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Karis, 43
United States, South Carolina, Chesterfield

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About Me

Hey there!..About me – I am a happy, independent, outgoing girl with a positive attitude. I am confident, funny, easy going, and take good care of myself. I love spending time around the pool or veggin’ at the beach, but the Fall is my favorite time of year. I enjoy watching pro football/golf, grilling out, and taking advantage of a nice fire in the fireplace. I have 2 kids - I share joint custody of them every other week. No ex drama by the way, we are still friends and he is a good dad. I have only been married once - for 16 years. I like various types of music, usually alternative, dancehall reggae, and popular country. I believe that solid physical AND emotional chemistry is a must, one doesn’t work without the other. About you – I am hoping to find a great guy that wants to start out as friends with the possibility of a monogamous relationship down the road. Looking for an all around good man who also has a great sense of humor and southern boy charm. I would like to find someone that likes to go places and do things but is laid back, not someone that is high strung or has to be constantly on the go. If you enjoy skydiving, extreme sports, consider yourself to be a daredevil, or have the 'need for speed' or constant adventure we would probably not be a good match. A guy that enjoys being near the water, grilling out, or just relaxing with family and friends is more my style. Someone that is a great dad and is actively involved in the lives of his kids and is serious about finding that special person to share his life with. DEAL BREAKERS - I am NOT looking for someone that:- is fresh out of a marriage or long term relationship - has really young kids - is other than white - is unemployed (it has been my experience on this site that 'self employed' = unemployed most of the time, so be honest about your situation)- lives with his parents or other family members due to financial problems I could write a book and make millions on all the hilarious situations and psychos I have run into thru online dating. A few dates I have been on would be worthy of their own chapters! I come to the table free and clear of baggage and am in a good position to be a real partner.- I am not in the rescue business. Whatever we decide is comfortable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Chinese Italian Vietnamese Adult Family & Kids Sci-Fi
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