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Shayla, 45

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 22:44:16

About Me

I am a brat, a very strong willed independent woman that is tired of weak men. I can take care of myself but honestly would love to give over the control to a man that can handle a strong willed woman. Do not contact me if you think this is a one night stand or if you cannot handle honest criticism. I am so tired of the weak men who say what a woman wants to hear. I need a companion that can control me without me knowing I am being controlled, I am always in control. And if you do not have money to take me out without worrying how much the dinner will be then don't bother contacting me. I am tired of taking up slack, yes I am the age I am, but I AM NOT a SUGAR MOMMA, nor do a want a SUGA DADDY, but I do want and deserve to be taking care of, that's what I want I want to be taking care of I have paid my dues to whatever is right and wrong, I want to be taken care of. Enough said. Prove it

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathryn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have found that in this point of my life simple is good. It's as simple as laughter, fun times and good company. I say what I mean and I mean what I say.I believe in being positive and focusing on the good things in life. I can find the happiest of times are the moments we share with our loved ones. Laughter is one of my favorite sounds. We often get so busy with work and everyday routines but I think it is so important to find a moment in the day to have some laughter. Life needs to be simple, the best things in life are the simple pleasures and moments. I am an old fashioned romantic and think it's all about letting your partner know just how special they are, every day. There is always time for a simple gesture. I wear my heart on my sleeve and wouldnt change it for a second. I don't believe that the romance is just for the beginners, you need to keep it alive throughout the relationship. So your first date should be just as special if not more special than your last. So that is what you can expect from me.I love music, dancing and love new adventures. My goal in life is a very simple one, to remain happy and ensure my kids have the best life when it comes to memories and happiness. My hobby aside from time with my kids would have to be photography. My music preference is basically anything I can dance to but I must confess my favorites are the oldies. My dad always blasted music when I was growing up and those are the songs that still stir up the happy memories and *** when I hear them. I may be getting to the point of babble so I will end it here, the rest you can hear in person if you choose to do so ...I leave you with this one last thought *** Nobody wants to get hurt, but sometimes you have to figure out if the reward is worth the risk, it's just that simple. *** Lunch date works, short enough to get the idea if a second will follow.. or maybe just some drinks and apps to get to know one another...but please don't ask me what to do for the date ~ I would rather sit back and enjoy the first date. Everybody has baggage, it's how well your bags are packed. I prefer a man with a well packed bag :) It's all about moving forward, afterall isn't that really why we are all on this site? Happy fishing, now bait that pole and let's get to business. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile

  • Gweneth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! I am pretty outgoing and love to have a good time. I am a busy, independent woman who still likes to feel feminine and special. No matter what happens during your day, you can always count on me for a laugh or at least a smile. At the same time, I love someone who can make me laugh, yet be serious and supportive when needed. I enjoy trying new things, venturing out to new places and meeting new people. I have a sarcastic side...slow thinking people often have trouble keeping up with me, or figuring out if I am being serious or not :)I wear scrubs to work everyday, so I love to get dressed up for an evening out. But I don't mind getting a quick 15 min to throw on a pair of jeans and head our for a beer. I'm pretty easy going.I enjoy weekend get always, live music and art festivals. I love to cook and think I am very good at it. If I cook for ya, you'll know I like you! Send me a message if you'd like to know more. Dinner, Live music somewhere, a winery. I'm open to ideas!

  • Hui

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Happy to say that, after spending some time living the single life, I know exactly who I am and what I want. God comes first in my life. I am far from perfect, but strive everyday to follow His will and put my own aside. I am hard-working, dependable and, most importantly, happy.I am a bit of a homebody. I like to do things around the house. I especially like summer when I can work in the yard. I am not much of a winter person. I don't like to be cold. Love to sit by a fire in the backyard at night. I wasn't able to have a garden this past summer so I am really looking forward to it for next year. I like to read, cook, love movies and am very involved in my church.I do enjoy going out occasionally. I love theater, going to the movies and going to see a live band.

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