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ClaireneOnline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
"Every woman has the exact love life she wants." ...one of my favorite movie lines ever. (Not the movie, just the quote.) I totally believe this. :) If you don't have kids, you won't understand me. I've had many loves in my life, and I'm not looking for the next love of my life. For me, things like that don't need to be searched for, they just happen.Ok, I'm sorry, but this totally needs to be said: It's not that I don't believe in soul mates, but in my world that happens over time... you have dinner with someone and have a good time, enjoy each other's company, like each other and become friends, want to hang around often and bounce thoughts around, one day you realize how important the other person has become in your life and how much you value them, etc... (It's a process.) So, those of you who want to meet face to face to determine whether I'm "the one," I'M NOT.Love at first site? I'm certain that it happens for some, but I also think that it's linked to a personality type, and my personality is such that I'm much too cautious for that. If my demeanor (and humor) comes off as sarcastic, or even a little crude, please understand that I am parenting a house full of boys. I am constantly surrounded by testosterone, fart jokes, stinky feet and damp toilet seats. *******************************************************************Sooo tired of the haters. If I haven't responded to you :EITHER: I got busy, sidetracked, got chatting with someone else, or had a lot of messages and didn't get to yours. I'm sorry. If you're so inclined to message me again, I'm good with that. OR: I don't feel we are a compatible match, but didn't know exactly how to tell you that. Please put things in perspective... you don't know anything about me from the few paragraphs I wrote, and couple of photos I posted. You don't know about my past, my history with men, my current life, or where I'm coming from. This in no way means that I don't think you are a good man or some other woman isn't lucky to have you in HER life. For example, if I read your profile and you're clearly very driven, focused, disciplined and intense... well, I spent many years as a working single mom, I am flexible, laid back, I roll with whatever comes my way.... Or, if you're a sports fanatic, I respect that, but every time I have watched a game - baseball, football, basketball, etc. - within minutes I find my mind wandering and I'm staring at the wall daydreaming. So, I'd (pretend to) watch a game with you on occasion, or go to one once in a while, but I am NOT gonna magically become someone who enjoys it! First off, let me just say I am not trying to have sex with you. I know there are women on this site who are just trying to take advantage of a guy and use him for sex, but I am not one of them! That's not what I'm looking for. I will take you out for a drink, cup of coffee, or dinner first.... get to know you a little bit.... you know what I mean...Ok, seriously, I can get along with and have an enjoyable time with just about anyone. If you wanna have dinner and chat, as though we're coworkers having lunch together, let me know, that's a good place to start.
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LenaOnline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Nice person looking for someone to have a nice time with. Someone who enjoys lake / ocean activities, camping, jet ski's, and bbq's. I am an occasional gambler and drink socially. I have an open mind and liberal beliefs. My preferences as far as men go has typically been African American or African. I am open to all types of people and cultures, however. Must haves are a good sense of humor, educated, tolerant of all races and kids, fun loving, easy going, decent looks, animal loving, and employed. I am not particularly religious but I am spiritual and believe in the principles of Christianity. I enjoy reggae and hip hop / rhythm & blues music genres.What I have to offer is intelligent conversation, drama free interaction, and and a fun social experience. What attracts me is confidence, independence, humor, common interests. The pictures you see are current so what you see is what you get. I am not skinny and could stand to loose a few pounds. I am not obese but average just as it states in my profile. I am still beautiful inside and out. I carry myself in a respectful manner and my physical attributes dont define me or the people I choose to surround myself with. I appreciate a nice physique just as we'll as the next person but the person is what really matters. After all our profiles state "looking for dates no commitments, friendship, or not looking for anything seriuos." We're not getting married, right? I don't need anyone to validate my worth and don't need mean spirited criticism from condescending men. If that is a turn off ... Have a nice day and keep it moving, not into superficial people anyway.
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BambiOnline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
It's hard to describe yourself in such a brief context, but here goes....I am working and going to school full-time which keeps me on my toes, but my eyes are on the prize! I love my job, which is something that makes me happy to say! I got to run the Warrior Dash this year and it was such a blast, can't wait till next year. In the meantime, I am doing a couple other 5Ks this fall as well. Would love to find someone to have fun with, go on a hike, watch a movie, go camping, kayak and/or just be silly with. Music is always around me and you never know what may play next, except rap/hip hop. Love to cook, but don't cook often anymore for a few reasons. I have two cats who are entertaining and pretty decent company. Miss having a dog and hope to have one down the road. What's your view on tattoos?Guys, I'm sorry, but if you don't have a pic, I won't respond. A first date should be fun and yet give you both time to talk and get to know each other. Depending on the weather....a hike, not too strenuous, but getting outside, the sun on your face, good conversation, beautiful views, a nice lunch or dinner = good day.