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Hilary, 47
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Under construction, keeping on eye on the fish finder and trying to figure what will be running this week!!! Will be updated as required as this pond gets pretty choppy and rough at times, but its always an adventure on here for sure!!! I have been here before, done this before; Got some keepers, made some great, lasting friendships. Wrote a vague paragraph, wrote a descriptive novel.... nothing seems to be the norm on here... Single people turn out to be married, married people are acting single. "Wants a relationship" turns into "Dating/No Committment" almost overnight. Too many txts in one day, you smother and stalk.... not enough, and you're not giving them any attention and they find someone else. Makes you wonder why you keep coming back, right? And still here we all are..... waiting for the bait runner to catch and hold.... hoping for the "keeper"..I do have preferences as to what type of man and situation I am looking for, though it does not matter to most men on here, lol!** MUST HAVE A PICTURE OR I WILL NOT RESPOND*** I DO NOT DATE BLACK GENTLEMEN***MUST BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION*** I prefer men over 5'10'', muscled, and in good shape.... I keep myself in good shape and I expect the same from my partner. Physical attraction is priority one for me. I am a very tactile person, and I consider it a main part of the relationship. Please do not take it personally if I am not interested in you, we each have our own likes/ dislikes and should not have to be held accountable for them.I am not on here to send *** after *** and time consuming. We talk online, we talk on phone, and we meet and we either click or we don't... I don't want to waste my time or yours :) ** If you are "married" to your job, the gym or your buds, WTH are you on here???*** A relationship requires time and effort..... If you are on here just to have a repetative one night stand, or someone who is desperate enough to play "the waiting game" holding their breath till you decide you txt/call, there are other women who would love to help you out.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM, don't even try it.. I WANT a relationship, definitely don't NEED one...... Love to be in quiet seclusion surrounded by nature... Wide open spaces over City every time.....Jeans and sweats, barefoot, but can play dress up really well...... :) Beer/Vodka, over wine, but depends on who is buying and when.... ;6Steak, NOT seafood, STRICT MEAT-atarian...Love my bread and potatoes/pasta and gravy (not sauce) !!!Lakes and rivers, over ocean, but have to take what you can get ;***year marriage, 12 yrs divorced, 23 year old daughter6 years Army: Nuclear, Biological, Chemical Warfare, ETS'd E***college degrees: Law, Massage Therapy17 years at same job... Law is involved and lawyers are included..... :) Music - Prefer 60's, 70's and 80's, have favorites in every genre... Hard Rock to Opera, Soul/RB to Hair Bands...Movies- Usually pick by fav actors... Pacino, DeNiro, Connery., etc..., but every movie deserves a fighting chance....LOVE WATCHING SPORTS!.. don't even bring it up....Should be enough, but if you want to know more, as I said, just ask... I am an open book, with some dog-eared pages for quick reference... To be determined.... Round 1 = something easy and convenient for both parties, prefer casual, simple, with no pretention...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Reggae Craft Making Documentary Mystery Sci-Fi
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  • Jaida from Elgin | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
    Jaida

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    going to try this one more time. I am looking for a friendship first. that leads possibly a to a long term relationship. I am independent I live alone with my granddaughter. I work everyday. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me financially I am looking for someone to spend time with. weekend trips, someone with whom I have a lot of common interests. what I do not want1. anyone who is married. has a girlfriend. separated. or newly divorced.2.aanyone who is t just looking for sex3.anyone who is a player and just wants their ego stroked4 anyone who is not ready for a relationship5. anyone who is not a gentleman what I do want;1. a gentleman2. a romantic.3. someone that knows if you treat a woman like a queen she will treat you like a king4. someone who likes children5 someone who is passionate6 someone who is looking for a committed relationship this is my last go around on here. please only the serious reply about me: I love younger than my years. and act younger than my years. I am romantic passionate sensual playful hard working independent and loyal. I enjoy the beach. hiking camping boating dining out. dining in. I love to cook but have no one to cook for. I am NOT a serial dater. would like to find someone who is ready to be in a committed relationship and not continually looking for something better on meetville. I want off this site but I'm not going to settle damn must be chemistry. and attraction. if you are someone that is ready to pursue a long term relationship and wants to be in love again, drop me a line. pun intended lol there's a lot more to me but I know you guys get bored reading. Lol Good luck in your search:) SunnyUpdate all pics are recent. Day at the beach or on a boat, nice outdoor seafood dinner, fried oysters, shrimp, lobster. mmmmm. a stroll down the beach at sunset, followed by some wine and either dancing or a blues or jazz club., or just coffee, or lunch. i like the man to handle the details on the first date based on what you take away from my profile.

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  • Allyn from Elgin | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
    Allyn

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I like to laugh and have a good time. I am not into games or players. I work out ***times a week and want someone with similar ideas on fitness and healthy lifestyles. I will be running my first 5k at the end of this month...very excited about that!!I am not your sugar momma or your one night stand, I'm not going to send pics that expose body parts or talk unladylike to you when I don't even know you!Ok ...got that out of the way...OK...lets see...what would someone want to know about me...I like to laugh at myself when I do silly,stupid things...I like to smile...I do that most of the time. I like to play card games when I have time and I will beat you at it!!!! :-) ... I am very competitive!! ..I am the type of person that the cup is always half full no matter what the situation is......I grew up in the country with cows and horses and the simple life that goes with that. love to garden...watching things grow is awesome....I speak my mind, ...People tell me that I am very straight forward and to the point...why beat around the bush...if I want to know something, I will ask...I cant read your mind and I don't expect you to read mine. I am not a big drinker...I like to get my party on occasionally but it is not a way of life for me. I don't do the bar scene...maybe with a bunch of friends to hang out and be silly a few times a year. Camping and hiking are fun. There is nothing better than a meal cooked over a campfire with all the stars shining down on you. I like just about any kind of music...headbanger not so much..if it has good guitar riffs in it, I might be able to listen...lolI like sports...football, basketball and baseball ...go cowboys! Longhorns, Mavs and rangersI like a man who knows who he is..likes to BBQ in the backyard or the lake...must have a sense of humor...life is too short to be around people who are always negative!! They will suck the life out of you!!! I don't do drama ...if you have a lot of that in your life, pass me by..I like to laugh and have a good time. I like the outdoors, not afraid of a little dirt! I am a country girl at heart. Go somewhere that is quiet to talk and get to know each other. Where there is good food and drink to go with the good company. See if there is any chemistry between us.

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  • Carolyne from Elgin | Woman | 46 years old | Sagittarius
    Carolyne

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a middle aged Christian woman looking for the next phase of my life. . .I have two grown children who are becoming successful and have lives of their own, my job is done. lol . . . and now it is time for me to meet someone that I am attracted to and share similar interests so we can enjoy each others company and hopefully turn into a relationship and something long lasting!. . .I am looking for a positive journey. . .I am currently living a healthy lifestyle and I enjoy the outdoors very much. . .if this interests you please message me. with the nice weather a meet and greet for a walk at a park or the riverfront. . .than if all goes well dinner!

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