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Cythia, 46
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

Offline, last seen Mon, 02 Mar 2026 18:07:06

About Me

Everything in my profile is who I am. My morals aren't up for compromise. Please don't waste my time by not comprehending it. Also, don't use lines on me that you wouldn't want a guy using on your daughter. Besides, I've heard them all. If you work shift work, I'm sorry but I'm not interested. I want to actually be able to spend time with someone and eventually have someone to come home to not someone who I see every couple of weeks. I have two daughters. We are very active. We love to watch and play sports. Baseball is our favorite. We love college sports and are a house divided. We love anything and everything to do with water. Beach or lake or pool. Laid back is not how people would describe us, unless its our Friday night movie night or a Sunday afternoon. I like to do things with friends such as grill out, watch ball games, etc. We don't watch a lot of TV. If you want to know anything specific, just ask. I'm very honest and blunt. I also don't give out my phone number after one text. Please come up with better intro lines. If you take the time to actually type out a swear word, you probably aren't the gentleman I'm looking to date. Here is what I am looking for: you must be a Godly man (not just "Christian" this also means abstinence until marriage, head of the household, decision maker, a leader). You must be educated. (This means graduating from a university, not high school, trade school, JUCO) You should enjoy sports, playing and watching. NASCAR does not count. Please be financially stable and have a career. I can't afford to pay for you. You should be physically fit or at least able to keep up. A few extra pounds is less than 20. Average means you are neither fat or skinny. Look at my pic. THAT is a few extra pounds. If you're interested, then chat. Don't say you are and then not log on for several days or play games of waiting for me to respond to your most recent text that just said LOL. Don't want to log on here everyday? Then ask for my *** am not interested in moving more than 20 minutes from my children's school. We are happy and we have fun and we stay active, but we would like that special guy in our life. I have full custody so we are a package deal. I have my kids almost ***. A great first date might be brunch on one of the two Saturdays they see their father. I am not a negative person, but do know what I dont want. I am not a cowgirl/redneck/farm girl, but I don't mind living out in the country on a farm. If you can't speak/read/write beyond a high school level we probably won't get along for long. I also don't want either of us to waste time chatting when there are things that I know will bother me. Please read my profile before contacting me so you'll know if we are compatible. Ideal first date -wine bar or coffee house so we can talk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Watching TV German Middle Eastern South American
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