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Herma, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Red Lion

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Hi! Thanks for taking a look.What am I looking for? Hmmm......Well, first off I'd like to meet a family man. That doesn't mean that you must have children of your own, but you must be the type of man who is close with his family, momma's boys are good - if you treat your momma well - you will treat your lady well. Family is very important to me. Next, I'd like to find a man who knows how to be a gentleman - you know - open car doors, let the lady walk first, etc. But most importantly, I am looking for a friend to spend time with - someone who is willing to make me some sort of a priority in his life. Having said that, I need to also say that I'm not looking for a serious relationship immediately. I'm not in a big rush for love, I believe a solid relationship is built on a solid friendship. I want to date and let everything else just happen naturally. But do know this - I am a 1 man kind of woman, no matter what stage the relationship is in. And to be 100% honest, I would expect the same from you. I'm not on this site looking for a quick hook-up or to play games.OK, the hard part, who am I? Most importantly to me I'm a mom to a 19 year old son whom I am very proud of. I'm the youngest of 6 children and I'm a farmer's daughter, I had a very simple life growing up and I prefer to keep it that way as much as possible in today's complex world. I work full time and I'm a returning student putting myself back through school....again! You're never too old to learn, but at 44 it takes a bit more to get it done. LOL! In my free time I walk a lot and I just started running (I'm not sure about this running thing yet though). I shoot pool, when I can, and I used to ride motorcycle and still do when I get the chance. I'm adventurous in that I like to try new things - I went ziplining for Mother's Day and loved it. The kid in me loves great big roller coaters, the bigger the better.) My weekdays are filled with work and simple life and class/studying when in session, and my weekends are reserved for family and friends. I enjoy going out and being social, but I also love a great night in and just relaxing. Oh yeah - I love to laugh, I'm quick witted, and I can be a bit of a *** too.That gives you a little idea of what I'm looking for and who I am. So if you want to learn more - drop me message.Oh, and fair is fair, my rule is: no picture - no communication, you see my eyes - I want to see yours. Eyes tell a lot! ; ) I'm game - lets see how adventurous you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am 5'3 and petite. I love country music, 70"s & I love having fun at my sons football game or going to Toys R Us an being silly. l enjoy the time I have and make it special! Family is very important to me! I have a huge heart and hoping to find someone I can share it with. I am wanting to find a best friend that we can turn it into a lasting long relationship. The smallest things most people take for granted make me happy. I love getting dirty in the mud and and I love jeans, tshirt and baseball cap days. I am a bit of a tomboy but I am def a woman and can clean up well.! I am the type of woman that is blunt and honest. I firmly believe that actions speak louder than words!! I will admit that I am somewhat more careful than others on here due to friends and family in law enforcement that have told me some stories. If that worries you then I wish you much luck on here and buhbye.. =) If you want to know more just ask. =)P.s. I do have a tattoo on my back. If you don't like tattoos then happy fishing!.Oh and I am not attracted to black men. i am not sorry because it is not a preference and we all have them. I think the first "real" date is something that both would agree on upon a first meet up face to face.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm the girl next door and would probably remind you of your best friend's little sister. I am looking for someone nice, honest, kind and reliable to hang out with. I am NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits.Wow, how to describe myself... I am a woman after all, we change from one second to the next! Come on, you know you are agreeing with me right now. ;)Well, here goes... I'm kind, honest, faithful and loyal. I'm pretty (so I have been told) but not girly, I like the simple life and money doesn't mean much to me. I am much more impressed with a man's personality than his bank account. I live in the country by choice. I don't like mean, snobby, cruel people and I have no time for men who are liars or cheats. I like real men- the kind they used to make. I can be stubborn. I almost guarantee I will cry at a sad movie, song or one of those darn Hallmark commercials. I like to camp, fish, canoe, go to movies, the theatre, sit around a bonfire, go boating, go to an auction, I love photography, road trips or just a lazy drive on a gravel road with the radio on! I am up for about anything, but I am not the daredevil type. There are so many more things I could list- but let's just go with I am multifaceted. I'm easy going and easy to please, BUT if you screw up and do something INCREDIBLY stupid- I will let you know what I think about it. I may be quiet, but I am no wallflower. I am relatively low maintenance- I drive a truck (which is usually dirty) and prefer jeans and a tshirt to a dress and heels. You will find me dressed up though, I do know how. I have a job and don't need someone to support me, I'm not a freeloader (I am also not looking for someone that wants to spend MY money for me). That was not a slap in the face, I am about as far from being a woman's libber as you can get. I have old fashioned values and stick to them and I am just a bit tired of getting used. And I can handle a little harmless jealousy, but if you plan on going crazy with it or controlling me- you might want to send a message to someone else ***, I don't handle being pushed real well.All of this sounds so blunt, like I'm trying to sell a used car. My profile isn't glamorous- there are no lies. I am not going to try to be someone else just to impress you- this is who I am and I am pretty ok with that.So, here I am! TaDa! I don't know what you are looking for, but I guarantee you would like me as a friend. Shoot me a message and we can talk, go fishing, hit a movie, grab some ice cream... maybe hang out. I am looking for someone NICE- someone that I can be friends with, but someone with some spark and passion that is fun to be around. Am I picky? ABSOLUTELY. Oh, and contrary to what my profile may make you think... I am not crazy... or am I?? ;0) Come on... a lame attempt at some humor in an uncomfortable situation here.*Since most of the responses I get make mention of how I look, I wanted to clear things up.- this may not be the norm for me. I would rather have someone say 'You look SO much better than your picture, than the opposite of... you looked MUCH better in your photos." So, I am adding a new profile pic- assume this how I usually look (it may be closer to the truth) and then there will be no surprises or disappointment. As you can see, I wasn't joking about loving the greasy pizza... Not trying to be rude here, but sending me a message calling me sweetie, baby, honey, sexy, etc is just weird. You don't even know me and I am not the kind of woman that falls for it. And no, I am not a fan of motorcycles- sorry.

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  • Abbi from Red Lion | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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