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Arely, 42

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UPDATE AS OF OCTOBER 18th:So I've tried and tried to find a Real Good man that I could get close to and perhaps build a future with, but I've become jaded by all the guys who claim they're the good and decent ones and turn out to be liars and players. Tired of being told "can't text ya tonight cause I'm hanging out with my kid" only to find the guy who claims to be interested, on here "fishing" half the night...really, I don't get it...if you aren't interested, why play games and lead people on, it's just so shitty! So for now, I'm gonna take some time off here:...maybe with ***I'll have a renewed positive outlook on meeting decent men....come ***, I'll be gone.... Leaving this up for a couple days so that the few good friends I have made know where I've gone and why. I wish all of you looking for something good and real, good luck in finding your someone special. Just not in the state of mind to play people's games anymore...***************************************************** So wow, not sure where to start here...first of all, thanks for taking a moment to read my profile and learn more about me....I'll start by saying don't let my age fool ya, I just turned 42 but I can honestly say I feel 25! I have the energy and zest for life that I had in my mid twenties! Looking for an active man who isn't a couch potato, but someone who likes being active, outdoors and adventure/fun!I enjoy sooooo many different things, where to start?! Love boating, amusement parks, haunted houses and pumpkin patches, gardening, dancing, singing karaoke, playing pool, throwing darts, bowling, camping (in a tent, not a cabin!), hiking, traveling (prefer beaches and warm destinations!), home improvement projects, tailgating, Reds games, Football games (go Packers!All that being said, I also enjoy a cold winters night or a chilly rainy evening at home in front of a fire, snuggling with someone special (just gotta find him!)....I'm very affectionate and look for the same in a mate...So enough about me already! I'm searching for an attractive man, who has his life together....don't care what you do or how much money you make, so long as you support yourself and your family. Speaking of family, while I was not blessed with children, I always wanted them, adore them and welcome yours into my life and any potential relationship. I totally understand that your time with your children is precious and that they will always come first and that we will have our time together....Love animals, especially dogs and look for the same in a mate. You should be family oriented and down to earth with a killer sense of humor (I LOVE to laugh and joke around!), have a traditional side but also enjoy going out and having crazy fun from time to time!..I'm looking for more, no sense wasting your time and effort in sending a message, I'm not interested in being another number to someone or another notch in someone's bedpost....not sure it matters all that much what we do, if I'm in the company of an amazing man...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wanda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where to begin...First of all, I am perfectly imperfect. I have many flaws, and I'm not too proud to admit it. I smoke cigarettes, I drink occasionally, if you make me mad, I can curse like sailor, I have a twisted sense of humor at times and I laugh at things that most people would cringe at. I am very honest, and while some of you wouldn't see that as a flaw, I do. I forget to be tactful at times and that brutal honesty can be hurtful. I am not a gorgeous beauty queen, nor am I super model skinny. I am who I am. I am a BBW. BBW doesn't stand for big ****y woman, and it doesn't refer to food in any way. (Yes, I've heard a lot of definitions for that abbreviation) I am a big beautiful woman. If that isn't your type of woman, I respect that. Please don't take time out of your busy day to give me your opinion on that if you're going to be less than nice about it. If you do think it's necessary to give me your opinion, please don't be offended when I give you mine back. :) The point I'm trying to make here is that there is no such thing as perfection. I'm not searching for the perfect mate, because he doesn't exist. What I'm searching for is someone who can love me with the same passion and intensity that I love with, and someone who cares enough to understand my heart. "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul".~;Some say that our lives are defined by the sum of our choices, but it isn't really our choices that distinguish who we are . It's our commitment to them." ~Unknown Simplicity can make the first date the most memorable. A quiet dinner with fabulous conversation followed by a walk under the stars or sitting by a fire just living in the moment.

  • Twanda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Looking to meet someone who is not afraid to keep things real. someone ready for a relationship and someone who has time for a relationship(if u dont y r u on here). im tired of being used as a door mat and tired of playing games. I have meet some great people off here and some real JERKS. I am a single parent of a 13 year old daughter. I have a stable life a decent job, a decent car I am a very independent person, reliable, honest, trusting, and a great friend. Im not a material girl and dont need fancy things to make me happy. Im very shy until i get to know someone so i would like someone who is not SHY at all. two shy people dont go well together lol I'm not much of a tv/movie type girl i would take music over tv anyday listen to most types of music but first choice is country and i would say classic rock would run second. Hope to hear from u soon and good luck to all :) IM A FIRM BELIEVER IN TREATING PEOPLE THE WAY U WANT TREATED......ALWAYS BE RESPECTFUL

  • Siobhan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Single mom looking for relationship. My kids are teenagers and not home very often or wanting to do things with mom all the time. I do work full time but have a lot of free time in the evenings and on weekends. Not looking for anyone that has a wife, girlfriend, significant other or is already dating someone. Looking for friends first and see where it can go.!! Life is short, lets have some fun. Something we both agree on.

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