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Hilary, 47
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Under construction, keeping on eye on the fish finder and trying to figure what will be running this week!!! Will be updated as required as this pond gets pretty choppy and rough at times, but its always an adventure on here for sure!!! I have been here before, done this before; Got some keepers, made some great, lasting friendships. Wrote a vague paragraph, wrote a descriptive novel.... nothing seems to be the norm on here... Single people turn out to be married, married people are acting single. "Wants a relationship" turns into "Dating/No Committment" almost overnight. Too many txts in one day, you smother and stalk.... not enough, and you're not giving them any attention and they find someone else. Makes you wonder why you keep coming back, right? And still here we all are..... waiting for the bait runner to catch and hold.... hoping for the "keeper"..I do have preferences as to what type of man and situation I am looking for, though it does not matter to most men on here, lol!** MUST HAVE A PICTURE OR I WILL NOT RESPOND*** I DO NOT DATE BLACK GENTLEMEN***MUST BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION*** I prefer men over 5'10'', muscled, and in good shape.... I keep myself in good shape and I expect the same from my partner. Physical attraction is priority one for me. I am a very tactile person, and I consider it a main part of the relationship. Please do not take it personally if I am not interested in you, we each have our own likes/ dislikes and should not have to be held accountable for them.I am not on here to send *** after *** and time consuming. We talk online, we talk on phone, and we meet and we either click or we don't... I don't want to waste my time or yours :) ** If you are "married" to your job, the gym or your buds, WTH are you on here???*** A relationship requires time and effort..... If you are on here just to have a repetative one night stand, or someone who is desperate enough to play "the waiting game" holding their breath till you decide you txt/call, there are other women who would love to help you out.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM, don't even try it.. I WANT a relationship, definitely don't NEED one...... Love to be in quiet seclusion surrounded by nature... Wide open spaces over City every time.....Jeans and sweats, barefoot, but can play dress up really well...... :) Beer/Vodka, over wine, but depends on who is buying and when.... ;6Steak, NOT seafood, STRICT MEAT-atarian...Love my bread and potatoes/pasta and gravy (not sauce) !!!Lakes and rivers, over ocean, but have to take what you can get ;***year marriage, 12 yrs divorced, 23 year old daughter6 years Army: Nuclear, Biological, Chemical Warfare, ETS'd E***college degrees: Law, Massage Therapy17 years at same job... Law is involved and lawyers are included..... :) Music - Prefer 60's, 70's and 80's, have favorites in every genre... Hard Rock to Opera, Soul/RB to Hair Bands...Movies- Usually pick by fav actors... Pacino, DeNiro, Connery., etc..., but every movie deserves a fighting chance....LOVE WATCHING SPORTS!.. don't even bring it up....Should be enough, but if you want to know more, as I said, just ask... I am an open book, with some dog-eared pages for quick reference... To be determined.... Round 1 = something easy and convenient for both parties, prefer casual, simple, with no pretention...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Reggae Craft Making Documentary Mystery Sci-Fi
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