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Evette, 44
United States, South Carolina, Dalzell

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About Me

I heard once ..."we are not humans having a spiritual experience, but rather spiritual heings having a human experience". I cannot recall where this came from, but it has stuck with me for a long time!Just a bit about myself, I am pretty easy going. I have a great life and I have a terrific son, family and friends! I am self employed and operate a business as well as have a small part-time business on the side. I absolutely love my jobs. I love working and I enjoy people. I want to laugh. I want to make you laugh. I like to dance, go to movies...but not horror movies...they creep me out too much. I enjoy watching them at home too. sometimes snuggling on the couch with a great glass of wine is amazing!Music is a pleasure to me. don't much care for rap, but everything else iis fantastic :) We have this cool little live music venue in my town that I love to go to. It's small enough that you can meet the artists and it is truly fascinating to talk to these folks and learn about their music. Food and cooking are important to me. I love to create new dishes and really like to have people sample them. One of my businesses is a Bar/Restaurant so I am always trying new stuff in the kitchen. Don't you want to be my guinea pig..LOL?In this industry, you would think that I would meet plenty of ":fish" in that giant Lake I look at everyday. It is hard to meet someone at work, plain and simple. I hear from men that they find me intimidating, but I just don't see that in myself. from my perspective, I am kind, generous to a fault, attentive, bright and amusing...and slightly amused most of the time:)Yes, I am looking for a relationship and someone to grow old with, etc., etc...but I would really like to date first. I am not one to jump in with both feet. I want to find someone who is a good friend. And it may seem old fashioned but let's take it a little slowly.At the same time, I would like to find that guy who can support me emotionally and mentally and will treat me with respect and learn to cherish me; we all derserve that....not just women, but MEN TOO! Someone who can challenge me and has similar values. We cannot know these things unless we go out on a date.... we cannot go on a date if we don't message one another. Please send me a message, if you find me appealing at all and we can go from there. I think that the "meet me" feature is the most annoying thing about this site. If you click yes, then why won't you start a conversation...we cannot meet if we don't message...hellooooo:) Also, goodness do not click that "yes" if you don't mean it. Then what's the point.GOD I hope I haven't said too much...too little...the wrong thing...this is hard, but all in all we all just wanna be happier with someone than without!OH I ALMOST FORGOT! PLEASE BE SINGLE. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IF YOU LIVE WITH YOUR WIFE, GIRLFRIEND, BABY MAMA, ETC...ETC..ETC..thank you! I enjoy having conversations and learning about someone. I think that a fist date should be something fun like a ballgame, dinner or a few drinks. Nothing too crazy or noisy. Let's take some time to relax

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Hattie from Dalzell | Woman | 41 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    It's taken me awhile to realize that I am looking for something really simple....an uncomplicated relationship with someone I can be friends with above all else...but now that I have I am going to give online dating another shot...so here it goes!I am a fun loving, caring person who can be shy at first but once I get to know you I promise I will keep you laughing!I love music and I listen to all types. I am super open to listening to anything new so suggest away... I can't promise I will love it but I am always willing to give new things a shot...within reason of course ;) I also love to read and paint and enjoy cooking for the ones I love :)I enjoy traveling and have a lot of big plans to take an extended holiday and go to the far east...here's hoping!I guess I am looking for a good guy who is easy to talk to and who shares some of my interests so if I sparked any interest send me a message. I look forward to chatting!Oh and according to meetville experts I am looking for the following:you seem to be looking for a "MOTIVATOR." A motivator is well-poised to meet the hidden or unspoken needs you might actually be trying to fill in a search for a relationship. A motivator is… •Someone who doesn't make you feel like an underachiever, but who can act as more of a support and by giving you physical and emotional space to focus on your personal interests and goals.•Someone with strong self-control and patience, who'll respect and seek out your feelings and preferences rather than be domineering and controlling. •Someone who strives for and models longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being attractive to you. •Someone who'll renew your passion for life through exploring and sharing new experiences and opportunities.•Someone who's steady and economically stable but keen to balance professional ambition with being accessible to loved ones. •Someone who's vulnerable and unafraid to show physical affection, loyalty and emotional connection towards you in public, as well as in private. •Someone who feels no need to impress others and who prefers to focus on life's other matters.•Someone who respects and adheres to social etiquette, which reflects well on you among family and friends. HMMMM! Sounds about right! :) Causal is always best :) so maybe a nice talk over a drink?

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  • Shanae from Dalzell | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a easy going women who loves to laugh .I love all kind of music..I'm a very affectionate person. I love to cook. Football. camping. fishing. kissing.I want a man who is happy with one woman. I think respect goes a long way.I believe that you can show someone you care better then you can tell them..Life is to short ..when you love someone you should show them everyday..I want a man I can make smile from across the room..I don't want to be with someone I can live with I want the one I can't live without.. I will always have your back and be there no matter what.you can depend on me.I will always put you first and show you how important you are.I'm looking for honesty.not interested in anyone who doesn't know what they want.there is nothing worse then someone telling you they love you but they are always looking for the next best thing.news flash that's not called loving someone that's called using them.

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  • Terina from Dalzell | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would describe myself as a fun and easy going person. I am a little quiet at first... but my friends would not describe me like that at all! I like to see things in a positive way rather than negative...it's not part of my personality.I listen to all kinds of music. My favorite is R and B, Sole, Rock, Pop, 80's, 90's. If you are beside me in the car then I am most likely singing to one song or another. I love going for walks, exploring new places and going for nice drives on the weekends discovering new places. I enjoy dinner out, but also like staying in and cooking as well. However breakfast out is one of my weakness'..what can I say ;-) I like visiting museums, live theatre, going to the movies or just hanging out at a book store discovering new books. I enjoy my career but do not live to work but rather work to live, but I am happy doing what I do during the day. Exploring new places or revisiting old ones. I like to visit and experieince all the non tourist areas. I want to keep on traveling to new places and seeing all there is to see in the world. Family and friends are really important to me. My closest friends are like family to me. I try to spend time with them as much as possible.Of course there is the most important person to me my son and I am proud and lucky to be called Mommy.It is hard to narrow down what kind of person I am looking for.....we all go through different experiences that shape us. I consider myself kind and smart so I'd like to meet someone with similar traits. I am looking for a connection of not just love but common interests, direction and communication. For a first meeting it is good to go to a place where we can talk a cafe place.).

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