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Steffanie, 44

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About Me

I SO DO NOT MEAN THIS IN A RUDE WAY...But i am just Not into white men guys...When in a relationship, i believe that one should never ask of ones partner anything she isn't willing to give herself. For ***, I have a strict honesty policy, and I would never put up with being cheated on. But I won't lie to, or cheat on my man if I have one. I feel that I am a bit old fashioned in that I have strong ideas as to how "a woman should be to her man", but remember I expect no less of my man. If two people have these very important things, then happiness can be achieved. Without these things, there Is No Relationship at all.I study Alot, I attend college classes in the evenings. And on occasion I would like to get out on the weekends and decompress. I am a nature nut, but not a tree-hugger. I grew up in the 80's, so I'm sort of an odd girl...but still a Lady.If you want to know more, ask me... I like a first date to be a nice meal, and good conversation. (That means we both talk by the way.) maybe even a long walk along a beach, that's always beautiful. But if we get to a first date, we will have already talked about how it should be by then. But guys listen, "first dates" are to try and find out if we are compatable, not for sex. I Am a Lady after all, and if you treat me like a Lady I will treat you like a Gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Staci

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a strong independent woman. I work hard and take care of my kids. My kids always come first, of course, but I am a grown woman and I know how to separate my mommy life with my grown up life. I am not one of those girls that want to chat, *** for long periods of time before we meet. I just like to get the first meet over with quickly to see if we even really like each other. You know, rip it off like a band aid.I am not here to play games. I understand that people go through thing in life...relationships... that cause them to have trust issues. It happens to all of us. So, if you'll keep in mind that people aren't perfect...especially those in our past, then I will too.Just remember... breaking a woman is easy to do. Standing up, dusting yourself off and proving that you're still a real man after you've been broken is the hard part. Somewhere public where there are plenty of exits....just in case.

  • Isabela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an extremely easy going, fun-loving, active, thoughtful, multi-talented, independent, and young at heart woman who is looking for companionship , good conversation, and a good time with a man who enjoys life and has a sense of humor. I absolutely LOVE the beach and most anything to do with water. My greatest accomplishment is not having strangled any of my children to date;) I am a firm believer that God helps those who help themselves and life is too short to waste time worrying about things that aren't important. I don't tolerate drama or helplessness except in children. I have 3 kids and my daughter's many friends tell me that I'm the funnest mom they know. I am extremely compassionate and understanding and I take care of just about everyone I know both young and old. Many refer to me as their second mom, however, I am NOT interested in mothering my partner. I like a man who is capable all on his own. Being tall myself, I also prefer tall men so I can wear heels and still look up. Muscles make me week in the knees. I prefer younger men but I'm leaving myself open cause you never know. I value intelligence, integrity and strength in others as well as myself. I am attracted to people that enjoy being around other people and are comfortable in their own skin. I like to give and receive lots of affection and value the art of kissing. I love to travel and be outdoors. I have a lot to offer to the right person and I look forward to new adventures.Pets: I have 3 Cats &; I am just as happy getting dressed up and going out as I am staying at home.Favorite Things: I love being outdoors! I love being creative, whether it is designing an area or object, photography, or cooking ( I'm Italian ). My cooking is excellent, especially my Sunday morning pancakes. My ultimate favorite things are my 3 amazing children!Music: Rock, Alternative, R&B, Pop, Disco, Reggae, Classical, (I don't do Country) Meet somewhere quiet for coffee & conversation to see if there is a connection.

  • Beatris

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a single mom of one terrific daughter. I've been divorced a while now and just recently ended a long-term relationship. I am looking for some fun, flirting, a good time that could maybe turn into something more serious after a while. I am in no rush. I like guys who work for a living, not into people who are super intellectual and not down to earth. I live in the real world and it can be tough, so I like to be around people who understand that. No one hands you anything for free, you've got to work hard, especially to take care of the ones you love, like my girl! I do everything for her, she comes first. I work for a really nice spa and also in the medical field. It's very rewarding helping people relax and feel good. I love to cook, do art projects with my daughter who is a wonderful artist, go to the beach and would love to find a guy who wants to be at home with a nice woman like me who will take really good care of him!*****I should update this on the kind of man I am seeking, sorry I did not mean to lead anyone on, I am not interested in guys much older than me, just in someone around my age, so from late thirties to early forties please. I'm a very practical person and guys in their fifties and sixties are not right for me since we don't have that much in common. I've only ever been with guys my own age. Thank you for understanding.*****I do not date black guys. Just letting you know. You all seem very nice and thanks for messaging me but I am not interested..*****If you message me and just say hi or good morning I will not respond. I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything here but come on guys - at least make a half-hearted effort at being INTERESTING! I want to meet/date and not just chat but seriously I will want to talk to you first a bit before I meet you. That's the whole point of getting to know someone. Also I'm not about to bring just anyone into my world and that of my daughter.Here are a few helpful tips for guys: I don't care to see you in a photo holding a fish, a pet, your child or a dead animal. This doesn't turn me on or make me think you are interesting.I don't care to see you scowling into a camera like its a mug shot. It's just creepy. If you cannot smile then try at least to look happy. Think happy thoughts!Don't put your children in your photos - ever! As a parent you should already know this!Please take off your sunglasses!If you cannot manage to write a paragraph about yourself then I don't hold out much hope that you are going to be interesting to talk to.Don't include pictures where I have no idea who you are and you have to say - I'm the one in the blue shirt. If it isn't important to you to project well in your pics then it tells me you are not terribly interested in finding a person to share your life with.Frat boy pics of you on your boat, drinking with your buddies etc - are embarrassing enough in your twenties but come on men - in your FORTIES?When you write to a woman please speak in complete sentences. Don't just say HEY - hey what? Hey am I going to fall over my feet to write back to you? Uh, NO.I don't care about your bank account, your stocks, your assets etc. But please, you have to have a job - that is non-negotiable. If I would not like you as a friend I will not fall in love with you. Plain and simple. This should be something we decide together.

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