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Arya, 43

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About Me

********Looking for a man who fulfills this. http://youtu.be/3YxaaGgTQYMHmmm..let me see. Well, confidence is a huge attraction for me. I am a very loyal person and a defender by heart. I will defend anyone whom I think is getting a raw deal or cannot defend themselves. That is probably why I enjoy nursing so much. I absolutely love being a support to people. Giving myself in time and energy.I am not mean or rude in any manner, but I can and do think very logically (as well as emotionally) so some things I say can be misconstrued. People may think I was saying something poorly when in fact all I was doing was relaying information...no feelings involved. I try very hard to curtail that. And did I say confidence was important? Hmmm... LolI am very confident in WHO I am and what I want in a relationship. The things I'm looking for involve more of the environment rather than what the person looks like. I'm very silly AND can hold a very intellectual conversation. I love to debate to learn more about a subject. NOT to win...and no...debating is not an argument. But, if the debate turns personal, I will stop. Immediately. Debates are an exchange of information. Not a forum for attacking the other person.I don't mind getting my hands dirty and working and then getting cleaned up and going to a formal dinner/play/ballet.... whatever it may be. I also don't need to be babysat. I'm a grown woman and hope to find a grown man. Did I mention what a turn on confidence is?I think I'm unique because I know what I want.Perfect night? Being snowed in, large flakes meandering down, snow covered trees, a bright full moon, and my best friend...Favorite quote: “This above all: to thine own self be true" - :) Yayyyyyy Starbucks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I run marathons, try and keep up! This is the premise of my life. Everything I do is at a fast pace, except for dating, I like to take my time and really get to know the person. It's not how fast you do things; it's how much living you do while you are doing the things you love. I am an independent woman but would love to share my life and the future with the right person. I have a passion for sports and I find the perfect weekend in the fall, tailgating at a football game and cheering for my favorite team or jumping on a plane and exploring the world. I enjoy a good debate about politics, religion and money, but I am not confrontational. Just searching for someone to challenge me and make me want to be a smarter and more intellectual person. I have an appreciation for the arts and enjoy the theater. I am a performer in every sense of the word and my life is my stage. I like to describe my perfect match as someone that I would pick to be my best friend. He needs to be like an onion -once you peel away the outer layer (the facade) there are many layers underneath. The deeper you go to the core the better he gets. Family must be a priority, if not your own, the appreciation of anothers'. To be a good person to me means being able to do the right thing in an adverse situation. The most important thing in life is to find contentment with oneself. Knowing that where you are is where you are meant to be but never settling for what you have. Always striving to be more in life. NOT HAVE MORE! My parents have been married for 53 years and I have watched my father love, respect and appreciate my mother. I want a man who can do the same for me. Whoever the man is that steals my heart forever, will love me more than he loves himself. Total unconditional love! I'm pretty open to trying new things however, I've never been on a coffee date that wasn't awkward. The key to a first date is keeping it casual and simple in an environment where two people can be themselves.

  • Rafaela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Fun, go lucky 43 year old woman that has decided its time to start MY life now. I love to do anything from Bible study to playing pool!!!!!! I love to cook clean and enjoy wonderful company with family and friends, if its cooking out or watching a movie. I am currently going to college to receive my degree in therapeutic massage and business. I love the Lord and know that I'm a sinner only saved by Grace.. I absolutely live for family gatherings, even though my children are grown, we always try to make time for bomb fires and cook outs. I'm one for the grill anytime, but love cooking in the kitchen too!!! Love the country... just moved into a country house, Fast cars, big trucks, and motor cycles are the hit for me, just bought a Honda ***loaded, got a steal!!!!!...hit me up if u would like to chat!!!! Look forward to meeting u!!!! , I'm not one who likes to date a lot, kinda a home body when I can be. Looking to get remarried again, please if you are not looking for the same for the future, I'm not the one you should meet. Not into the dating several guys at one time scene, not my style, very faithful, caring, loving and understanding. Ready to start anew and give it my all again... Thanks for stopping by!!!!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello all, I am going to try this ONE more time!!!!! I enjoy the outdoors, taking walks, dinning out or cooking a good meal for that special man. I love to laugh and love to snuggle. I am not into games or one night stands so if you are then DO NOT bother leaving me a message. I think family is very important. I just want to find a man that is not a liar nor a cheater. I want one that is trustworthy and is not afraid to laugh and have fun. I do not want a drug head nor do I want someone that is controlling. I do not think I am asking for too much. I am tired of being alone and would like a nice, cute, down to earth man to be a part of my life. If you would like to talk or have any questions just leave me a message. Thanks and have a nice day. P.S. If there is a chance you are going to get back with your ex or you still have feelings for her please DO NOT bother leaving me a message. Also, if you are going to ask for my number and then send nude pics, DON'T BOTHER!!!!!!!! Have respect for women and you may find you a decent one.... We would need to discuss it and decide together what we would like to do

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