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Steffanie, 44
United States, South Carolina, Central

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About Me

I SO DO NOT MEAN THIS IN A RUDE WAY...But i am just Not into white men guys...When in a relationship, i believe that one should never ask of ones partner anything she isn't willing to give herself. For ***, I have a strict honesty policy, and I would never put up with being cheated on. But I won't lie to, or cheat on my man if I have one. I feel that I am a bit old fashioned in that I have strong ideas as to how "a woman should be to her man", but remember I expect no less of my man. If two people have these very important things, then happiness can be achieved. Without these things, there Is No Relationship at all.I study Alot, I attend college classes in the evenings. And on occasion I would like to get out on the weekends and decompress. I am a nature nut, but not a tree-hugger. I grew up in the 80's, so I'm sort of an odd girl...but still a Lady.If you want to know more, ask me... I like a first date to be a nice meal, and good conversation. (That means we both talk by the way.) maybe even a long walk along a beach, that's always beautiful. But if we get to a first date, we will have already talked about how it should be by then. But guys listen, "first dates" are to try and find out if we are compatable, not for sex. I Am a Lady after all, and if you treat me like a Lady I will treat you like a Gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Fishing Irish Italian Turkish Adult Adventure Family & Kids Martial Arts Archery
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