't... I don't want to waste my time or yours :) ** If you are "married" to your job, the gym or your buds, WTH are you on here???*** A relationship requires time and effort..... If you are on here just to have a repetative one night stand, or someone who is desperate enough to play "the waiting game" holding their breath till you decide you txt/call, there are other women who would love to help you out.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM, don't even try it.. I WANT a relationship, definitely don't NEED one...... Love to be in quiet seclusion surrounded by nature... Wide open spaces over City every time.....Jeans and sweats, barefoot, but can play dress up really well...... :) Beer/Vodka, over wine, but depends on who is buying and when.... ;6Steak, NOT seafood, STRICT MEAT-atarian...Love my bread and potatoes/pasta and gravy (not sauce) !!!Lakes and rivers, over ocean, but have to take what you can get ;***year marriage, 12 yrs divorced, 23 year old daughter6 years Army: Nuclear, Biological, Chemical Warfare, ETS'd E***college degrees: Law, Massage Therapy17 years at same job... Law is involved and lawyers are included..... :) Music - Prefer 60's, 70's and 80's, have favorites in every genre... Hard Rock to Opera, Soul/RB to Hair Bands...Movies- Usually pick by fav actors... Pacino, DeNiro, Connery., etc..., but every movie deserves a fighting chance....LOVE WATCHING SPORTS!.. don't even bring it up....Should be enough, but if you want to know more, as I said, just ask... I am an open book, with some dog-eared pages for quick reference... To be determined.... Round 1 = something easy and convenient for both parties, prefer casual, simple, with no pretention...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Reggae Craft Making Documentary Mystery Sci-Fi
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  • Clairene from Elgin | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
    Clairene

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    "Every woman has the exact love life she wants." ...one of my favorite movie lines ever. (Not the movie, just the quote.) I totally believe this. :) If you don't have kids, you won't understand me. I've had many loves in my life, and I'm not looking for the next love of my life. For me, things like that don't need to be searched for, they just happen.Ok, I'm sorry, but this totally needs to be said: It's not that I don't believe in soul mates, but in my world that happens over time... you have dinner with someone and have a good time, enjoy each other's company, like each other and become friends, want to hang around often and bounce thoughts around, one day you realize how important the other person has become in your life and how much you value them, etc... (It's a process.) So, those of you who want to meet face to face to determine whether I'm "the one," I'M NOT.Love at first site? I'm certain that it happens for some, but I also think that it's linked to a personality type, and my personality is such that I'm much too cautious for that. If my demeanor (and humor) comes off as sarcastic, or even a little crude, please understand that I am parenting a house full of boys. I am constantly surrounded by testosterone, fart jokes, stinky feet and damp toilet seats. *******************************************************************Sooo tired of the haters. If I haven't responded to you :EITHER: I got busy, sidetracked, got chatting with someone else, or had a lot of messages and didn't get to yours. I'm sorry. If you're so inclined to message me again, I'm good with that. OR: I don't feel we are a compatible match, but didn't know exactly how to tell you that. Please put things in perspective... you don't know anything about me from the few paragraphs I wrote, and couple of photos I posted. You don't know about my past, my history with men, my current life, or where I'm coming from. This in no way means that I don't think you are a good man or some other woman isn't lucky to have you in HER life. For example, if I read your profile and you're clearly very driven, focused, disciplined and intense... well, I spent many years as a working single mom, I am flexible, laid back, I roll with whatever comes my way.... Or, if you're a sports fanatic, I respect that, but every time I have watched a game - baseball, football, basketball, etc. - within minutes I find my mind wandering and I'm staring at the wall daydreaming. So, I'd (pretend to) watch a game with you on occasion, or go to one once in a while, but I am NOT gonna magically become someone who enjoys it! First off, let me just say I am not trying to have sex with you. I know there are women on this site who are just trying to take advantage of a guy and use him for sex, but I am not one of them! That's not what I'm looking for. I will take you out for a drink, cup of coffee, or dinner first.... get to know you a little bit.... you know what I mean...Ok, seriously, I can get along with and have an enjoyable time with just about anyone. If you wanna have dinner and chat, as though we're coworkers having lunch together, let me know, that's a good place to start.

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  • Alannah from Elgin | Woman | 48 years old | Aquarius
    Alannah

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am honest, very caring, and believe everyone deserves respect. Did I mention I do like the biker type??My son doesn't want to teach me to ride he thinks ole Mom will lay it down.... LOL. but he rides also!!!ALSO, love to garden, crafts, and home projects. Do not like the bar scene at all, I prefer to walk downtown, drive in the mountains, camp, picking vegetables, just normal average things. love children (do not want to actually have another). Children are what makes life so special. He lives with me part time and is a great guy.I have had alcohol/drug problems in the past but and now sober and do not ever care to drink/use again. I do not judge others for their past mistakes, we are only human. Just as long as your honest, caring, and good-hearted now the past doesn't matter to me. I am tired of men playing games, if all u want is a good-friend with benefits then your not for me. Been hurt too many times. I would love a long term relationship, hopefully get married again. I don't like sleeping alone and love to be held. I think a great relationship should be loving, caring, supporting each other and your girl should be a lady in public and your wild woman at the appropriate time, you get me... right?I do not want to be controlled and I will not control you. I believe in doing most things as a couple but also have our own hobbies or just time away from each other. To me that makes the time we are together more special. I'm just me, what you see is what you get. I have had a pretty diverse life I don't keep secrets so if things work out you'll know all my skeltons..... its not that bad really!!. Meeting downtown for coffee (thats my new sh*tsince I don't do drugs lol), go to the park, putt-putt, bowling whatever.

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  • Heather from Elgin | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
    Heather

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I run my own civil engineering business and work another full time position.I fell and hurt my foot with a torn ligament 7 months ago. I am not back to my old self, I can not walk too much yet - still healing.I have two grown daughters. I am very musically inclined and play lots of *** gained weight over the past 6 months due to inability to get aroundbut I am totally independent and self sufficient.I'm more a 'tomboy' then a fashion plate. I am sarcastic sometimes to the point where people think I'm serious! I'm know for quoting funny lines from sitcome, movies and cartoons! I'm passionate about 'Looney Tunes' cartoons and cell art. My favorite band of all time is Pink Floyd. I love Monty Python and the original Saturday Night Live cast. I am not the huggie feely type of women, Hard to express myself in public. Holding hands no problem, kissing and getting all mushy in public, not my style. I have a few kayaks and like to do a ceder creek run from double trouble park. I also enjoy hanging out at the house and watching a good movie and cooking on the grill. My best friend is a guy, we have been friends forever and always will be, so no jealousy allowed.I am looking to date, but any relationship can turn into a serious wonderful relationship.Friendship and communication is very important. Sex is not. More important is truth and honesty! I am not into sex as a key part of a relationship - other componants are key.It would be nice to enjoy some of these things with a humorous, intelligant, easygoing man who enjoys the same. Likes a fun night out or a quiet dinner or a lazy night on the couch with TV. So what do you think? Maybe a nice quiet dinner or coffee to talk and get to know each other. Humor is key...sarcasm a must or you won't get me.

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