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Abbi, 43

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About Me

It may seem odd for a women in her 40's to have never been married. But I don't view marriage as a necessity, but rather as a possibility if I were to meet someone I thought I couldn't live without. I am not looking to make marriage a priority. I am content with my current life as it is, but would like to meet a man that is interested in dating and companionship. Someone to go do activities with like dinner, movies, walking, hiking, traveling, or just staying home hanging out on occasion. I have a wonderful family and a handful of close friends that I enjoy spending time with. However, it would be nice also to have a steady man to do things with as well. I am the girl next door type, laid back and low maintenance. I don't require many material things in my life to feel satisfied. I think it is more important in life to spend time with quality people who are secure within themselves and don't feel the need to be disingenuous. I am not trying to change anyone and ask that they accept me for who I am too. I just want to have a partner who wants to relax and enjoy life as much as we can.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm the girl next door and would probably remind you of your best friend's little sister. I am looking for someone nice, honest, kind and reliable to hang out with. I am NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits.Wow, how to describe myself... I am a woman after all, we change from one second to the next! Come on, you know you are agreeing with me right now. ;)Well, here goes... I'm kind, honest, faithful and loyal. I'm pretty (so I have been told) but not girly, I like the simple life and money doesn't mean much to me. I am much more impressed with a man's personality than his bank account. I live in the country by choice. I don't like mean, snobby, cruel people and I have no time for men who are liars or cheats. I like real men- the kind they used to make. I can be stubborn. I almost guarantee I will cry at a sad movie, song or one of those darn Hallmark commercials. I like to camp, fish, canoe, go to movies, the theatre, sit around a bonfire, go boating, go to an auction, I love photography, road trips or just a lazy drive on a gravel road with the radio on! I am up for about anything, but I am not the daredevil type. There are so many more things I could list- but let's just go with I am multifaceted. I'm easy going and easy to please, BUT if you screw up and do something INCREDIBLY stupid- I will let you know what I think about it. I may be quiet, but I am no wallflower. I am relatively low maintenance- I drive a truck (which is usually dirty) and prefer jeans and a tshirt to a dress and heels. You will find me dressed up though, I do know how. I have a job and don't need someone to support me, I'm not a freeloader (I am also not looking for someone that wants to spend MY money for me). That was not a slap in the face, I am about as far from being a woman's libber as you can get. I have old fashioned values and stick to them and I am just a bit tired of getting used. And I can handle a little harmless jealousy, but if you plan on going crazy with it or controlling me- you might want to send a message to someone else ***, I don't handle being pushed real well.All of this sounds so blunt, like I'm trying to sell a used car. My profile isn't glamorous- there are no lies. I am not going to try to be someone else just to impress you- this is who I am and I am pretty ok with that.So, here I am! TaDa! I don't know what you are looking for, but I guarantee you would like me as a friend. Shoot me a message and we can talk, go fishing, hit a movie, grab some ice cream... maybe hang out. I am looking for someone NICE- someone that I can be friends with, but someone with some spark and passion that is fun to be around. Am I picky? ABSOLUTELY. Oh, and contrary to what my profile may make you think... I am not crazy... or am I?? ;0) Come on... a lame attempt at some humor in an uncomfortable situation here.*Since most of the responses I get make mention of how I look, I wanted to clear things up.- this may not be the norm for me. I would rather have someone say 'You look SO much better than your picture, than the opposite of... you looked MUCH better in your photos." So, I am adding a new profile pic- assume this how I usually look (it may be closer to the truth) and then there will be no surprises or disappointment. As you can see, I wasn't joking about loving the greasy pizza... Not trying to be rude here, but sending me a message calling me sweetie, baby, honey, sexy, etc is just weird. You don't even know me and I am not the kind of woman that falls for it. And no, I am not a fan of motorcycles- sorry.

  • Otha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am afraid this is not working, prove me wrong. I am finaly ready to stop being something for others and be myself. I enjoy being an upbeat person. Life is way to stressful to play any such head games. I am always trying to make the changes or improve my life. Have you ever just felt like there was something more for you out there. I am a nice looking lady who is independent and not dependent. I have relocated here about 8 years ago. I enjoy cooking and trying new foods. I want to meet someone that is open to new things. Wants to maybe be more than just playthings. I like going to see live bands, watching football on tv, have a nice meal with a glass of wine, go see a musical play, or a really good movie. I like to be outside and stay active. That is one reason I moved here is because of the weather I can be outside more.I am a hard working single mother of two children I am very proud of them, they mean the world to me. I want the person that would like to get to know me to know that first. I want a realationship to be ***, but would also like the man to treat me like woman. I would like to see that opening doors for a lady has not stopped. I would also like to know that what I have to say is important, you may not agree but you are able to listen and I will listen to you. Well now that I have gone on and on. Your turn I would like to meet for a nice meal and a glass of wine at a quite place to talk and get to know one another

  • Toya

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I also have taken a big interest in biking and hiking over the past couple years, I find them much more enjoyable forms of exercise than a class inside and like to find new trails to keep it interesting. I am somewhat shy until I get to know someone, I'm not into "speed dating", I like to take the time to get to know you and hope you would want to do the same. I am a Mom of two teenagers, I love most all animals and currently have 2 pets, so if you're an animal person that is very good. I like all kinds of music depending on my mood (except rap) and enjoy going to concerts. I am the type of woman that likes to take good care of myself but am by no means high maintenance. I can get dressed up to go out or put my hair up in a pony tail and do something that would most likely break a nail or get dirty & it wouldn't ruin my day. I was married once, divorced in early ***after being married 2 decades! I hid my profile off here for awhile a couple times, now trying it again, don't want to give up to find that connection that is right for me!I'm looking for someone near my age and location to begin conversations with to get to know each other to see if we have common interests and attractions to each other. I'm probably considered the old fashioned hopeless romantic type. I will be honest and expect the same in return...I love a gentleman who respects a woman, this is very important and also has a true interest in getting to know me. If you hate tattoos, you may not want to meet me....I have one on my wrist with special meaning. A good 1st date on a weekday would probably be meeting for a walk on a nice day if you're near downtown, lunch or an after work drink or dinner to be able to chat and get to know each other. Playing pool or bowling can be fun also. Hopefully we will have chatted enough with each other to get an idea of what would work best for the two of us.

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