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Clairene
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
"Every woman has the exact love life she wants." ...one of my favorite movie lines ever. (Not the movie, just the quote.) I totally believe this. :) If you don't have kids, you won't understand me. I've had many loves in my life, and I'm not looking for the next love of my life. For me, things like that don't need to be searched for, they just happen.Ok, I'm sorry, but this totally needs to be said: It's not that I don't believe in soul mates, but in my world that happens over time... you have dinner with someone and have a good time, enjoy each other's company, like each other and become friends, want to hang around often and bounce thoughts around, one day you realize how important the other person has become in your life and how much you value them, etc... (It's a process.) So, those of you who want to meet face to face to determine whether I'm "the one," I'M NOT.Love at first site? I'm certain that it happens for some, but I also think that it's linked to a personality type, and my personality is such that I'm much too cautious for that. If my demeanor (and humor) comes off as sarcastic, or even a little crude, please understand that I am parenting a house full of boys. I am constantly surrounded by testosterone, fart jokes, stinky feet and damp toilet seats. *******************************************************************Sooo tired of the haters. If I haven't responded to you :EITHER: I got busy, sidetracked, got chatting with someone else, or had a lot of messages and didn't get to yours. I'm sorry. If you're so inclined to message me again, I'm good with that. OR: I don't feel we are a compatible match, but didn't know exactly how to tell you that. Please put things in perspective... you don't know anything about me from the few paragraphs I wrote, and couple of photos I posted. You don't know about my past, my history with men, my current life, or where I'm coming from. This in no way means that I don't think you are a good man or some other woman isn't lucky to have you in HER life. For example, if I read your profile and you're clearly very driven, focused, disciplined and intense... well, I spent many years as a working single mom, I am flexible, laid back, I roll with whatever comes my way.... Or, if you're a sports fanatic, I respect that, but every time I have watched a game - baseball, football, basketball, etc. - within minutes I find my mind wandering and I'm staring at the wall daydreaming. So, I'd (pretend to) watch a game with you on occasion, or go to one once in a while, but I am NOT gonna magically become someone who enjoys it! First off, let me just say I am not trying to have sex with you. I know there are women on this site who are just trying to take advantage of a guy and use him for sex, but I am not one of them! That's not what I'm looking for. I will take you out for a drink, cup of coffee, or dinner first.... get to know you a little bit.... you know what I mean...Ok, seriously, I can get along with and have an enjoyable time with just about anyone. If you wanna have dinner and chat, as though we're coworkers having lunch together, let me know, that's a good place to start.
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Lashunda
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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Hi.. I love listening to music especially blues, hip-hop and classic rock. I'm creative and enjoy designing websites in my spare time. I have several on-going projects, including one for a local non profit. His work makes me laugh. I also enjoy; watching Football ( Go Pats! ), Dancing, Walks and Hiking, Cuddling with someone special and more. Still reading, interested, send a message. Perhaps we will click and things will be great. Conversation is essential for me.
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Alexandra
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Free spirited, funny, responsible lady. I have my own style (Bohemian/Hippy)and don't need to keep up with the latest trends or styles. I appreciate the simple things in life. I truly feel materialistic people are not happy people. I have been divorced for a while now and have no drama in my life. I have 3 rescue dogs that I just love so you must like dogs. I have a great sence of humor a bit sarcastic but you'll know by the sparkle in my eye. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm a great communicator and very compassionate. I always try to put myself in someone elses shoes. Don't judge others, I'm not God and only he has the right to Judge.Stay in the positive, no matter how hard life can be its always easier to get through if you find the good in it, if not find something humorous. When in an argument I DO NOT yell or scream, if for some reason we can't talk about it at the time then step away for a bit. Understand I am very easy going and dont sweat the small stuff. I expect the same in return so if your a screamer or an abuser do not repond. I am self relient and do not "need" a man in my life but it would be nice to have someone to share my life with. I do at times miss being in a relationship but I'm not going to just jump right into it. This whole internet dating is a little hard for me to do, so patiences please. Its not that I'm juggling men, I am a one man at one time kinda girl.My kids are all grown up its time for me to have some fun and get out there and meet new people and start a new chapter in my life. Ok this my be a clincher but I have to be honest, I love kids don't get me wrong but I would like to find someone who's kids are also grown.If you think you might be interested PLEASE contact me! I still have my Mom's voice in my head that tells me Girls DO NOT CALL BOYS so if your intereted send me a line. Something casual for the first date just to see if there is any chemistry, some place where we can have a conversation and not have to yell at each other to be heard.