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Kendyl, 42
United States, South Carolina, Darlington

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About Me

I’m a divorced mother of 2 boys (ages 18 and ***& was with my ex for 15 years. We're still good friends, no drama there. I’ve been dating for several years & am often asked why I am still single. Part of that is bad luck with men (ha ha) and another part is not willing to settle for just anyone. So the bottom line is I just haven’t found the one for me. But I haven’t given up hope…I like to hear live music and spontaneously meet for drinks after work and go to sporting events and be outdoors on a nice day, but I also like to stay home and cook a simple meal and watch TV while cuddling on the couch. A great date isn’t about being entertained or impressed by where you can take me, it’s about being comfortable enough to be myself, having great conversation, and having fun just being in your company. And of course a little romance is a must - I'm looking for both friendship and passion, not one without the other. I am sassy and flirty and like to tease…and I like a guy that can give as good as he gets!I’ve gone on a lot of dates that haven’t resulted in a second, I’ve dated a handful of guys for extended periods of time, and I’ve fallen head over heels in love and had my heart broken, badly. If anyone tells you they are 100% confident in who they are & have no insecurities about themselves, they are lying. I will say I am confident that I know myself & I know what I want/need in a guy. And if I have learned anything from this crazy world of dating it is that I can’t settle for less than what I feel is perfect for me. That just doesn’t work in the end, no matter how nice the guy. But most of what I am looking for is a “feeling”, an unexplained connection, so I’m open minded enough to realize you can find love when and where you least expect it, with whom you least expect it with. Of course attraction is important. How well your profile is written is important. What you say to me when you first contact me is important (just “hi” will NOT result in a response). But I understand it is hard to look at a picture or read a few paragraphs and know if you will have chemistry with someone.As far as what YOU are looking for, I may or may not meet all of your “criteria” (most of the guys on here have a LONG unrealistic sounding list) but I just may surprise you by what a great catch I am…and you will have to take a chance and get to know me to find out! Low-key, laid back, simple - maybe a couple of drinks and good conversation. We won't call it a date, let's just meet to see if there's a connection. And if that turns into a date because we really click and just don't want the night to end, great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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