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Ha, 45

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About Me

Oh sure, it saves some of my changes but not all of them. What's really frustrating is I liked what I wrote, which is kinda new for me. I usually have such a difficult time figuring out what I want to say.Both of my children are on their way to being grown, as of this year they are both in college. I'm so excited for them and enjoy watching them become adults. It's also put me in a position to learn about myself. What do I want in this next stage of my life. I've learned that I enjoy living alone, I like the feeling of coming home to an empty house. I've also learned I'm not the girl next door. I enjoy hanging out at home alone or with friends playing games (spades, dominos, etc.) or going out for a night of adventure. This is one of those things I didn't think to put in my about me section but several men have been offended by my response to there messages. My dating preference is black men, I've dated others (even married others), its an attraction thing its not personal. Not everyone is attracted to larger white women, I don't take offense at that so please don't be offended by my preference. To all those who visit my profile, I wish you luck in your search. Something that would allow conversation, to get to know the person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lena

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am funny, very relaxed and easygoing, very outgoing I get along with everybody ......and very thoughtful. I love live music,LOUD all kinds not as far as dancing so much, but just hanging out and enjoying it (except country, unless it's live and that's iffy) I am a rock star at heart. My playlist includes everything from Halestorm & Cooking is not my most favorite thing. I enjoy reading, running and working out. I like to keep my mind and body healthy and appreciate a man that does the same.I'm an eternal optimist and definitely don't get how people get so caught up with the drama. I think shopping is a waste of time energy and money.Currently I work a full time job, a part time job and finishing up an AA degree. I I detest lazy and there's no such thing is being bored. I have five amazing children. Four are mine biologically, my oldest son I did not have physically but I've earned my parental stripes from him for sure. Ps... plss don't msg me if u own a flat bill hat or one of your profile pictures is of you holding a fish ( and maybe a turkey the jury's still out on that one) or if you are old enough to be my son.Anddddd I am definitely not looking for a hookup. I appreciate a gentleman:) i definitely don't need a man but it would be nice to share like interests with one:) its whatever... I'm usually perfectly content anywhere..:)

  • Abbi

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    It may seem odd for a women in her 40's to have never been married. But I don't view marriage as a necessity, but rather as a possibility if I were to meet someone I thought I couldn't live without. I am not looking to make marriage a priority. I am content with my current life as it is, but would like to meet a man that is interested in dating and companionship. Someone to go do activities with like dinner, movies, walking, hiking, traveling, or just staying home hanging out on occasion. I have a wonderful family and a handful of close friends that I enjoy spending time with. However, it would be nice also to have a steady man to do things with as well. I am the girl next door type, laid back and low maintenance. I don't require many material things in my life to feel satisfied. I think it is more important in life to spend time with quality people who are secure within themselves and don't feel the need to be disingenuous. I am not trying to change anyone and ask that they accept me for who I am too. I just want to have a partner who wants to relax and enjoy life as much as we can.

  • Deb

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi. I am a single, 42 year old mom of a fantastic 5 year old daughter who is the center of my world and my first priority always. She is with me ***so I have very little time to socialize but am more than ready to meet the man of my dreams and start a life together. So what is the man of my dreams...OK here we go. He is attractive although he doesn't have to be handsome. He is hard working and financially stable and appreciates the same about me. He has a great sense of humor and loves to laugh at both himself and me as well as the little pleasures of life. He knows how to treat a lady and value her worth as well as knows how to be taken care of and accept some pampering himself. I want to meet someone who grows into the kind of relationship where he puts us before himself always, where I have the comfort of knowing I am protected at all times both physically and emotionally and I know he's got by back 100% at all times no matter what. I am successful and pride myself in being self sufficient but would love a little support from the right man. I have a large family which I love spending time with and my beautiful daughter who is my heart. I am not looking for relocating to accomodate someone else or a long distance romance. I am looking for someone who is within a reasonable driving distance to me. I enjoy spending time at home, going for walks or rides on a sunny day, shooting a good (or trying) game of pool, lounging by the pool or beach and playing softball. I like to laugh and find humor and enjoyment in the littlest things. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy being playful and sarcastic. I am not into traveling and will not click with someone who wants to jet set. I have a lot to offer the right man and guarantee you would be well taken of. I believe in treating others the way I want to be treated and am hoping to find a happy and mutually satifying long term relationship with someone who not only respects me but also understands that my daughter is a big part of the package and respects and adores her as well. I am not looking for a Dad for my daughter- she already has one, but an active partner who does not feel burdened by her. I am fun loving, romantic, passionate and super caring. I love to cuddle, hold hands and do special little things for my partner. I am ready to find my soul mate and journey into the rest of my life with that person by my side. If you like what you've read I hope to hear from you. Best of luck to us all! maybe a quick stop by a diner or coffee shop or a meeting at a park for some conversation and se if we click.

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