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Debora, 46

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About Me

I like sunsets, bonfires, camping, boating (any kind... canoeing to sailing!), hiking, walks on the Lakewalk. A quiet glass of wine. Perhaps a movie. And I like many types of music, from Gregorian chant to hip hop! The only genre I really don't like is CW. I'm pretty active and am putting concerted effort into health and nutrition as I approach 50.It's really nice to have someone to appreciate and to be appreciated. Someone to smile for, to love on and cuddle with, to care for and be cared about, all that great relationship stuff. The burden really is half and the joy double when the right personalities come together. So, ultimately, that's what I'm looking to have again someday. My free time is quite valuable to me, so I like to make the most of it with family and friends, or sometimes just go off on a hike by myself or go and sit on the rocks by the lake. My personality is to be fun and spontaneous but my schedule is actually quite planned because I'm a small business owner, part-time employee, sole parent and dog owner. But I always manage to find time for fun!Yeah, about kids and dogs: I have a couple of each living at home, full time. I also have a large extended family that I like to get together with several times a year, and we're quite a diverse bunch, ethnically, racially, religiously. First dates are about getting to know one another, so someplace where conversation is possible, like a restaurant or coffee shop would be nice. If the weather is nice, perhaps a walk on the Lakewalk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyse

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Yes, I really do look like the pictures. I have not gained weight or had any disfiguring accidents.Being the optimistic, opinionated, realistic and sarcastic person that I am and within reasonable bounds of keeping an open mind I know what I am looking for, none of which is written in stone.This is a site for dating. If you are always unavailable to meet or date why are you here? Be completely single or completely divorced. Separated (yeah, I know, since breakfast) doesn't count. (Spare me the hate mail, please. Do as you wish, just leave me out of that kind of drama.)In your profile I'd like to see pictures of you doing things you enjoy (can your smile, ever?), not your house, car, toys, etc. I want to date a man, not his material possessions. I don't believe the most important thing about you is your prestigious job title & fat paycheck. Those things won't be counted against you, but if that's all you have to offer I'm not interested.I have been paying my own bills for many years, I am not looking for your financial support, nor will I support you.I'm very healthy, I can easily keep up with someone several years younger, late 30's is probably my lower limit with early 50's being the oldest I might consider. If it insults your manhood to be invited somewhere and for me to pay, get over it or don't accept my invitation. (The person extending the invitation pays, unless otherwise agreed to prior to the event.) Below, I didn't write it, I do try to live like that though.DesiderataGo placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ***; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. --Anonymous A walk in the park, a picnic, toss me your ideas, we should be able to figure this out.

  • Carroll

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My closest friends describe me as creative, fun loving, adventerous, caring, outgoing, thoughtful, witty, intellectual, confident, organized, ambitious, and driven.I enjoy hanging out with friends and value my family very much; I am the proud mom of three amazing kids! I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to dating. I truely appreciate it when a man opens doors for me, is the first to call, and initiates advancing the relationship.I would love to find someone who loves to travel, is ambitious, confident but not arrogant, has a good sence of humor, social, thoughtful, and respectful.I have enjoyed many unique adventures in life.....Wheel of Fortune! I hope to find someone who also enjoys lifes adventures.For fun I enjoy theatre, movies, concerts, travel, dancing, singing, books, dining out, and all sports, especially volleyball, tennis, golf, and football. I do have a bit of competitiveness *** me!My favorite music includes top 40's, country, and easy listening. Anything that would allow for friendly conversation; a walk, lunch, dinner, drinks...

  • Emelia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    My friends call me real, insightful, funny, compassionate, impulsive, passionate, empathetic, creative, loyal and spiritually grounded. I guess I’m what you’d call and out of the box type of person. I can see many sides to a situation. I don’t subscribe to one religion, one political party one class of people or one culture. I believe being open minded has afforded me opportunities to meet some very interesting people and learn a lot from them.I love music, traveling, out of the way places, off the wall adventures and meaningful conversation, The type of person I'd like to meet is someone who has a sense of humor, genuinely likes people, has a big heart is open minded and desires to grow spiritually.I like all kinds of music from classical to hard rock and even some rap. My new favorite band is The Black Eyed Peas. I'll write some more of my favorites later.Traveling is probably my very favorite thing to do. I love meeting different kinds of people, learning from them and seeing how they live. I've been to Europe 4 times....S. Sometimes I like to take driving trips stopping in little towns along the way.I'm good at dry humorous banter and ok with small talk although it really bores me. I like to get down to the heart of a topic and just be real if given the choice. But some back and forth good spirited banter can be fun. I know small talk is sometimes necessary so I do engage in it. It's just not my favorite thing.What I'm looking for is someone who thinks outside the box and wants a best friend, lover and companion to share life’s experiences with. He believes that in a relationship each person should have a life outside the relationship too. He cares about people, has integrity and can carry on a meaningful conversation. He's willing to take a risk and see what happens. Coffee

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