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Paola, 43

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About Me

Hi!I was born on April Fools Day, I lean toward teasing, flirting and joking. I prefer to play wrestle at the end of a disagreement vs going into separate rooms. I enjoy a nice glass of Champagne in heels at a nice restaurant and I enjoy a cold beer playing pool. I love to travel and explore new places. I spend alot of time at the beach (my boys love to surf). I read books, only when in the mood. Sunsets are gorgeous and with the right person, even better. I am close to my family. I can be sarcastic in a fun way. I like going out to live bands. I move to a variety of music. I hula hoop to keep my core toned. I love to laugh. I believe that life with a partner is not about how we are alone, it all has to do with chemistry and how we are together in daily life. I would prefer the man to let me know where he would like to take me.....;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elvina

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    At this point in my life I know what I want and what I'm looking for in a relationship with a wonderful man. I prefer a true gentleman who knows how to care for others. Honesty, integrity, and monogamy are the corner-stones of a successful relationship. I'm way past the "bar scene" stage. I love to enjoy the ocean. A great happy hour with a wonderful view is a big plus. I've done a lot of adventurous things for a girl. I like to go out and enjoy life, and I'm very young at heart. I've never been one to follow the crowd either. Would love to spend the day at the park with my man, holding hands and kissing while we wait for a ride.However, I'm not so sure the men on this "free" site are all that serious about finding a relationship. So let's boil it down, shall we? No pic, no response. Looking to hook-up, no thanks. Younger men thinking older women are who knows what??? Keep moving. I'm extremely young at heart. I seriously feel like I'm still 22. But I'm looking for a "Man!" Not a boy. It's been my experience that when a man knows what he wants, he also know how to go about getting it with tact!Prefer an outgoing man who knows how to properly communicate with their partner. It's not healthy to ask a person what they want and then get angry when they tell you what they want. It's also not healthy to be neglectful in a relationship. If you want a loving relationship to last, I believe you have to be at a point in your life where you're confident and secure enough in who you are to provide a solid foundation that will encourage a lasting, loving relationship to thrive. I prefer not to date anyone who is just getting a divorce. I'm not interested in a transitional relationship.Don't get me wrong, I have no thoughts of making a man provide for me financially. I am a successful, financially stable young woman all by myself. But a confident man will enhance that and we can grow a stable foundation together. Coffee or a walk along the beach.

  • Pamula

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    As I stare up at the bright sun through my sunglasses, I can feel the warm rays penetrate and illuminate my soul as it brings a smile to my face. The cry of a red tailed hawk echoes off the faint rustling noise of the river in the distance. I approach a fork in the trail and decide to take the less chosen path to see where it leads me. As I continue my hike, cautious excitement builds. I'm startled to see a herd of wild horses grazing about ten feet away. There are about 8 horses, a couple more closer than the others. I slowly set my backpack down and open the middle pocket. I quietly pull out my snack, a ziplock baggie of baby carrots and put a few in my palm. His long mane and tail are blowing with the breeze. He shifts towards me, nostrils flared but lowers his head and trots quickly in my direction. Amazingly, he gently takes a carrot from my outstretched hand. I reach up to touch it's muscular neck. He stands motionless and allows me to pet him as the others start to move toward me. Soon the horses have formed a circle around me, politely standing there and patiently waiting for a carrot of their own. Eventually, the herd begins to break away and move back to their grazing area. "First date" and "first meeting" are two entirely different things....First meeting: Coffee, drink or appetizers and great conversation. If you have a picture showing you doing something active or in a situation that's great but just an fyi guys, most worthwhile ladies are not interested in the bathroom pictures without your shirt on.

  • Patti

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    A little about me.... I'm a single woman who has never married and I have no children, it just never happened and now I fear it's probably to late....but I'm open( the child part). I have a great job in the health field, I'm financially secure and I have a soild retirement plan in the works. I'm very level headed, comfortable with who I am and where I am in my life. Now I just need someone to share it all with. I'm open, honest, and when I'm in a relationship I don't stray...ever! I do have opinions, a plan, and if I don't like something I will work on fixing it! I'm looking for a real man that wants a REAL relationship with a real woman. Things aren't always perfect, communication is key.So you need to be able to talk to me. So we may better understand each other. I like to travel and do things. I'm the type of person that likes to go, Go see new places, try new things, take adventures. I'm always looking for things to do that sound fun. I need someone that likes to do the same. If you are a workaholic and have no time, stop reading now because I'm not your girl! Don't get me wrong I do like to stay home and relax too, maybe work on the house or the yard , I love to garden and you can always find rosebushes in my yard ! But my mono is "I work hard all week, I play harder on the weekends." I like to take at least two vacations a year. One to a sun or international desination. And the other is a outdoor trip, I love to experience nature,look up at the star's and enjoy peace and quite. My goal in life is to make as much money as I can, save as much as I can, retire as early as possible, buy a beachhouse on some coast, see and do as much as possible while I'm on this earth.... Of course laughing and enjoying life is on top of the agenda. I like rock music. Hard rock, classic rock, 80's hair band music, pop rock, pop music, pop/rock country...no rap,gangster stuff or twangy country. I also enjoy wine tasting, going to festivals, dancing, singing to myself, road trips to wherever, Harely's, football (yes I'm a RAIDERS fan) trying new foods/cooking, hiking, anything to do with the water, scary movies and my favorite holiday is Halloween!!! I love to dress up every year as something I'm not!!! I'm pretty adventurous, I'll try anything once. Recently I've been skydiving, bungee jumping, zip lining, parasailing, I would recommend all of these except the bungee jumping, it was great but I think I should of did that one in my twenties, I couldn't move for a week, but I'm glad I did it!! I kinda have a bucket list that I'm trying to fulfill. I think next on the agenda is hang gliding or a zero gravity flight!!! So as you can see I'm up for just about anything. I used to be a flight attendant for a major airline for 15 years, so I LOVE to travel and I want to see the world. It's in my blood!!! I've been pretty much all threw Europe and the United States, but there are so many other places I would love to go. Do you want to come? Well that is about it in a nutshell. There is PLENTY more, but i think thats enough for now.If you've read this far and I sound like someone you'd like to meet please sent me a ***'s see what happens. Thanks for the read and talk to you soon. :-)UPDATE Aug ***: I'm 30 pounds thinner now, than in most of the pictures....on my way to losing 30 more.....FYI ! :-) On the first meet I would probably just want to meet in a mutual place. Share a drink or a cup of coffee, take a walk and just talk, just get to know each other and see if there was any connection. Then if there was, I would hope for a first date and that is when the fun would begin....a concert, road trip to have lunch somewhere, comedy club....the sky's the limit!!! You only live once, so let's take that chance!!!

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