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Genista, 44

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About Me

I don't date outside my race not interested in dating any one under 40, especially someone old enough to be my child. I like country music & rock roll music. I am a good listener, I don't like to see friends or family taken advantage of. I am honest,loyal, trustworthy, loving, caring, kind. I would like to find a man with the same qualities. I like to read, watch movies, cuddle,going to the beach,traveling, swimming and bowling, go for walks, love cooking & give great massages. I have one weakness -a man in uniform. I guess I am looking for someone that will care about me as much as I care about them.I know everyone has been hurt. I know what it feels like to give your heart to someone believing they feel the same just to have it crushed. I would never do that if it isn't working I would tell u. I guess grab a bite to eat so we could talk and get to know each other better. maybe go for walk or the park some place quite.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Cordia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there! Well this is my second attempt at meeting someone on meetville. I really didn't give it much of a chance before, so let's try this again. Reason why I was disappointed the first time was many contacted me out of range of my residence and also incomplete profiles, unthoughtful, insincere interest in forming a relationship even if it's dating, and also, "shirtless" pics and sunglasses. I guess I do have peeves, but I can't form any type of connection if there is nothing to go by and my profession isn't as a judge at a body building contest, so please.. no profiles with shirtless wonders. It creeps me out, unless you are at the beach or in a boat, or are a body builder. :) Fellas... seriously I will tell you what is wrong with your profiles and why you aren't meeting quality women, lol. STOP with that whole, "don't want no drama, or bs" thing. EVERYONE has a past! If you put up pictures of yourself hanging out in your bathroom shirtless, YOU WILL get *** idiots, just not this knucklehead. Think about it! I don't reply to "what's up, hi sexy, yo, hi cutie", etc. I won't respond to a guy with a his wife or girlfriend in his images, or any other gal for that matter. It's weird! I'm finally getting a divorce after being seperated for two years (Navy). It's very amicable, and after 23 years of total marriage, it's time I got my feet wet in the dating pool. I'm not much of a dater, because it seems like trying to meet someone is a job, and getting to know someone is an interview process. I'm a pretty monogamous person, so not into the whole "poly thing", "hanging out", "hooking up", "serial dating", or ";. Hopefully I touched on all the weirdos. Oh and I just learned about this whole "CATFISH" thing.. my kiddo told me about it. No noodlers, lol. Unless you really do "noddle" and then I'd be impressed! A little about me: I am 41, (thanks for all those complimentary *** say I don't look it, whoot!) and have a 16 year old son who lives with me. My hobbies: Surfing and being near the water. Nothing like being out there in nature, to realize so much that does and doesn't matter in life. Still it would be nice to pick up the phone and reach out to someone and share my days burdens and delights. Most weekends, if I'm not surfing, are spent cutting the grass, weeding, washing my car, doing domestic chores, and preparing for the week ahead, so it's important to me that when I have the time, it's spent with a quality person who can bring joy in my life. I am pretty independant. Have your own sense of self! ***that means have a job, your own set of friends, etc. Not looking to change anyone or have them change me. Let's find some happy together!My personality is pretty laid back (surfer) and flighty (oh, look a squirrel) at times. I'm a Gemini, lol. I can argue or debate two sides to just about everything which makes me indecisive at times about making a stance on a situation; however, on the good side.. I'm completely not judgmental, racist, or ultra conservative. I'm never sarcastic, more on the goofy side. I don't mind making fun of the mistakes I've made or the silly things I do. I hardly ever travel without my boards, "Nana" and "Moe". Never know how the weather is going to be, and I check the surf report religiously, lol. I m also NOT the usual "girlie" type. If you're looking for someone who shops, or gets their hair done and nails done every week, bypass me, lol. I like to relax and just be the authentic self that I am. I also lost my best furry friend about two months ago after ten years, so after about five days of boo hooing, and telling the World that "I'll never get another one", I so did. New addition in my home is another hound mix, Hank! He's a real nucklehead. He rescued me after I rescued him! NOT the typical dinner and movies! How about let's go grab some doughnuts or ice cream and say hello? Do you have a dog? Let's meet at the park and go for a walk. How about meet up at the pier and watch the fishermen and just sit and enjoy the view over conversation? Be creative! We can even go dutch! :) If we meet at the pier, I'll spot you a dollar, ;o)Way to much pressure is put on a first date and that makes me uncomfortable. Plus I can't eat in front of someone if all I'm doing is chattering, lol. If things were to progress to a second date, a nice little outside seafood joint over looking the water, or how about someone pull out the grill and let's sit around with a few cold ones? Show me the places in Jax that you enjoy! Invite me over to play cards with the boys... (be sure to front my stack though, lol). Let's drive to St. Augustine and find a new spot outside of Jax to get our grub on. :) How about a boat ride (if you have a boat)? Let's' watch the Gators play this fall.. where? ANYWHERE! Let's go to the museum and jab about how interesting it is, get our "learn" on. Let's go test a vehicle that neither of us are going to purchase (okay seriously I'd call shot gun). Let's go listen to a live band and have a few (and I mean few... ) drinks. Let's go on a picnic...let's go looking for sharks teeth, or sea glass.. the point is.. to GOOOO! Anything can be a nice little encounter! Okay so I've given you enough ideas.

  • Shantae

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    1. Boating, gardening and watching new life grow.2. I plan to grow with my business and live a happy life.3. Trust me I'm very unique but in a good way, I am not a needy woman, I am very independent. I am caring, loving and giving.4. I love just about all types of music. The first date, I would like casual but public. An extra bonus would be a nice stroll on the beach.

  • Kera

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Love, like ripe fruit, is only as sweet as long as you hold it in your hand. Dearly, and clearly. And there are times when you reach for what you think is delectable, and after taking a bite, realize it just doesn't give you that satisfactory taste for which you were hoping. Then there are others, which might even be a bit bruised; yet shiningly, despite all pretense, surprise you. And still, there are those that look seemingly perfect, and yet, are completely devoid of taste. Lastly, others which as soon as you get them in your mouth--you know you need to spit them out. Like I said, the peaches of my tree might seem heavenly; but it is the tree, despite its mighty roots, that is nowhere near your supermarket. However, all I can attest for certain, is that--I'm fruit. And sweet in the sincerest of meanings.I like to think of me as bright, higher learned, addicted to cause? and trying to change part of the world in one particular vein, enjoying the classics and poetry, creative, sincere, artistic, and definitely living with hope for what tomorrow might bring; and learning from what today brought. And trying to savor what's in between.As for me: I am short, round--as in spherical--emotionally strong and independent (probably to my own determent), tactile, honest, loyal in every sense of the word (personally speaking), warm, and try to remind myself that humility is reached through practice.May your smile continue, if only, as a piece of life's fruit salad.I am a sucker for a guy who wears glasses, and prefer SWM only. On a first date.. I think coffee and a stroll in the park is nice. You get to relax, and get to know some one without a lot of pressure... and hopefully, laugh! I really think good banter is essential! as well as a warm greeting. :)

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