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Herma, 44

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for taking a look.What am I looking for? Hmmm......Well, first off I'd like to meet a family man. That doesn't mean that you must have children of your own, but you must be the type of man who is close with his family, momma's boys are good - if you treat your momma well - you will treat your lady well. Family is very important to me. Next, I'd like to find a man who knows how to be a gentleman - you know - open car doors, let the lady walk first, etc. But most importantly, I am looking for a friend to spend time with - someone who is willing to make me some sort of a priority in his life. Having said that, I need to also say that I'm not looking for a serious relationship immediately. I'm not in a big rush for love, I believe a solid relationship is built on a solid friendship. I want to date and let everything else just happen naturally. But do know this - I am a 1 man kind of woman, no matter what stage the relationship is in. And to be 100% honest, I would expect the same from you. I'm not on this site looking for a quick hook-up or to play games.OK, the hard part, who am I? Most importantly to me I'm a mom to a 19 year old son whom I am very proud of. I'm the youngest of 6 children and I'm a farmer's daughter, I had a very simple life growing up and I prefer to keep it that way as much as possible in today's complex world. I work full time and I'm a returning student putting myself back through school....again! You're never too old to learn, but at 44 it takes a bit more to get it done. LOL! In my free time I walk a lot and I just started running (I'm not sure about this running thing yet though). I shoot pool, when I can, and I used to ride motorcycle and still do when I get the chance. I'm adventurous in that I like to try new things - I went ziplining for Mother's Day and loved it. The kid in me loves great big roller coaters, the bigger the better.) My weekdays are filled with work and simple life and class/studying when in session, and my weekends are reserved for family and friends. I enjoy going out and being social, but I also love a great night in and just relaxing. Oh yeah - I love to laugh, I'm quick witted, and I can be a bit of a *** too.That gives you a little idea of what I'm looking for and who I am. So if you want to learn more - drop me message.Oh, and fair is fair, my rule is: no picture - no communication, you see my eyes - I want to see yours. Eyes tell a lot! ; ) I'm game - lets see how adventurous you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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