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Jenessa, 44

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About Me

I'm not looking for someone who makes hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sure, that would be great, but really, it's not me, it's not what I'm used to. I believe that if you want something, you have to work for it. I'm NOT the stay at home type. I need to work, I need to feel that I am contributing to the relationship. If you don't make as much as your spouse, that's OK. There are other ways to give to a relationship...love, caring, sharing, honesty, support. Things like that. I don't want to be your whole world, just part of it. And please don't keep me a secret from your family and friends. I just want to love and be loved. To share every day life with someone special. I'd like another child, but it's not deal breaker. you should know that I plan on becoming a foster parent within the next two years. Trust is extremely important, please don't lie to me, and I won't lie to you. I really am looking for something long term, even marriage. I feel that I'm too old for "Hook ups"...besides, that's just not something I would do anyway. If I'm not the lady for you, then I wish you luck in your search:-) It could be anything from dinner at a nice restuarant, to mini golf and go karts, to hot dogs on the beach at sunset...pretty much anything, as long as we're having a good time. I can't stress this enough...NO HOOK UPS PLEASE!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Madelaine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    So I ask myself if I really want to venture into the world of online dating again. Truth be told I’m not sure I do…(She reactivates her account anyway…) **The pics are actually accurate, just in case you wondered, since we all know some folks fib about age and some people put head shots of actors or pics from 10 yrs and 200lbs ago. :) So this time around I hope to see something (someone) a little more original. It’s gotten that the behavior of men I encounter be it online or the real world is predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure we girls have been just as bad but I am not into girls, so I am not concerned about that.;)I have worked hard to keep sane in the face of some of the ridiculousness this world has to throw at us. I don’t like victims. sh*t happens, happens to everyone, deal with it. I am really not a serious person although I think I just came off as one… Ok lighten it up a little.:)I love life, mine is pretty damn good. It might not seem much to some but I don’t need much to be happy. I’m not here because I’m lonely, I like to socialize, real life is better but I don’t have the freedom to go out anytime I want, and besides sometimes I just like to hang at home and cook and relax with my friends, pets and my daughter. I like to travel but who on this says they don’t?! I like camping, I like luxury, I like food and wine and a good conversation. I don’t want to get into a sales pitch about myself so I will leave it there. Afterthought... please don't take it so seriously if I don't reply. I often have no time when I'm checking, or it just might simply be, I don't think you're my type, and no it's not simply based on your picture. :-)

  • Latia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Who am I? That's tough to put into words, but I'll give it a shot. I'm a glass half full, fun-loving, easygoing woman with a giving heart. To a fault, sometimes. I'm 42, and I'm secure in who I am and what I've accomplished in my life and I'm excited about the future. My daughter is almost 9 and my greatest gift. Her well-being is my number one priority.I love to smile and laugh. If you can hold an intelligent conversation and actually look me in the eye when we talk, that is a huge bonus. I want not only a physical attraction with someone, but I need intellectual stimulation as well. I enjoy music (everything from country, classic rock, and rock to hip hop, pop and some rap). Other things I like to do regularly: reading, dancing, going to high school football games, concerts, movies, going out to eat, cookouts, walking/running at Lake Hefner. Anything outdoors is ideal, especially during the Fall...my favorite season. I also have a pool table, which is fun. Adventure and travel is great too.I have 2 tattoos that aren't visible unless I want them to be, so if you don't like tattoos, I'm not your girl. I find tattoos very attractive on a man as well.My family and friends are awesome and extremely important to me.If you are a man who is honest, funny, intelligent, respectful, outgoing, and not interested in a "booty call", but actually wants to spend time with a woman that will make you smile, then send me a message. Friendship first is my primary goal. If things move in the direction of a serious relationship over time, then that would be a very good thing! I've always dreamed of having a best friend who is also my soulmate. Infinite hope... Anywhere we could talk and get to know each other in a comfortable environment...a walk around the lake, a picnic, a cup of coffee, a quiet dinner. I love spontaneity, so surprise me!

  • Shala

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I signed up on here, then got steam rolled at work. But I have now found my balance :D I am ready for a relationship where both people are honest and on the same page. The only games I want to play are board games.....and maybe some hide and seek. I enjoy getting to know people and keeping them in my life. I am honest and upfront....solid, but not obese. And I think its great that those types can get their asses handed to them in a game and laugh about it after. I'm not restricting myself to a type. I'm just telling you what's attracted me in the past.I also appreciate those that read these profiles and try to take them at face value. Yes, I am that height and I enjoy wearing heels. Yes, I did say a few extra pounds. If the other things about me interest you, then message me. If me not being skinny is a problem, then don't bother. ( I told you above that I am honest)Don't send me pictures of your penis and don't ask me to be friends with benefits. If I wanted either of those things, I would've said so. Mini golfmoviesCoffeeWalking and talkingJust about anything fun to get to know people.

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